Ok, I dress well, I am groomed right, I play sports, have a good diet and am in pretty good shape, have a well paying corporate job with a good career prospective and I take time to read self help books and have read a lot of books mentioned on TRP to build a better influence across the work place.

But I dont understand what game is.

The book that I have read on game which really makes sense is Models by Mark Manson. Women respond to me and I escalate but they just go away if I escalate too far. I try this with every attractive woman at a bar (shotgun logic) and the bar gets played out and I run out of all options. I consider myself as a Rake (from the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene) because I like being honest with myself and using that style. They respond well and like my company but they just back out when I try to kiss close them. I also understand that I should let the women think about why they dont wanna fuck me but that just leaves me not even trying to improve my game.

Then there is this whole concept of "Let the women chase you". Well, they don't.

I hate sounding like a little bitch but I wanna get this area of my life fixed.