Having had multiple conversations with men in this sub and other related subs, plus judging from my own experience, the one common denominator that I have identified is the general delusion of inadequacy that men carry around. Not feeling good enough, not thinking very highly of yourself. While this may not be evident to someone in the throngs of depression and low self esteem, it is something that is plain as day to me.

But here is the real clincher. It seems that most men assume women, and especially good looking women, think very highly of themselves. That their self esteem and confidence is through the roof and as unshakable as Mount Everest. This of course in my opinion couldn't be further from the truth. So my question to men is, so you really believe that the hot women you come across every day really think all that highly of themselves?