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So I tend to be a pickmeisha. I’m not proud of it and I’m working on improving. This guy showed me why I need to work on my independence. I turned down a date because the pandemic & then quickly got sick after. Here’s how he reacted after finally asking how I’m doing (two weeks later)

CaffeinexxQueen

March 31, 2020
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Title So I tend to be a pickmeisha. I’m not proud of it and I’m working on improving. This guy showed me why I need to work on my independence. I turned down a date because the pandemic & then quickly got sick after. Here’s how he reacted after finally asking how I’m doing (two weeks later)
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CaffeinexxQueen

Upvotes 17
Comments 16
Date March 31, 2020 5:52 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fshlui/so_i_tend_to_be_a_pickmeisha_im_not_proud_of_it/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/so-i-tend-to-be-a-pickmeisha-im-not-proud-of-it.1068721
https://theredarchive.com/post/1068721

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[+]yazzy_12 points 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

This guy is bragging about hanging out with people when you just told him you’re sick AND while everyone should be in isolation.. wtf. I’d block and delete.

[–]CaffeinexxQueenFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yup! The second red flag was he got SUPER upset when I questioned him asking me to hang out the day our state shut down. He got really offended and said I made him feel stupid. Which I really wanted to be like yeah you should feel stupid but I didn’t. I was nice and still tried to talk to him like an idiot. I blocked & deleted him this afternoon

[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As he should feel stupid. What an idiot.

[–]mrCNeverSleepingFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What a dickface. You sound like a genuine normal human woman here. He’s an immature and lvm asshat. Edit: Sorry, no edit. This guy is such trash for not thinking or giving one clear anything about anything else BUT getting HIs dICk WeT.

[–]CaffeinexxQueenFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you! This was technically the third red flag from him and I wasn’t interested in a relationship anymore but I did think he was decent to talk to until this train wreck 🙄

[–]pumpernick3lFDS STRATEGY COACH 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

We’re not supposed to post convos with LVM. We know LVM gonna LVM. Every response they get from us is our loss. Block and delete.

[–]CaffeinexxQueenFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m sorry I didn’t realize that was a rule. This was my first post, thank you for letting me know!

I was proud of myself for realizing his LVM behavior because like I said I’m a recovering pickmeisha and any improvement is exciting to me.

[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

I didn't realize that either, but if anything it names and shames them. Not everyone is keen to the bullshit, especially women in their early 20s and younger.

But ya I agree with you about not entertaining them with conversation. It's mild popcorn at best reading what the 🤡 says to convince a woman "but I love you so let me put my peepee in uuuuu"

[–]pumpernick3lFDS STRATEGY COACH 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

They don’t need to be named and shamed, they know they’re POS. They’re just looking for women to give them any sort of attention, good or bad. It’s in our best interests to not entertain them.

[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm talking about posting their bullshit for the benefit of other women not for men.

[–]pumpernick3lFDS STRATEGY COACH 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, but we don’t necessarily want to encourage this behavior. The best response is no response.

[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True

[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Big insecure dickface using your sickness as a way to make it about himself. Emotional vampire alert

[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You could have it, actually. Apparently a large percentage of the population has mild symptoms compared to the more aggressive, deadly symptoms. Many hospitals aren't equipped to just test and treat anyone, so thank you for just staying home.

What a pos. He literally doesn't give a fuck if it infects someone immune-compromised. I fucking hate LVM - more concerned about getting your dick wet than worrying about the wellness of fellow human beings. Disgusting.

Nasty ass parasites.

[–]CaffeinexxQueenFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I most likely do have it actually! my little sister is in health care and she tested positive. I was first sick in the house and I’m going on day 14 of being sick so my doctor is treating me as if I have it. I’m really glad I was responsible!

[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also safe bet is to isolate for at least two weeks. I have had a cold for a week so I'm not even thinking to return to working until after the possible transmission window is closed.

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