We all know how it is sometimes. You're having a great day with a woman and she suddenly gets "weird". Maybe you've been dating for a month, maybe for 5 years. Nonetheless it usually goes like this, or a variation of it:
Her: "Did you look at her?"
You: "What?"
Her: "I saw it. You were looking at her ass. It's okay, you can tell me."
You: "No, what are you talking about?"
Her: "She's hot. I wouldn't even be mad."
You: "Stop it now."
Her: "Why are you being so weird?"
It's all downhill from there. If it wasn't already. You're trying to reason with her and explain that you didn't look. Although we all know you did, you slick dog you. Nonetheless, it doesn't matter at all. This isn't about you looking at some woman's fat and juicy ass in tight jeans. It's about you miserably crumbling under pressure. You're getting sucked into her frame by almost willingly entering this pointless argument and defending yourself.
Never argue with her. Laugh it off. Ignore her. Even enforce what she's accusing you of. Tell her "Oh yes, did you see it too? Dayuuumn". Even if she's about to transform into a dragon, you don't falter. Be firm and feel comfortable. Don't twitch and don't start touching your face because of the stress that's overcoming you like a wave. Sometimes you get the urge of massaging your forehead or your eyes with your fingers as you would after finishing a mentally demanding task. Don't do it in front of her. Wait until you're by yourself. You can crumble and lie down then. Gather your strength when you're alone and show it to the world.
I hope this post serves as a somewhat helpful starting chapter for this sub. Let's get this shit rolling.
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