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‘We’ve had calls from men who have suffered 50 years of domestic abuse. They can’t start a second home’

JohnKimble111

December 27, 2021
138 upvotes
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https://www.independent.ie/life/health-wellbeing/weve-had-calls-from-men-who-have-suffered-50-years-of-domestic-abuse-they-cant-start-a-second-home-41185123.html
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Title ‘We’ve had calls from men who have suffered 50 years of domestic abuse. They can’t start a second home’
Author

JohnKimble111

Upvotes 138
Comments 11
Date December 27, 2021 5:01 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/rprvn6/weve_had_calls_from_men_who_have_suffered_50/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/weve-had-calls-from-men-who-have-suffered-50-years.1090392
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Comments

[–]Blue-floyd77 46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Further proof this issue isn’t “new”. Just very well hidden.

[–]Amazingshot 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Paywall

[–]AnonymousBlobfish 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just learned the notion of gender symmetry in DV.. Opened my eyes a lot as a woman, thanks.

[–]THe1NES 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link

Yeah just from the description domestic abuse is way more two-sided than many people believe. I still think men are the main perpetrators most of the time in heterosexual relationships which exhibit domestic abuse, but the situation even then is often nuanced.

EDIT: after reading a study from the AJPH (2007) by Daniel J. Whitaker, PhD, Tadesse Haileyesus, MS, Monica Swahn, PhD, and Linda S. Saltzman, PhD, I stand corrected. It uses credible methods to assert that men are targeted more than women by domestic violence

[–]GeorgeOlduvai 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If you think men are the main perpetrators, you may want to try checking this sub for the actual stats.

[–]THe1NES 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Tell me where they are

[–]GeorgeOlduvai 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Posted fairly regularly. Have a look.

I'll give you one to chew on while you look for others.

http://www.newscastmedia.com/domestic-violence.htm

[–]THe1NES 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok this website is awful it doesn’t link to the Harvard article. BUT another study from the NCBI published in the AJPH (2007) does present this conclusion. To add credibility to those so inclined, 2 of the 4 researchers were female. You’re right

[–]SnooPets2522 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I was in an abusive relationships and I wasn't the perpetrator in there. But most people won't believe me just because I'm a man though my ex-girlfriend drove me so crazy to the point where I went to mental hospital. It was 6 years ago but I won't be able to forget that (psychic traumas are unhealable unlike physical ones). The stigma that men can't be victims of women's actions and that men can't be victims of any kind of mental and physical abuse in general is what makes me sad. Though I understand that there're women that are good (my current girlfriend for instance)

[–]Doc911 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

FYI, for a direct link and quote, the numbers, as SELF reported by men AND WOMEN. "Among relationships with nonreciprocal violence, women were reported to be the perpetrator in a majority of cases (70.7%), as reported by both women (67.7%) and men (74.9%)." - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/

[–]emptyMare0 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not nearly as often as you’re overthinking it

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