Ok. Off the bat I'm 19 but I look in my mid twenties. Two and a bit years of bodybuilding and gorilla genes have made me both bulky and bearded.

So I've been speaking with this girl who's 21 , easily an 8 ,and she's just found out my age saying that I'm too young for her. She's already expressed a lot of interest it's just the only barrier is my age. Last boyfriend was 30 and seeing as I'm younger than her she is now speaking in more of a tone that you would to a child rather than a man. No extreme condescension but you can tell its there.

Wondering if there is any good way of trying to break through that barrier.

Edit: stopped a sentence halfway through. Finished it off.