I used to be fat and slovenly and lazy. That's like 2 years in the past. I improved, a lot, moved out, paid all my debts.

Still my family, particularly my parents, insult me. Either overtly or underhanded. They're the ones that gave me bad advice since ever and when I was on my way to getting better, I felt they were sabotaging me.

I just want to be treated with some level of respect, same as I treat others. My parents sat me down enough on lectures on respect a ton, even though I was there best kid by far, but don't seem willing to give any.

I don't want to leave the situation, because it's highly likely my dad will be dead in 5 years. But I reached the end of my rope as well.