Been on the fence about LTR this girl. Just wanna run these few things past everyone to see if I'm acting beta about them or insecure.

Firstly. She got angry with me due to the questions I ask when she goes out with friends, saying I give her "the 20 questions" The biggest "offending question" was "What time will you be home". She got pretty angry and said "How do I know when I'll be home! I go out with no set time saying I'll be home by midnight dad!" I admit, when she goes out I ask with who, where, what happened, when will you be home etc.. I didnt think this a problem. We've been together close to a year. Plus about 5 years ago she was car jacked. And I live in the suburbs her in the city.

Secondly, along the same lines..Shes been pushing for us to live together within the next few months. Shes been actively looking for places out here in the suburbs. In a cab on the way to a concert about 2 weeks ago I asked her "Will you miss the city" and she said "No, Ill prob go out more once I dont live here. Thats how it is, you live in the city and you just dont go out." I asked how much "out more" was and she went back into her "Oh here you go, 20 questions whenever I discuss going out!" Now, on 4th of July at a BBQ of her friends we attended who lived in the city I overheard her talking to her friend and she said the same thing to her friend along the lines of "Oh I know, once I get out of here and back to the Burbs Ill come back out with you guys again. Gotta escape when you get trapped out their!"

Disclaimer about these two things: She might be all talk.

What I mean. We've been together a year. In that time she has gone out with friends/alone 2 times. Once I workes Halloween night and she attended a bar party and once a concert/after party.

She is 31. She spent years 26-30 deep in the party/bar/club scene. When we first got together I assumed "bar slut" due to an EXTENSIVE collection of pictures she had on her FB documented those years. What I learned is she spent 26-29 as the sidechick of a doorman and he broke it off pretty much after her 29th birthday. Shes spent the year before we met sitting at home, focusing on work since then. Her friends and social circle are all still amassed in the scene but shes become the one they joke about whos in bed by midnight now and never hangs out anymore. When she gets invites or VIP's she declines or ask me to go. Ive seen invites come across her FB feed and asked "You going to that party?" and shes responded "You work that night, you know I dont go out without you." (Shes taken me to numerous invites shes recieved) Usually on Fri and Sat nights when I call her and ask what she has planned for the night her usual response is "You no I dont go out without you" or "You know I dont have any friends" (alluding shes been out the scene and theyve passed her by I take it)

So, I'm stuck thinking...is this a bullshit test shes throwing at me? Is she simply being all talk thinking shes gonna get back out their with the girls and shit down bars...or am I about to LTR a girl looking to get back in the scene. Am I wrong for even thinking a girl who thinks like that or acts like that isnt LTR material?

This isnt 30ish year old woman looking for an LTR action is it?