I remember that a couple of years ago, I saw a post that was either here on on r/MensRights that was a medium post by a non-binary graduate student in social psychology about the problems with how people use the term toxic masculinity. The thing that stuck out to me was they said that policing men's behavior is the point of toxic masculinity. So people who use that term to police men's behavior are part of the problem. I am trying to find it, because I want to write a blog post about that same subject and cite my sources appropriately. But I can't find it. Does anyone else remember what I am talking about? If so, then can you link me to it?