I don’t watch porn because I’m aware of the long term effects it has on relationships, but I see many women here speak about how we should all avoid men who watch porn (and I agree), but then turn around and say that while single they have a vibrator to keep them company?

What are your thoughts on women watching porn and is it okay because we don’t put the same unrealistic standards on men as they do on us from what they watch?

I just don’t understand why women keep saying they don’t need a man for orgasm (which I understand), but then it’s not okay for men to watch porn? I thought we all believed that the porn industry is inherently harmful? Something just isn’t adding up