How to not get oneitis?

PraetereoBonobos · 2016-08-07T20:45:47+00:00

First of all stop prioritizing women, they don't define you, no one gives a shit that you have slept with 61 women. Feelings are just that feelings. You may not be able to control them and it is ok to have them. Recognize them but don't let them decide things for you. Never make a decision because of a feeling. Everyone one gets oneitis there is no preventing it but you can deal with by taking a step back, recognizing your feelings, where you stand in life and what you want.

Not all plates have to come to an end and it is ok to settle down but you have to be ready for it, and you are not ready for it. So take that step back, find some different pussy and the oneitis will go away.

RedAsBlood · 2016-08-09T04:53:45+00:00

For me, the point when I realized I would never ever develope oneitis again was seeing behind the veil to the true nature of women. Dealing with a BPD ex and meeting (and fortunately avoiding) a true DT woman.

Once you see their true nature and understand what makes them tick, I honestly think it is impossible to develope oneitis.

Its not that all women are terrible, sure some are better than others, but they are not what most guys make them out to be. They are very socially adept, much more so than men and have their own missions and set of goals.

TheWizardofBaghdad · 2016-08-07T21:36:40+00:00

1.Abundance mentality cures oneitus. 2.Mentality comes from having abundance. 3.Which comes from high SMV and game. 4. Improve SMV and game

AlphaManliness · 2016-08-07T23:54:08+00:00

Nothing is for free. "She is DTF always, sex is fucking amazing." because ...... she wants to make you think this oneitis way. Because it will benefit her in the long run. Nothing wrong with that but will it benefit you in the long run ? You can play a constant dread game with her and keep getting wonderful experiences. As long as it lasts

aurelius_shrugs · 2016-08-08T03:57:26+00:00

Everybody gets got. That's a sure fire cure. Let her put her hooks in you.

Then you when find out Chad banged every hole in her body, no more oneitis. AWALT, FYI.

Title	How to not get oneitis?
Author	fantastico5000
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	August 7, 2016 8:39 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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