And you don't have to be a mysterious lady slayer to become this as well. You just need things to overlap that you share other than liking the way she looks. And the more you can skew the things that overlap, the better you stand out.

People often think the way we interact these days is what's making it difficult for men to find success with women, but I think these apps make it easier for you to stand out since most people are dull, uninteresting and for a lack of a better word "thirsty", it's hard to come by real people. There's plenty things you can relate to someone with more than the surface level stuff. Don't give up on interacting with someone if you think it's not going anywhere, keep it light-hearted and talk about what ever it is that interests you both, you know the language, you know the culture & the memes.

The reason why I bring up instagram is because I've realized that most girls you will meet online/offline will have one and even if you don't have a ton of pics on there, it's key part of the way they will communicate, this is what I've come to discover after certain patterns. I point out my experience of 2 girls I've followed from dating apps months ago started liking and commenting back on my photos and I've voice chatted with the other one. What I know is that most girls will have guys doing the exact opposite or too scared to joke and refuse to in hopes of not upsetting her (newsflash you're still a stranger), or leaving hearts like a bot.

Truth I've always wanted to be surrounded by beautiful women and I think part of the reason because I was persuaded by Red Pill gurus that having that is why draws in the one that you actually want. But they don't teach you anything beyond tricks and one liners, that are designed for certain environments and are completely useless everywhere else. If you can build a connection overtime, they will come and you must believe that you're a valuable person and worthy. Because without a healthy self esteem it will be challenging to connect with people, believe you'll believe they're above your level based on your perception of them after looking at a few eventful photos when you don't know anything about them. That what was going through my mind this time last year and it got me no where, all it did was avoid trying.