Any tips? Me and my husband only fight once a month but when we do it sucks. I can be very emotional, cry and unfortunately can be immature (raising my voice, personal attacks). I want to be a better wife, and especially want to work on this before our kids are old enough to see their parents arguing. He just sometimes says things that are mean and then I get so upset, especially if I didn’t sleep because of the baby. This morning he asked me why I didn’t do the dishes and I just snapped because I woke up at 4 AM with the baby and she has been fussy and teething all day. But I don’t want to snap anymore. It caused us to fight for half an hour. Any advice?