Just to update some of you, I've gotten a few concerns that they don't want to see every single post of every single outing in the comment section. Out of courtesy, I will not post every single outing. However, this approach was worth posting. Once again, I post these for people who are interested and it can help them. If you aren't a fan of this post or just want to troll, think of your fellow subredditors before you try to get these posts removed.
Over the last few days, I was listening to some Alan Roger Currie audio books to get me in the spirit of things. Keep in mind that me doing this exercise is to focus more on direct approaches rather than indirect approaches. I'm not saying I was Mode One by Alan Roger Currie standards, but he would have said I was bold, straight-forward, and upfront.
Anyway yesterday, after work, I went to buy some groceries at Walmart. There was a customer with a big ass rolling through the aisles buying her things. You know those coincidences where you happen to be in the same aisle as another person and it's kinda like you're following one another. However, she wasn't following me and I wasn't following her, it was pure coincidence. When it was time for me to pay for my stuff, she was behind me about to pay for her stuff. I went to a cashier that was further down from her.
When I reached the parking lot, her car happened to be parked across from mine. I told myself to just go for it. This time I was a little loose because I was listening to some ARC all week. She was putting her things away so I pulled my cart perpendicular to hers and the interaction went a little like this:
Me: "Need some help?"
Her: "No, I'm fine."
Me: "I'm not gonna lie, I checking your ass out in one of the aisles. You have a nice big ass"
Her: "Oh, thank you" said with a light chuckle.
Me: "Let me get your number"
Her: "Oh, I'm married with two kids"
Me: "Well, at least you know you still got it. Have a nice day ma'am." and I walked over to my car.
That interaction felt better to me because I was bolder and I think I'm starting to get in the spirit of things. Even though I didn't ask her for her name but instead complimented her ass, I'm pretty sure she was flattered due to having two kids and being married. Wives and mothers love to still know that they still get hit on by random men. She wasn't hot, but she was fuckable. So that probably made her extra flattered. I still felt pre-game heart pumps, but I think that feeling will diminish the more I go out and approach.
Tip: Don't be afraid to be bold. I know that it's a no-no to compliment a woman's body because they hear it a lot, but I think women hear indirect approaches more than direct approaches. I'm not advising telling a woman she has a nice ass or nice tits, but I do think a bolder approach builds confidence and gives you a better sense of accomplishment even if you get rejected. So something like,
"I'm not gonna lie, what you have on is turning me on and I felt I had to approach you"
Not a script, just an example.
Anyway, I understand that this is still the Red Pill subreddit and you have to be careful with #MeToo and everything, but if a woman rejects you, don't save your ego by trying to convince her. She rejects you, tell her to have a nice day and keep it moving This minimizes what you are doing to be called harassment. Now, if she busts your balls that's a little different. Something like,
"Do you objectify all the women you talk to?"
you can have a witty retort like,
"Something tells me you don't mind being objectified. As a matter of fact, you wished more men you were attracted to would do it more often"
Once again, not a script, just an example.
Would you make bolder approaches even though it could mean you'll get criticized and/or quickly rejected?
What are your thoughts?
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