Showerthoughts on Lady Dimitrescu

Newbie1955 · 2021-11-19T22:40:53+00:00

The "bad boy" thing is just as common for women as the "hot crazy chick" thing is for men, but you never hear red pill talking about how many men go nutso over legit crazy, unstable women.

PM_ME_DNA · 2021-11-19T23:32:32+00:00

1) TRP tells you never to go for those types of girls because the man has to lead all the time.

2) TRP tells you that only Betas want that.

3) Lady Dimitrescu is fiction and if she was real, she'd murder you. For any decent guy, a loving partner is enough.

israelregardie · 2021-11-20T01:07:36+00:00

As someone who is into getting stepped on by femdoms, I can say that such desires are not looked on favorably by Redpillers. At least not the ones I know. You are basically the enemy for allowing women to have even more power over men. You're the lowest of the low.

juliuspepperwoodchi · 2021-11-19T21:47:17+00:00

Concerning the question of why (some) women fantasize about bad boy "alpha males"

I mean, pseudoscience about "alphas" aside, yeah. That's the thing. TRP isn't wrong in that SOME women like men like that, they're just wrong about their assertion that ALL women want that, whether they "think so" or not

Where do fantasies about getting stepped on by the tall vampire lady (and sexy dominatrixes in general) fit into RedPill theology? Are they acknowledged at all?

Pretty sure being a submissive mal in any way would make you a beta, a cuck, or both, in TRP's eyes.

Thought exercise: suppose you encountered a woman who constantly worried that no man would ever look twice at her (or that any man she did date would be constantly looking for opportunities to cheat on her) because guys get horny for Lady Dimitrescu instead of nice girls like her. What would you say to her?

I mean, does such a woman even exist? If so, I'd suggest she get therapy because she's clearly struggling with some pretty serious self esteem issues.

ET-Osmio-180599 · 2021-11-22T14:55:21+00:00

There is a study, I will soon publish those studies here, but it analyzed women and men alike on their rate of violence and crime.
It turns out that violent women were paired with violent men.
Low violent women were paired with low violent men.
So there is no such thing as a woman wanting it, a woman simply attracts what she is.
Also, low self-esteem often leads to relationships with toxic people and abusive relationships.

crystalized17 · 2021-11-25T02:29:29+00:00

Ok I’m only answering this because I like talking about Lady D for any reason lol.

Ok so this why so many people enjoy fantasies of “being dominated” and it goes both ways: men being stepped on by femmedome or a woman being dominated by a powerful man (Dracula and many others). In real life, these relationships are abusive and eventually fall apart. For most people, I think they are enjoying the fantasy of “being dominated” and don’t actually do it in real life or seek it out. “Rape” fantasies are common in women (see any fanfiction site) and pretty common in men too. But these fantasies aren’t quite true rape, they’re usually “dubious consent”. The whole “I am resisting you, but secretly I’m attracted to you and want you to make me admit it.” I’ve read some literature in the past that attempts to guess at what might be causing so many to indulge in such fantasies and they’re suggestion was it was a way to feel “safe” while being made vulnerable. People (men and women) want to be close to a partner. They want to be vulnerable. But they’re also terrified of getting hurt. Having a fantasy of someone forcing you into the vulnerable position, well that feels “safe” because after all, it is just a fantasy. I also think it’s some kind of repressed desire to be taken care of. Being an adult is scary and that never fully stops, no matter how old you get. Life is unpredictable and things happen without warning. A fantasy of someone strong enough to make you vulnerable is also probably strong enough take care of you in troubled times. I think that is especially true for women, but men too, when the stress of life becomes too great.
I don’t think these guys would be interested in it at all, or if they were, they would never admit it in front of others.
Don’t date guys who have slept around. Don’t sleep around yourself. Look for someone who wants to get married and is serious about it. If you don’t date people engaged in hook-up culture, it’s very easy to trust they’re also not the cheating type because they’ve already demonstrated extraordinary self-control by refusing live like the rest of society. If you can’t find an upstanding man like that, then you’re better off celibate and single. You don’t deserve to be treated like a disposable napkin by a guy, and vice-versa, ladies shouldn’t treat men like disposable napkins.

Title	Showerthoughts on Lady Dimitrescu
Author	rhowena
Upvotes	15
Comments	13
Date	November 19, 2021 9:43 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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