23, no friends, no gf, no life but just work.

kindaOKbut · 2016-08-07T04:10:15+00:00

First step is to start lifting. Everything else will follow.

Go to the gym, even if you don't feel like it. Just go and read a book, or use the sauna. Make a habit out of being at the gym, and it won't take so much effort to keep up the momentum when you don't really feel like going.

but I believe I am greater than most people

but

I just have no desire any more.

I am just lost.

I am living aboard with my family

I have failed business college

I have no friends, never had a gf

Where do you get the idea you're better than most people? You may have potential, but potential is squandered if you don't work to realize it.

Read the sidebar.

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2comment · 2016-08-07T04:43:40+00:00

I feel like a trapped kid inside of me, but I believe I am greater than most people, I want...

Women are valued for being, men are valued for what they're doing.

Go and do.

PraetereoBonobos · 2016-08-07T07:42:15+00:00

You only crave power. Sex, women, and money are only different ways to attain and show power. I imagine the reason you crave power is because you have none, at least you think you don't. That may be why you feel so trapped. I don't know your entire situation, but from what you have shared it does not seem as grim as you may think and you may have a lot more power than you realize.

First understand that humans have very little power in the universe We can't control the weather, natural disasters, time, who our parents are, when we were born, and I could keep going on, just realize, you will never have control over those things, so accept them and move on.

Now what you do have control over is you, nobody is more important than you and how you spend your time . Once you accept that, truly believe it, and start acting it, you will begin to attain power. You will develop values and break them for no one, not even yourself. You will stop wasting your time on other people who haven't earned it, and you wont tolerate disrespect. If you don't, I fear you will always feel trapped.

You are a man with 40k saved up and from my understanding, no debt, kids, or criminal record. That in itself holds more power than most men have in this world. You are a man who has the ability to leave his job without a moments notice and start fresh anywhere in the world. So start acting like it and stop letting the world define how you live and how you are treated. Forget the house, forget the successful people, and remember who you are.

What did you want to be as a kid? Sacrifice what ever it takes to do it. You can live happily with only a mattress and food if you are working towards your goals. If you don't know what you want to be/do make your goal figuring it out. You have the funs to start classes on topics that interest you. If nothing interests you, pick some random shit until you find something that does. Volunteer, intern, join clubs, do what ever it takes. The only way you will attain power over your life is if you start being the man you already are and act.

SlothOnRoids · 2016-08-07T11:22:01+00:00

You have enough money to put a down payment on a multiple unit rental property, make your money make money for you. You could work part time and keep collecting those rent checks every month. Save up some more, rinse and repeat. There's a few guys at my company who do this and are pulling in 6 figures living very comfortable in their 30s.

Ali_s1987 · 2016-08-07T10:33:53+00:00

This might not be a popular thing to say but welcome to adulthood.

EdvardMunch · 2016-08-07T14:48:30+00:00

Your last line sounds really ignorant to me because you have never had those things and so how do you know you want them?

Being fulfilled is a tricky pokemon to catch. I'm nearing the body I've always wanted with rock hard abs, a back that looks like a greek sculpture and a butt that I almost get turned on looking at. Yet, I feel no different in regards to being fulfilled.

I'd just save up your cash, get the fuck out of dodge and go explore the world a bit. It sounds like you have a lot of experiences you need to live. Men are cultured, men think globally when it is available. You get a lot of these things you've listed by not being boring and living with your parents.

GunPostal · 2016-08-07T15:16:12+00:00

What you are experiencing is called a Low Vibration Energy.

It's the procrastination, the doubt, the fear, the anger, the lack of something... Anything negative that is holding you back to the next level to your full potential.

All those examples you described above is just the tip of the iceberg, the symptoms of a much bigger issue. For example, A drug addict is dependent on drugs not just because of the drug it self, there is a deeper emotional pain that's causing him to crave the substance to help him forget the pain so he cannot be fully helped unless he identifies the pain first.

Usually it is categorized in the following: Daily, historical or operational.

This energy will remain in your body, regardless of what you do to pump yourself up, it will pull you back down to LVE from any progress you have done, unless you release it.

I am not yet done studying the exact technology on identifying and fixing this energy thing but I have a quick solution that might help.

1.) Learn EFT or emotional freedom techniques. There are YouTube videos and free content about it in google. It will help you release the pain very fast and easy.

2.) Once you release the pain and felt a lot better with EFT, download a software called Freemind for your PC which is a free mind mapping software and use it to organize a PLAN on how can you begin to improve your current situation. Use it also to interview yourself by literally typing questions and answering them until you find the root cause of your problems.

Expect that you will be using EFT over and over as you progress through the self interview and planning. Just keep releasing your low vibration energy and the next thing you know the solution is already within you and you can move forward.

tylertgbh · 2016-08-07T15:56:08+00:00

Have you thought about what you want to do with your life? Do you have any intention of trying to get more education again? Have you thought about something you can do to get out of the cycle of low skill jobs?

It sounds like you're looking for a more fulfilling life, AKA a more fulfilling job.

troyv21 · 2016-08-07T04:21:02+00:00

read the sidebar, in its entirety
get your testosterone up, this is a post i like, there are many more if you search https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4uxqne/testosterone_cortisol_and_the_alpha_male/
the only motherfucker in this world that is ever going to push you is yourself, stop blaming the job, stop blaming the lack of motivation, you need to create it and make it happen. you have ALOT of money saved up for someone your age, I wont tell you what to do with that money, but it sounds like you are scared of paying interest on a loan - there are benefits of taking out a loan on a home.o you have enough saved up to pay about 2-3 years on a mortgage on a decent home while doing absolutely nothing with your life and being unemployed. think about that.

faggotbrains · 2016-08-07T10:01:50+00:00

Read bro.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4tnehw/i_know_you_are_pissed/

Here is my reading list with what I have read and what I want to read

https://faggotbrainz.wordpress.com/2016/07/12/assume-formlessness/

Title	23, no friends, no gf, no life but just work.
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Date	August 7, 2016 3:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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