I'm moving states with my LTR. We're both leaving behind family. Her family does not approve. Last night I walked in on her crying in the shower, the type where your struggle to breath and can't speak. I had a gut feeling that it was due to one of her exs, just by her demeanor. After calming her down she revealed that it just got to her how this was "going to break (her) besfriend's heart". So, not an ex, but another guy. I was taken aback and she noticed then added how it was also because of her family. I credited the crying to him and the way she was crying bothered me. She said she would like to see him one last time to say goodbye. I've never met the guy, but know they've known eachother since childhood. Seems like an orbiter, but once found a saved screenshot of him referring to her as "babygirl" and her to him as "babyboy".

I realize I was bothered because she may have more than friendly feelings towards him, and if that's the case I don't want to put up with it. Also, because I think this guy might make a last physical effort if she sees him and her hamstring her cheating.

I'm working on my SMV, but it's not great at the moment. I'd just like to know how I can address her request to see him? Do I give the ok, tell her I don't approve, warn her, go meet the guy myself and leave them to talk? Am I just overthinking this and it really is nothing more than friendship? If anything happens I'll leave without her, but I'd rather not have anything happen.