I didn't know where else to post this.

DavidByron2 · 2021-09-26T18:16:09+00:00

Yeah it sucks to be judged as bad or worse just for how you were born.

This happens to men and many other minorities too.

CultofHappy · 2021-09-26T19:21:23+00:00

In my 20s I had long hair. You gotta learn the hair flip and “don’t be jealous” but these days you can say Karen instead of bitch. 🤣

They STFU if they know you can’t be bothered. Some women (especially those expiring) cannot grow long hair so they act out.

Psychological_Ad4604 · 2021-09-26T23:21:18+00:00

It really sucks but men are loved conditionally, that’s why dogs are “mans” best friend, they provide unconditional love.

evenmoremeancomments · 2021-09-26T19:16:27+00:00

I get the way you're feeling. I'm 24 and I'm starting to go bald myself. Most men in my family are bald and they worked very hard to help me when I started showing "signs". They didn't specifically talk about what they went through, but I understood their pain by the way they acted.

I see this everywhere, where men are shamed (mostly by women) for things they have no control over, mostly height, hair, dick size and the likes. Yet with women it's the exact opposite, you can't even think about commenting on their appearance, even about something they can change, most notably their weight. You're instantly a misogynistic incel for doing so.

There's no real way to solve this currently. However, what you can do is support your fellow men that are being shamed and help them any way you can. Even if it's something as small as offering your hear to let them vent. It'll mean a lot for them, especially people going through baldness, which is inevitable once it starts. I know this is overused, but be the change you want to see

Men-Are-Human · 2021-09-26T21:22:59+00:00

Long hair is awesome, and they're just conformists who are afraid of anyone and anything outside their bubble. They aren't worth your time. You'll find a woman who really digs it sooner or later. Personally, I think it's a good litmus test of personality. And the baldness? That's horrible, and it's like calling a woman out for tiny boobs. Short of surgery, I. Both cases, there's not much you can do. But I feel really sad for your family going bald that young. That would really hurt.

IronJohnMRA · 2021-09-27T12:47:16+00:00

Sorry if this isn't the right forum. I didn't know where else I could post this.

You're in the right place. Welcome.

pudgebone · 2021-09-26T19:16:43+00:00

I'm confused on the part where they blame you for your hair because you're a man. I have long hair and have not encountered this. Could you elaborate please?

Ready_Inevitable2718 · 2021-09-26T20:43:20+00:00

What do you mean women blame you for your hair?

People will always mock over things outside of your control. People are mocked daily for being stupid or ugly.

Tanman55555 · 2021-09-27T05:48:53+00:00

As a man that has full hair and good hair too with a lineage of solid hair I take it for granted but i never once think its weird when a guy shaves his head. Its weird people talk trash about each other all the time with such seriousness

Title	I didn't know where else to post this.
Author	imgurRefugee85
Upvotes	94
Comments	26
Date	September 26, 2021 6:12 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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