Male seperatism is the only logical way to live for men in the present day

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-01-22T03:55:05+00:00

a maid you didn’t have to pay

That’s called a slave

If that’s what you want, then yes. You should eschew marriage and women in general

2022-01-22T03:54:10+00:00

Get hypnotized by FemDom to be the perfect simp that would be stupid for her to divorce.

Vallerie_d · 2022-01-22T04:13:55+00:00

If you don't like women, their company, don't see them as valuable or you'll never be good enough for them, yes I agree don't bother. Get your rocks off with a whore and keep it moving. Some people might disagree with you but I don't because I know many men feel like this but they keep trying to force compatibility with women when they really despise us then create unhappy unions that end in disaster.

cautionTomorrow555 · 2022-01-22T04:31:02+00:00

So because men don't owe women anymore, they should completely opt out from having relationships with them? You're telling on yourself here. You and men who share your views definitely should opt out. Avoid women at all costs, please.

What you're missing here is that a lot of men do want to have romantic relationships. They see more value in them than just having a live-in maid that you don't have to pay and who can't leave you. There are emotional needs that get fulfilled in close intimate relationships, there's joy in spending your time with a person you love. There are also family-men who want to have kids and a partner to raise them with.

It isn't really logical for these men to opt out from dating and choose porn, prostitutes or drugs, if what they really want is romantic intimacy/marriage/family with kids etc. What would make more sense is to push for family law changes and to vet carefully using your head and not just your eyes and dick.

cautionTomorrow555 · 2022-01-22T04:08:36+00:00

This sub is literally the only place I've ever heard the idea of drugging yourself to blunt your sexual urges, and people drop it as casually as they'd recommend allergy pills. And yet that's still less ridiculous than suggesting that porn and prostitutes are a decent substitute for actual human connection.

I'm well aware it isn't the easiest thing to find if you're single and out of college, but I know plenty of dudes in [what appear from my perspective to be] happy relationships. I don't use the "go outside" cliche lightly, but this kind of nonsense warrants it. Your type of thinking can only come from way too much time reading doom and gloom on the internet, and way too little experience with normal people IRL. Relationships that bring value to both parties are very much feasible and happening all the time.

LalaTheSecond · 2022-01-22T04:13:22+00:00

I find relationships fun and cuddles are the best. If it's not for you it's ok.

brilliant22 · 2022-01-22T04:13:58+00:00

but this need can be fulfilled through either 1) porn, 2) a prostitute, or 3) drugs that reduce your sex drive.

is "male separatism" even the right phrase here? Sounds like you're promoting just not getting into relationships rather as opposed to separatism, given that you're still interacting with women

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-01-22T04:46:01+00:00

No rants.

H3l3l6758 · 2022-01-22T05:05:30+00:00

In the past when marriage confered more obvious benefits on men like having a maid you didn't have to pay who couldn't divorce you getting marriaged made much more sense for men.

You went too deep and got lost in the darkness. Marriage helped society to function because having 1 guy marry 10 women, only creates a lot of sexually frustrated men. And that was never a good option, back before porn or any replacement for sex was created.

Nowadays marriage is primarily the domain of women, who are most often the ones who want to get married and get divorced while the men sheepishily go along with their demands in a fruitless attempt to not upset them

Yea today marriage is a one way street, but this also will eventually Crack down on the world. And the Men that like a cow goes straight to the killing machine. Don't waste your time with them, this are the same men that would have died trying to be the hero back in the old times. Also is the Jester and Queen thing you get what I mean.

Most men aren't good enough for most women anyway, with the average woman finding the bottom 80% of men unattractive.

I agree since women confused equal partner with equal income. I've seen it happened how majority of Women who make a lot of money are looking for someone who makes at least more then they do. But also complain that the men that make the same or more then they do, marry a low income women. Because we Men know what having a high paying job means. and you cannot have a high paying job, have a family, be able to make it home before 6 PM cook and keep the house clean and do all this wonders that are from Lala land. All while been able to keep your high income job unless one of the partners works part time or no work at all. Unless your willing to pay hundreds on a babysitter and I've seen many kids grow up wit parents like that and trust me is not good.

Why should men put up with this?

We should not but like my grandmother use to tell me.

"Pussy has more pulling power then 100 bulls strap to a cart."

The primary motivation that most men have for getting into a relationship in the first place is sex,

I disagree about that one is usually emotional support which we men lack in many places. I don't have that support and many men here or any place can attest to this. And no therapy does not work, it was created for women because men did not want to listen to them. (Is a summary of therapy because that was basically it men discover that women speaking about there problems helped then more so therapy came into existence. Which was basically women finding someone to talk to.)

1) porn, 2) a prostitute, or 3) drugs that reduce your sex drive.

Those are not good options number 1 fucks you up mentally, 2 is not a good choice unless you can have sex without getting emotions for that person(and I disagree about men not catching feelings for women after having sex met many men that fell in love with a hooker and is not something to find funny or make jokes about in movies). And number 3 I forgot the name of the drug but it lowers your testosterone and also your will to live.

Am I being unreasonable or too cynical?

Your been neither is a genuine concern and opinion in my eyes. Does not mean I will agree with everything you say but I agree with a lot of it.

Or are far too many men compromising their own wellbeing unecessarily

Yes they are too many Men have a Female Caregiver fetish. Which women and many men laugh at them for this. But is serious concern because no one complains or says something about a women having a male caregiver fetish. The caregiver fetish is nothing more then Parental emotional neglect that has not been solved and made into the sexual area and even personal life.

This is coming from someone who had severe parental emotional neglect(great grandparents filled the role later in my life teen years accurately.)Maybe this is why I've been told all my life I behave like a Stoic.

Vtridolla · 2022-01-22T04:03:34+00:00

I don’t believe anyone is forcing you to get married compa.

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DonQOnIce · 2022-01-22T04:15:52+00:00

This is fine for men with an above average and better income. These days an average income doesn’t get much and your life will be much better in a dual income household.

I think there are more intimate benefits but I just feel like focusing on finance right now.

2022-01-22T04:25:00+00:00

First of all, the study you cited found while women may rate 80% of men as "less than average," they messaged all guys about equally, and in fact hit up "less than medium" guys the most.

Meanwhile it was men who directed most of their messages at the most attractive women, and ignored many of the women they'd deemed at least reasonably attractive.

https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/

Second of all, you literally just said marriage used to be having an unpaid maid for men. You also said men primarily get married for sex, which is hilarious because the couples I know who have been married for decades are either best friends and/or are dedicated to raising children in a stable environment together.

You're basically asking why men should get married if they don't get a bang-maid out of it, which, yeah...that's why a lot of women don't want to get married now. They want equal partners, not to be some guy's maid & sex servant when they already hold down jobs.

You're being too cynical, and also not getting the point of a life-long bond with a woman beyond sex & someone to pick up your shit, which is a you problem.

Booexgirlfriend · 2022-01-22T04:41:11+00:00

Women are useless until they aren't.

We're only useful for sex and for cooking but as a woman I should feel flattered. No need to reproduce. What a beautiful society, the future will be bright.

You found solutions for men's problems. Hire a maid, pay prostitutes and have a long and happy life.

The point is I don't want to hear complains. I don't want to hear men's complains. No more suicides and resentment.

No more excuses for the lack of female attention, affection and connection because you have it now.

Healthy relationships are worthy and they exist. When men see women as other species or objects instead of people, that's the beginning of unhealthy relationships.

Men with this mindset are doing women, specially young women a favor.

Why do you want a woman in your life if you don't want to get married and have children?

Marriage doesn't benefits men no more, if divorce doesn't exist, men would get married.

But what about women's happiness and needs?

Men are free to opt out and fortunately the damaged men are opting out right away.

Title	Male seperatism is the only logical way to live for men in the present day
Author	familiar-ceilings
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Comments	66
Date	January 22, 2022 3:42 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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