Explains so much about FDS to me, and easy to remember and understand. It's not about men and women bringing the exact same thing to straight relationships, because women already bring much more to relationships in general and are challenged much more by them (more at risk, more societal pressure, etc.). This is why it makes sense to have men pay, why they'll likely get called out more on behaviors, why they may have more to learn in EQ/social skills, and so on. Sharing so you have this in your back pocket.