https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/05/how-do-i-talk-family-friends-about-my-divorce/590188/

A guy explains that after divorce, all his friends are siding with his wife. The wife is bad-mouthing him, his X-friends tends to feel that the "woman needs protection".

The therapist? She completely ignores the sexist aspect, although it has been clearly stated by the people involved.

Also does not forget to add a sexist aspect against men... it is usually men who try to blindsight their spouses

Then there are friends who feel insecure in their marriage and worry that spending time with a divorced person (especially a happily divorced person) will plant the idea of divorce in their partner’s mind.

This kind of institutionalization, that is coming through "official" channels is way more damaging that the random men-hating raging "feminist", who at the end of the day is easy to discern and ignore. That is what we are facing.