Im usually the one to point out”it’s not sexist that women get slut shamed because men get virgin shamed” but when you really think about how much women get slut shamed..and also the facts that women are expected to consider themselves to good for most guys, and encouraged to lash out at guys for hitting on them, and constantly told they shouldn’t be upset over a guy.

Men are constantly told finding a girlfriend is so important, and it seems to me that homosexual women are much less afraid to come out then men. Partially because getting girls is such a huge part of life to men, I’d say (not all) but a lot of straight guys have a harder time seeing a gay guy as one of the guys then for women to see lesbians as one of the girls. (Even if the gay guy doesn’t act in a stereotypical manner.

A lot of anonymous forms for gay men are full of ones who still say they will never tell anyone. I’ve also met several men who only tell other gay people and strictly keep it a secret otherwise.Yet I can’t keep track of how many girls I’ve known came out. There also the fact that people seem to have a harder time believing that a man can be bisexual, I’ve met men AND women who enjoy sex with men AND women. I’ve also met men and women who just had a phase where they claimed they’re bi.

There’s also the fact of representation, thetons of current kids cartoons have a prevalent lesbian character. Some background characters are gay men and there’s some instances where it’s acknowledged once but nothing comes of it.a few of these shows have a lesbian main couple but there’s only one kids show I can think of with a male on male couple in the main cast. Homosexual women still have the struggle of a few homophobic people and having to tell there families but I’d still say societies less accepting of gay men. I think it’s fair to say being attracted to guys is considered a bad thing even if you are a girl