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| 0 | If sex work was truly a job as any other, we would have no problem promoting it for high schools studentsI really hate discourse about "X and Y are totally different" or "X and Y are totally the same" because almost every time the person fails to elaborate on exactly what metric they are comparing X and Y. You believe sex work is not "a job like any other" in terms of what exactly? In terms of how much it pays? In terms of how physically taxing it is? In terms of its health effects? What's the actual metric of your comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.Apparently the state of being attracted to more than one person at a time, and having more than one potential partner at a time, is a useless made up scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument."men aren't competing against other men for dates, they're competing against the peace she felt in solitude" is not an argument, it's a poetic way of saying nothing. I would argue that the second part of it is true, but what I disagree with is that this is somehow the only thing in competition and nothing else. For most people, the "competition" involves both the question of whether that person is happier single or coupled (competition A) as well as the question of whether a certain partner is b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.Most people are monogamous. Most people date one person at a time. Let me ask you, if a person has multiple people that they consider to add a benefit to their life (thereby "winning" the competition against the peace from being single), they can't date all of these people at the same time. So what do they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.What part of mud blossom's comment is "That's exactly what she was saying" referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.Hang on, then what do you actually think of what she said? What point were you trying to make posting it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.This "competing against [x]" rhetoric that is popular online (where [x] is "other prospects," "my peace," etc.) is not how normal people approach dating or relationships. Even this part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.If you are very confidently telling us what men compete with, then what women compete with should also be pretty straightforward to answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.The competition includes: that person's benefit from being single over being in a relationship, and that person's benefit from being with other suitors instead of with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.So then the notion that men aren't competing against other men is in fact correct. It's just an incomplete statement. They are competing with the woman's peace as well as other men, not instead of other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 08:53 PM |
| 5 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.It's not difficult to say that both of these things are part of the competition. It's not one or another. Most people are monogamous. So, you first have to "compete" with a person's desire for being single (however strong that is). And once you do that, you then have to compete with that person's other suitors. Here's a simple example. X likes A, and considers A to bring a net positive into their life. X also likes B, to an even greater extent, and thinks that B brings an even greater net positi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument.What do women compete with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 08:41 PM |
| – | Men have strong "men are wonderful" bias which makes it impossible to talk about any behavior any men display.OP's post appears to have two stances: A) That men have an ingroup bias. (a descriptive statement) B) That it is bad for men to have an ingroup bias. (a normative statement) Do you agree with A or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 11:33 AM |
| – | Most women are NOT happy being singleA lot of people don't understand what comparative statements are. "Minus 50 is cold" and "Minus 50 is warmer than minus 55" are two different statements and mean entirely different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 03:09 PM |
| – | Most women are NOT happy being singleWhat is your position? "Most women are not happy single" and "women are happier than men being single" are two completely different statements. The first statement says that the majority of women are not happy single. The second statement says that women, compared to men are happier being single. Both of these denote entirely different statements, and are certainly not contradictory. For example, it could be the case that most women are not happy single, but they are still happIER than men in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 03:05 PM |
| 0 | "Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past.If you premise that promiscuity is bad, then the fact that it's difficult for men to be promiscuous would actually make it worse for them to be promiscuous. Think about it -- being promiscuous is supposedly a bad thing. So men who are promiscuous are putting a lot of time, effort and energy into doing something bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 04:29 AM |
| 7 | "Men are praised for casual sex while women are berated for it" is a truism of the past.For women it would take more effort not to sleep around as finding a guy for sex is easier than not finding him. That makes no sense, if a woman doesn't want to hook up she can simply do nothing. What "effort" is involved here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 11:21 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandryIf not, then are you "incentivizing misogyny"? It would help to look at the specific argument that leads to the conclusion, regardless of which direction it is in (more valuable, less valuable). Suppose the answer is "less valuable". There are many people who think this, but it's interesting to note that their criticism of these men is on the basis that they harming these women, rather than harming themselves. Whereas criticism of women who do the same is on the basis that they are harming thems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Do they target all types of men indiscriminately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 01:43 AM |
| 10 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.When you say women are "just as creepy as men" are you talking about the frequency in that women do those things just as often as men do? Your title makes two claims - one that women are "just as creepy as men", and the other is that women get away with it in a way that men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 01:33 AM |
| 1 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferior"Worse" is a relative term. 10 is higher than 5. 10 is also higher than -3. Meaning none of this explains why the "assessment" of the person who had a head start has to specifically be negative, as opposed to just neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferiorThen what other forms of domination are there, pertaining to kissing someone and giving handjobs? If two people kiss how is it decided who is dominating and who's being dominated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferiorYou didn't answer the question. Your claim is that the easiness is supposedly what's deserving of shaming, right? Then going by that logic, anything that is easy is shameful. Even actions that have nothing to do with sex. Putting socks on is shameful. Following the directions on kraft mac and cheese is shameful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferiorSo now you're completely departing from the concept of "domination" and penetration. Jacking people off and kissing involves no penetration, so your argument falls apart. If you introduce new criteria then you're just pushing the goalposts. The difference is domination, people respect those who dominate over those who are submissive. Being constantly dominated makes one look weak man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:17 PM |
| 2 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferiorthere's zero effort required to sleep with her, ... there's nothing special or accomplished by being with her. vs If you're a man who had, that usually more impressive bc it takes effort Way to contradict yourself. So, there's zero effort required to sleep with her. Assuming you believe slutty women are abundant, then why are you saying it takes effort? Because if a guy wants to have sex all he has to do is find a slutty woman, who, according to you, takes "zero effort required to sleep with her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferiorSo then men are exclusively disgusted at women who specifically have PIV sex, but are totally fine with women merely kissing and giving handjobs to many men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:01 PM |
| 2 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferiorWhat do you mean by "dominating" someone in the context of people having sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferiorI can talk a lot about the asinine nature of the "easy=bad" argument but I just want to first point out that this type of mentality is what's causing a lot of men these days to feel sexually undesired. Telling women that they are dirty if they have sex with a bunch of men implies that sex with men is to be avoided, and that sex with men makes you worse off as a result. Telling men that by having sex with women the women are made dirty and worse off also implies the same thing. The overarching im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:55 PM |
| 2 | People who are disgusted by only female promiscuity see men as inferiorAs much as both men and women get shamed for promiscuity, whether we're talking sex with their own or opposite gender, there is a difference in exactly what is being shamed. Men shamed for sex with women: Because of the perception is that the men are making the women worse off. Women shamed for sex with men: Because of the perception is that the women are making themselves worse off. Notice that even the most misogynistic men who genuinely hate women, do not accuse the women of harming or defili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 03:42 PM |
| – | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.I can reply to this, and the answer is yes, they are literally saying this, but note how there is no fetishization of cis straight white men, it's always black men or gays. This is because of racism and homophobia respectively. Have you ever seen fetishization of cis straight white men doing cis straight men things? You can't fetishize the "default" of society, but the fact that there is such a "default" is the problem in the first place. I don't know why race is now relevant, but either way: Bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:55 AM |
| – | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.How is it a victim mentality to say women are not seen as real people when I'm a man? Also for accusing me of using just any argument to make my point, discrediting my opinion because of "victim mentality" if I happened to be in the other half of the population does sounds like one There are women out there who do the exact same thing for men, in that they grant men victimhood in their analysis of every social phenomena, and I would tell them the exact same thing. I think I'm right in discrediti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:21 AM |
| – | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.At no point in your original comment, where the original claim was being made, did you make an exception for "abusing" these powers. So if later on you add this exception then you are very clearly pushing the goalposts. But even ignoring the goalpost problem, what exactly is meant by "abusing" the ability to get laid? Are you implying it's bad to have lots of sex -- but, this somehow only applies when that ability was easily gained? As in, if it was difficult, then "abusing" your seduction skill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:59 AM |
| – | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.Hilarious you're talking about fiction when you very confidently say "women are judged less harshly if they have sex with foreigners VS having sex with a lot of Japanese men." which supposedly forms the entire basis of your conclusion, and when pressed for a source for that you say that your "friend told you so". Your claim (which, again, you use to form the basis of your conclusion) has as much veracity as someone saying the exact opposite about Japanese culture. I'll use a very simple example.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 08:50 AM |
| – | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.No, I literally said if things were different you'd say the SAME thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.Comparing A to B in terms of what metric? The metric you used is "takes no effort". This is, verbatim, what you said - that women getting sex takes no effort, therefore it's bad. So, if breathing also takes no effort, then it's a 100% appropriate comparison, based on that metric, which you specifically used. If now you're saying that breathing is essential and that without it you die and that makes it different, then you have effectively moved the goalposts. Essentialness was not part of your or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 10:48 AM |
| 4 | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.Also in the past men were turned off from these type because of paternity fraud reasons. Then maybe these should be your arguments rather than the insanely asinine "it's easy to do therefore it's bad". So far every rebuttal to that argument has been met with you pushing the goalposts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 10:24 AM |
| 6 | Judging someone for their sexual past is more misandrist than it is misogynistic.In Japan, women are judged less harshly if they have sex with foreigners VS having sex with a lot of Japanese men. You're going to need to provide some sources for this because this is pretty unfathomable given Japan's increasing xenophobia. Recently they made the news for having anti immigration protests after recent plans by their immigration dept to providing more work permits for Africans and Indians. The interesting thing is, this conclusion: Because of Japan's very closed culture, foreigne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 10:13 AM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manYes, relative to the other gender. Female pornstars are absolutely viewed as more "damaged" than male pornstars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:28 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manExcept it literally isn't free if she's limiting her partners to very attractive men. You're presuming that "commitment" is the exclusively the price which is demonstrably false if you agree that less attractive men cannot gain access to her even if they offer commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:23 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manWhat I wrote is more so true on a relative level rather than an absolute level. Relative to sex with women, sex with men is seen as intrusive and damaging to a person. Relative to sex with men, sex with women is seen as desirable and cleansing. Looking at your example under a relative level, there are far more cases of male partners being seen as "bad to be with" than female partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:15 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manDo you think damaged women become even more damaged after being promiscuous, or does their promiscuity have no effect on their "damagedness"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:08 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manThe slut-shaming that women receive is not "you did something easy, therefore you're despicable". The perception is rather that they have somehow damaged their own bodies by having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:04 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manSo then what does "giving it away to next for nothing" mean? We've already established that they certainly aren't just hooking up with anyone, but rather specifically very attractive men, so I don't understand what you mean by "giving it up for nothing" at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:02 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manYes, there is a difference between "is" and "ought" but OP is very clearly talking about the "ought" part. I don't think OP is conflating the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:45 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manIt's notable if a (straight) guy is seen with many sexual partners, and is seen less positively if a (straight) woman is seen with many sexual partners. This is because "having sex with men" is viewed as damaging, dirty and intrusive to the other person while "having sex with women" is viewed as pure, desirable and cleansing to the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:43 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manShe sets the price for her coochie, giving it away for next to nothing What do you mean "giving it away for next to nothing"? Do you think high BC women have no standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person?I don't think that most men are going to trust a woman who tells them that they'd love to continue to give other men oral sex, but that she'd never allow any of them to put their penises inside her vagina. For the remaining men who do believe that the woman would actually follow through with this, would they no longer take issue with the woman blowing, or having blown other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:20 AM |
| 10 | Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person?This also explains why men are not concerned with a woman's past with other women. Other women are not a genetic threat to impregnate a woman like other men are. This "exception" also applies to non-PIV sex with men. Straight oral sex, for example, is also not a genetic threat to impregnate women like PIV sex is, but it's not given the same exception category that lesbian sex has here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:43 AM |
| 11 | Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person?People who subscribe to the ideas I mentioned actually believe both dicks and vaginas are magical - they simply believe that they are magical in opposing directions. They believe contact with dicks fundamentally changes who a woman is, and the change is negative; whereas contact with vaginas fundamentally changes who a man is, but the change is positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person?getting longer prison sentences for the same crime Pretty big oversimplification when you realize that the mentalities I mentioned are actually the reason why men get longer prison sentences for certain crimes, especially sex crimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:31 AM |
| – | For less desirable men, if you find out a woman is sexually abusive (eg she SAs people), do you believe her targeting you becomes more likely or do you assume that her "standards" for victimizing people is the same as her ordinary standards?For what it's worth, that comment was made by an infamous account. I can't seem to find the specific thread anymore, but I know 100% that it was that account as I recall the profile pic and the name and that it got a lot of engagement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 11:18 AM |
| 6 | Guys, Befriending Women isn’t a Solution.What happens if one of the friends miraculously returns the feelings, and you start dating? Do you still continue to fall for your other female friends, despite now being in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 11:54 PM |
| 23 | We should start sexualizing menOne massive reason why men feel unwanted is because of the idea that a woman becomes tainted, and worse off, every time she has sex with a man. Even solely in the name of self interest, slut-shaming is one of the dumbest things you can do if you want men to be more desired. So I really wonder what your thoughts are on the notion that women who have sex with men are gross. If you inverse that notion it would actually help men feel more desired - because right now the message men are receiving (an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 12:32 AM |
| 18 | What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true?Men are far more okay with dating bi women. Most people here have the analysis wrong though. The main problem that both men and women have is their partner having been with a man. That's why lesbians also don't like bi women - because bi women have been with men. Sex with men = icky. Sex with men = makes a person worse off Sex with men = taints a person and lowers their value That thought process applies to: women refusing bisexual men (he's had sex with men = gross) gay women refusing to date b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosNothing in the OP suggests that women are damaged goods from simply having sex with men. No shit? Of course your OP didn't say that - you literally asked what would I add to the list and that's my answer. Christ almighty. "Thoughts? Is anything missing from the list?" Maybe re read your own post before insulting people. I'm talking about the views that MEN -- not you personally -- have, which is literally what your OP is referring to. Talk about intelligence. I even used the impersonal pronoun "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosThoughts? Is anything missing from this list? Would you add "stop slut shaming" to the list? Seeing women as being damaged from having sex with men implies -- intentionally or not -- men are dirty. If one supports the double standard of praising men for having sex with women, this only reinforces "men are dirty; women are beautiful" even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 05:22 PM |
| 13 | Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons?Even if you believe women play absolutely zero role in this, none of that contradicts my point. In that case, men believe that their own gender is sexually disgusting and invasive and that women are sexually pure and desirable. Hell that'd probably be some form of "internalized misandry". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 02:16 PM |
| 39 | Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons?On a sexual level, men are considered the icky, disgusting gender and women are considered the beautiful, desirable gender. Whether these characterizations benefit either gender is another topic, but I've found that this dichotomy is quite consistent with numerous societal phenomena. Why is F-->M sexual abuse not considered a big deal, or is even considered a positive thing for the M? Because women are so beautiful and desirable that what she did to him couldn't possibly have been damaging to hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 07:46 AM |
| 9 | Is it true most guys would cheat given the opportunity?Okay but OP is asking whether men would cheat if given the opportunity, so it becomes difficult to know whether a man not cheating is the result of his faithfulness or lack of opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 09:59 AM |
| – | Men care about body count because they're jealousDo you agree with my first paragraph or not? Do you consider men to be sexually disgusting which is why they make a person worse off via sex, whereas women are pure and beautiful so sexual contact with them makes a person better off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 03:08 AM |
| – | Men care about body count because they're jealousIf they think it's disgusting when a woman has sex with a lot of men, but not when a man has sex with a lot of women, then what they are implying, subconsciously or not, is that men are inherently tainted and disgusting, so having sex with men necessarily makes a person worse off than before. Meanwhile they think the opposite for women: women are so pure and beautiful that sexual contact with women necessarily makes someone better off, or at the very least it couldn't possibly be harmful. This i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedThen the question is pretty simple. A bisexual guy takes your advice "talk to women and understand what she wants" - he talks to women and finds that the majority of them don't want a bisexual guy. What should he now do with this information? I assume you believe that most women don't date misogynistic guys. So a misogynistic guy should take this advice and stop being misogynistic. The alternative is that he should only seek out women who want a misogynistic partner. I assume you would prefer he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:55 AM |
| -2 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedWomen aren't a monolith and yet you're literally saying "actually talking to women and trying to understand what they want." Which one is it? You still haven't answered the question. A bisexual guy talks to women and finds that most of them refuse to date bisexual men. You say he should "listen to the women and understand what they want" so what should he now do with this information? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:50 AM |
| -1 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedYour advice: actually talking to women and trying to understand what they want. When it comes to a partner's sexuality, the majority of women do NOT want a bisexual guy. So if a bisexual guy takes the above advice then what should do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:46 AM |
| 4 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedactually talking to women and trying to understand what they want. I don't think the standards are "must be over 6ft" or high iq or large dick as OP puts it but I don't agree that the bar is in hell either. For example, the majority of women refuse to date bisexual men. Do you think bisexual men should take your advice and hide their bisexuality when trying to date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 05:42 AM |
| – | The reason women loathe the passportbro movement is because it threatens their position in the dating marketYour title doesn't match your post. Your title argues that the reason why women don't like PB is that they are jealous. But in your post you barely argue this point: instead you start arguing about why men have decided to become PBs and why more men should get into that. Do you realize you haven't actually supported the stance in your title? The common rebuttal to your title is that the women are indeed concerned, but not because they are jealous, but rather because they believe the women in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 01:23 AM |
| 0 | Main problem with promiscuity is not even that they are badbut that often women and men do not get into them entirely of their own free will. I thought men who are getting into casual sex put a lot of time, effort and skill into it (which apparently explains why they should be praised for it)? If you put this much dedication into something which is very difficult to achieve I would say free will plays a pretty big role in it. You could argue their desire is not the result of free will but that's a different conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:10 PM |
| 14 | Why is there no gay passport bro movement?Look, you make interesting points here but the way you start a new paragraph for each sentence is very strange | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Sex is not a virtue. A man shouldn’t complain about the self improvement or the requirements/needed to have sex. Instead a man should solely focus on attaining/obtaining sex inherently and for its own sake.If a guy becomes rich and bangs prostitutes all day, does this count under what you're saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 11:49 AM |
| 1 | What are some things you envy about the other sex that are NOT commonly talked about?It is more common for men to be monosexual than women. That is, attracted to only one gender, whether men or women, but not both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?We humans are such winners that we were able to fool the sun into doing that without doing anything in return. Hooray for us! Once again. I don't care about whether it's a good or bad thing, whether it's brag-worthy or not, whether it makes you feel warm on the inside or not. None of that is relevant. The sun is giving free sunlight, yes. You think that's a good thing? Cool. You think that's a bad thing? Cool. You brag about receiving sunlight? Cool. You don't brag about receiving sunlight? Cool… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?You: Men aren't giving free dick. That's what I'm responding to. Whether that's a good or bad thing is an entirely different subject. Whether that's worthy of bragging or not is an entirely different subject. Men are giving free dick. In fact it's important to mention this fact because this virtually entirely explains why If she just wanted sex, she could have it anytime with almost anyone she finds attractive coz she is a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:54 PM |
| 21 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?I'll copy and paste what I wrote elsewhere. This is my theory. It's going to start off seemingly irrelevant but I'll get to that point. We tend to think of men as being better than women at certain things, and women better than men at other things. For example, men tend to be thought of as funnier than women, and women tend to be thought of as more attractive and beautiful than men. The latter, in my view, is largely the explanation of what you're describing: that sex is degrading towards women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?If the other person wants more, then it's wasting their time. Otherwise, if it's something they mutually want then there's no one being harmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:30 PM |
| -1 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?What are you even disagreeing with? Is it free or not? You just said men AREN'T giving free dick, which you now agree is demonstrably false. pebble and a 100 dollar bill . But you'd be happy about find only one of them Also, are you implying that when YOU give out free sex, it's going to be bad for the other person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:28 PM |
| 15 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?Men aren't giving free dick. That's always available for women ...Then they are giving free dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?I mean fair enough, but using OP's scenarios, if the intention is punishing bad behavior, would you find it equally degrading if the guy decided to give her commitment but deny her sex instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?Then why this man is giving his dick for free to woman who betrayed him? I'll preface this by saying I disagree with many of the views of the person you're arguing with, but logically, I would imagine doing this would waste her time by upping her hopes and then crushing it. Similarly, if the guy gave her commitment but no sex that would also be intended to waste her time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:05 PM |
| 18 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?It isn't the sex that's the punishment. It's the sex with zero intention to give any commitments. Is it still punishment if both people don't want commitment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be?I've said this elsewhere but this is my theory. It's going to start off seemingly irrelevant but I'll get to that point. We tend to think of men as being better than women at certain things, and women better than men at other things. For example, men tend to be thought of as funnier than women, and women tend to be thought of as more attractive and beautiful than men. The latter, in my view, is largely the explanation of what you're describing: that sex is degrading towards women. Specifically, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Women resent men by default, so they shouldn't act so shocked about men having negative views on them too.People get rightfully accused of being prejudiced when they cross the street to avoid walking on the same sidewalk as a minority, when they speed up to avoid being near a minority, Regardless of whether we're talking about doing this to men, women, minorities, majorities or any categorization of a demographic group, why do you think it's "rightful" to criticize someone doing this? Or in other words why is this behavior wrong? (I'm only talking about this example right now, not the other ones you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 02:57 PM |
| – | A Lot Of Homophobia Towards Men From Men Stems From MisogynyThey can't deal with their own feelings of ... sexual curiosity I'm not agreeing or disagreeing whether this is indeed a factor, but I'm wondering if what you said here is relevant to a common complaint made by the LGBT community: https://np.reddit.com/r/lgbt/comments/1chl5se/as_a_straight_person_ive_noticed_a_common_theme/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 11:31 PM |
| – | A Lot Of Homophobia Towards Men From Men Stems From MisogynyThe mindset I'm referring to, as I've said, is the idea that men are the disgusting gender and women are the beautiful gender: that on a sexual level, sex with men is like showering with swamp water and sex with women is a relaxing shower. You're suggesting that this mindset is sexist against women, and specifically women? If you ask me I'd suggest both genders are harmed by this mindset but far worse when it comes to men. Some others would argue that it's only men that this mindset is bigoted a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 11:14 PM |
| – | A Lot Of Homophobia Towards Men From Men Stems From MisogynyOnce again my point is that there is sexual disgust towards men as a WHOLE, and this explains homophobia against gay men because MSM involves men, and only men, and since men are the disgusting gender by extension gay men are seen as disgusting. The more men are involved in a sexual activity the more disgusting it becomes, and the more women are involved in a sexual activity the better it becomes. When women are shunned for having sex with men, the motive stems from the same mindset that results… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:54 PM |
| – | A Lot Of Homophobia Towards Men From Men Stems From MisogynyI didn't say attitudes of disgust towards effeminate men specifically. I said disgust towards men as a whole, regardless of how they present: My theory is that it largely stems from the mindset that, on a sexual level (especially relating to beauty and attractiveness), men are the disgusting gender while women are the beautiful gender. That aside, what you describe is also part of the mental gymnastics I'm talking about. Do you use the same logic when women are mocked for presenting masculine? I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:46 PM |
| – | A Lot Of Homophobia Towards Men From Men Stems From MisogynyCan you elaborate? I don't know if you're implying that thinking men, but not women, are the disgusting gender is actually misogynistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:39 PM |
| – | A Lot Of Homophobia Towards Men From Men Stems From MisogynyHow are you defining homosexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:31 PM |
| – | A Lot Of Homophobia Towards Men From Men Stems From MisogynyI've noticed this strong tendency in feminist circles to insist on concluding that women the victims in every single social issue that exists. When men are harmed, it's misogynistic. When women are harmed, it's misogynistic. The trick is simple: whenever women are harmed, concluding this to be misogyny is pretty straightforward. Women are harmed --> misogyny. For example, homophobia against lesbians, whether that be fetishization or disgust, or anything in between, can be construed as misogynist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4M men with zero options, do you consider it a silver lining that you can't attract women who would treat you badly, or do you mourn over not being able to attract them as well?Does that imply that there is no behavior that would cause you to break up (such as cheating), given that you consider you'd be worse off as a result of breaking up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Virtually 0 women get in trouble for sexual misconductI said condone, not condemn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 09:31 AM |
| 5 | Virtually 0 women get in trouble for sexual misconductAren't you agreeing with OP? Looking at OP's post, it doesn't appear that he's trying to argue which gender specifically is condoning this -- only that it is condoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Virtually 0 women get in trouble for sexual misconductYour entire post is about how it is condoned, and now you're saying you don't think anyone is actually condoning it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loserBut the insult is about the inability to find a man not the mere state of not having a man or being chaste. And insults, even though they can be unproductive, are meant to worsen someone's emotional state rather than to make an actual logical or truthful point. I also don't get exactly what part of the rationale is biological. How are you measuring "better off" and "worse off" as a result of sex with a certain gender? For example, if it's the penetration specifically, then does a woman still bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 04:15 PM |
| -1 | Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loserI didn't say whether it's biological or societal, nor is it relevant. My point is that this is the rationale behind this idea. I'm not sure what you're disagreeing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loserMen find chaste women wholesome, promiscuous women disgusting, regardless of if they get women or not. Right, because they believe having sex with a man makes one worse off. They believe the opposite is true for men because they believe having sex with a woman makes one better off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 03:44 PM |
| 30 | Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loserWhat's interesting is that insulting women via the opposite (sex with too many men) actually enforces the same idea suggested by OP because it implies that having sex with MEN makes you worse off. Having sex with women make you better off, so if that's not happening to you then = loser. Having sex with men makes you worse off so if that IS happening to you then = loser. I think a lot of men try to get back at women by slut-shaming them in return but what they really should be doing is use the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?Do you think these ideas you listed are good or bad? Do you agree with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?Re your paragraph 2-3: Once again it doesn't matter whether you or I or anyone else thinks a certain gender is more attractive. I am arguing that women=attractive/men=ugly is what's implied by slut shaming. Not whether this conclusion is true or false. But rather whether this conclusion is the message being sent, implicitly or not, by slut shaming. Re your first paragraph: The question I asked was whether promiscuous women are, as you said, having sex with "anybody". And if they are, then clearl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?I didn't say that I think women are beautiful and desirable. I said that the mentality of shaming people for having sex with men, but encouraging/praising people for having sex with women, sends the message -- intentionally or not -- that women are beautiful and desirable and men are the opposite. It suggests that you become better off as a result of sex with women, and worse off as a result of sex with men. I'm still interested in your answer to my question at the bottom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 10:15 PM |
| 7 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?The post isn't about complaining about a double standard. It's suggesting explanations for its implications. Your comment has absolutely nothing to do with my overall post. I'm asking -- and I've said this very explicitly -- whether this mentality logically results in a certain conclusion, which I discussed in my main post. Give it another read. A woman who has sex with anyone is showing poor development of this life skill. Do you think promiscuous women are having sex with anyone? Doesn't that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?What don’t you understand? Women like men who have a lot of sex because they seem more dangerous and risky. Men fear these kinds of men, even if they are one of these men themselves, due to paternity uncertainty. This doesn't make sense. You're suggesting that women's fear of men they view as posing a threat doesn't actually exist, and that fear is actually attraction? Men don’t mind women who are sexually aggressive. Women are not attracted to men who engage in a behavior that they deep down fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:36 PM |
| – | Some People Here Seem to Really Want the "Harsh Truth." Okay, You Have It Now. What Then?I think a lot of them simply want the gaslighting to stop. Speaking broadly, and including topics that have nothing to do with dating, someone who is grieving about their circumstances that (a) they didn't cause and (b) they can't change is obviously going to feel a lot worse when they're gaslighted into thinking that (a) and (b) are not true. Like, if you reject someone for being in a wheelchair, and so has most of the people they've been interested in, then it would be wrong for you to insist … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?You guys choose to treat each other that way So you agree that men treat each other as objects? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?No, they are saying that their gender is dangerous, not that they are bad. Women like the danger of dangerous men. Other men are wary of those men. Men and women are not the same. You're gonna have to elaborate here, especially with the second sentence The homosexuality argument is irrelevant. Homosexuality is generally seen as undesirable by women because it is often considered unmanly, not because men are involved. But surely it's seen as unmanly in the first place because they're having sex w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?That didn't answer the question I asked. If random Tom, Dicks and Harrys are doing "literally nothing" to hook up with a woman, are you implying that it is actually extremely easy for men to hook up with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:13 PM |
| 7 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?If every Tom dick and Harry can hit it for nothing ... when everyone else did literally nothing and got it. What do you mean "did literally nothing"? Are you implying that it's actually extremely easy for men to hook up with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:02 PM |
| 9 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?Enforce what? I don't understand which part of what I said you're disagreeing with. This double standard makes the implication that women=beautiful, desirable and men=gross, damaging. Do you agree with that part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:02 PM |
| 10 | Does the "double standard" in promiscuity conclude, intentionally or not, that men are gross and disgusting & women are beautiful and desirable?I don't think they're doing a self own; I think they're doing the opposite - arrogance, or "self inflation". By virgin shaming men they're implying that men are worse off without having sex with a woman, and that women are apparently so superior and valuable that men are losers without a woman in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 03:34 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentAll of this discussion needs to be prefaced with a consensus on what exactly constitutes "need". Some people define it as something without which you would die, and some others define it as something without which you would live uncomfortably (and the extent of that discomfort, and measuring it also spawn problems in this discussion). Regardless of which one you go by, it's still important to note that the notion that "X is a need" and "we are not obligated to provide X to you" do not contradict… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?Would you say refusing to date ethnic minorities is also a low standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 07:21 AM |
| 1 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?Doesn't change the fact that the standard makes no sense to be called "low". A very small minority of people's names start with X (just as any letter). Yet rejecting someone because they have an X name is incredibly strange. Think of the letter your name starts with. Someone rejects you solely because your name starts with that letter. Are you seriously going to conclude with "wow, you have really low standards!"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 04:04 AM |
| 3 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?Refusing to date left handed people would also be considered a high bar even if only 10% of the population is left handed. If the bar is really that low then you'd think something as harmless as the guy being bisexual wouldn't be a problem at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 04:23 PM |
| 10 | I hear the statement "The bar for men is extremely low these days" a lot in the context of dating, sex, and relationships. Is the bar low for men's looks or personality/character/effort?The majority of women refuse to date a bisexual man. Is "he must not be bisexual" part of this low bar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?I've seen no evidence of men stalking female rapists, but I have seen women stalking male rapists and serial killers. Read the article linked in the OP There have, however, been numerous feminists that have said they should go murder men are sex offender lists because no one will care. And I'm not one of them, so I'm not sure what you're arguing here. You were saying that I was trying to blame men for women being sex offenders. Do you still think that's the case or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?That sentence alone is about the thought process of the men stalking these women. Which still isn't a normative statement. It's merely giving context as to why those men want to pursue these women. And I also didn't say all men are like that. The question is, given the presence of these guys, would the thought process of would-be female offenders be "hmm, maybe doing this would harm me more than it benefits me so I should not do it". And whether they do end up getting targeted by men still doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 05:36 PM |
| -2 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?You asked if this post is about sympathizing with these women and I said no. This post is asking about the thought process of women who commit sex crimes. Not whether these women are right, wrong, deserve sympathy or don't deserve sympathy. I'm not sure what else you'd like me to say. In college I took a class on terrorism. We were taught that terrorism requires funding and those who don't have enough money, resources and connections are going to be dissuaded from carrying out large-scale and co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?You're imagining things because I didn't say any of those things... Read up on the difference between positive (or descriptive) statements and normative statements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?I don't see anywhere in the post that says we should feel sorry for them. Do you know what a positive statement is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 05:08 PM |
| -2 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?This post says nothing about excusing, or not excusing, female sex offenders. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Positive_statement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 04:33 PM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️People aren't criticizing women for doing something easy , maybe except other women who think you're spoiling the dating pool and men who are jealous, but they are criticizing women who publicize their "hoeness" as an accomplishment. Right, so there are a lot of people who are criticizing them for doing something easy... Sure, if they consider it an accomplishment, I understand how it's like the example you used - a trust fund baby easily scooping a house. But the main point I want to acknowledg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 09:06 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️Sure, don't marry them. I'm not quite concerned with men who are turned off (or turned on for that matter) by promiscuity. My point is that do you at least agree that "you did something easy, therefore you're an asshole/bad person/worthless" is a logically incoherent argument? This is a massive mentality that a lot of men have - it's not about them marrying or not marrying these women, it's rather that they get angry at their very existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:15 AM |
| – | ✨️🧚🏻♀️Why are lads personally offended over what a lady does with her body?🧚🏻♀️✨️However, guys get angry when women can't realize that sleeping around with 50 women as a guy is dufferent than sleeping around with 50 guys as a woman. Surely you can at least agree there's nothing morally wrong with either scenario, right? Like, from a logical perspective, if you're a guy who wants to be sleeping around with 50 women, then you should be happy precisely about the existence of women who sleep around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:02 AM |
| 5 | What are some partner behaviors that are commonly considered cheating, but you don't (or otherwise don't mind)?I will say that you have a very interesting conceptualization of cheating. I think for most people, cheating is merely one example of the umbrella category of "betraying your partner's trust" (or more broadly, "deeply unacceptable behavior in a relationship"), rather than those two things being synonymous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Research on women's aversion to bisexual menWould you date a bi woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 06:31 AM |
| 1 | To those of you who explain/defend your preferences in a moral light - why?So then "you are what you attract" doesn't apply to men? Only to women? The point I'm trying to make is that if a woman dresses "like a prostitute", she will be treated as such by men who want to treat her like a prostitute to begin with. In other words, the men actually have a choice to treat her as such or not. You're removing accountability away from men. You have zero obligation to treat a woman like a prostitute (you're allowed to ignore her), and yet you're doing precisely that. Even if we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 01:05 AM |
| 1 | To those of you who explain/defend your preferences in a moral light - why?I mean you literally just said that "you are what you attract". You agreed with me when I asked whether all a man has to do to get women in bed is to sexualize himself by dressing slutty, and there's nothing else he needs to do. Which one is it? Do you believe in the idea of "you are what you attract" or not? The notion that as long as you act in a certain way, then people will necessarily treat you in that same way? "She has presented herself as a sex object so is treated like one." So all a gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | To those of you who explain/defend your preferences in a moral light - why?So then why on Earth do many men have trouble finding sex? Going by this idea, literally all that any guy has to do to attract women is to dress a certain way. Do you think it's equally easy for men and women to find sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | To those of you who explain/defend your preferences in a moral light - why?If you dress like a prostitute you will be treated like a prostitute. You are what you attract. So going by this logic, if a man wants to hook up with women, all he has to do is to "sexualize himself', and women will be rushing to have sex with him so as to treat him like a prostitute. So all those seduction techniques should be thrown out the window, because as long as he makes it known that he's down to hook up, then women will necessarily be hooking up with him. "You are what you attract" is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think men are more likely than women to be attracted to only one gender?Did you even read the post? It has nothing to do with comparing male gays and female gays, in itself. It's about men being more likely than women to be attracted to only one gender, which includes Straight and gay people. What you said doesn't address anything in the post. Gay men, as shown in the surveys, are four times more common than lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think men are more likely than women to be attracted to only one gender?Gay men are 4 times more common than lesbians | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think men are more likely than women to be attracted to only one gender?Gay men are four times more common than gay women. The post isn't about men being more likely to be straight: it's about men being more likely than women to be attracted to only one gender, whether that be straight or gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think men are more likely than women to be attracted to only one gender?“why do Western men report fewer queer feelings than non-Western men”? Not quite. "Attraction to one gender" includes gay. And men are more likely than women to be gay, as I've shown in the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.Do you believe men have zero agency regarding sex? As in, is it impossible for you to imagine that somewhere out there, a man has turned down sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.So did you even read the question? Because that's what it asked. is the fact that the man also decided to participate in it not also a necessary component of casual sex happening? What you said has nothing to do with the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 06:50 AM |
| 0 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.I really hope you're reading the question correctly. What you're implying is that sex happens even if the guy doesn't want it. Girl offers sex. Guy says no. Sex somehow still happens. That's what you're implying by saying that a man agreeing to the sex is not a per-requisite for the sex happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.I'm not remotely doubting that there are far more men than women who want casual sex, and those who want it but can't get it. What I'm critiquing is the idea that men apparently play zero role in whether sex happens. It's pretty simple logic: if men didn't want casual sex at all, then it wouldn't matter whether the woman choose to have casual sex or "none", because the men wouldn't be interested regardless. But because men are interested in it, the casual sex does happen if the women are also in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.According to the logic of the OP comment, if a man wants sex, all he has to do is to demonstrate to women that all he has to offer is sex. And yet, there are many men who are explicit about only offering sex and getting 0 responses. Why? Because the women aren't even interested to begin with - regardless of whether sex is all he has to offer. Meanwhile a woman doing that will get many responses. Why? Because those men are also interested in the same thing. The woman is willing to participate in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.Are you saying "No" to the question of whether a man agreeing to the sex is also required for the sex to happen in the first place? Because that was my question there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.Women control access to sex so any casual sex and fwb exist only because a woman decided to participate in that. Is the fact that the man also decided to participate in it not also a necessary component of casual sex happening? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 06:13 PM |
| – | Femininity is NOT AttractiveAre you saying femininity shouldn't be attractive, or that femininity isn't attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 12:35 PM |
| 3 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20sWhich still doesn't change the fact that "promiscuous women having NO standards" contradicts the narrative that men have trouble finding sex. Putting that aside, how on Earth is it moronic, let alone detestable, to be picky and promiscuous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 01:08 AM |
| 5 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20sInsults don't work when they don't make sense. There's a reason why certain sentences can cause someone to collapse in tears and why some other insults get dismissed immediately. How are you "supposed" to respond to an insult anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 11:38 AM |
| 11 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20sdumbass woman who has no standards. Which is asinine because you can be slutty while being picky. If promiscuous women truly had "no standards" then why do men have trouble finding sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Why is there no #TradHusband movement?Regardless of whether men have been influenced to do that or not, I'm countering the claim that "men never stopped being traditional", not whether they are expected to be traditional or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 01:34 PM |
| 15 | Why is there no #TradHusband movement?Then why is casual sex so easy for women to find? You would think that men would be overwhelmingly rejecting hookups from women, and would only seek ordinary relationships if they were truly traditional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 09:43 AM |
| 11 | Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males?So straight men don't have male friends (since they hate men) is what you're saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:47 AM |
| 16 | Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males?Do you believe all straight people hate their own gender and all gay people hate the opposite gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 08:00 AM |
| 4 | The argument of 'Men having No Standards'.we mean men will fuck a goat, a couch cushion, a cantaloupe they put in the microwave and any disgusting woman. ...but not each other. I'm not trying to argue, but rather I want to point attention towards another point: a very paradoxical thing about men's supposed desperation for sex. Studies have consistently shown that sexual fluidity is higher in women than men (regardless of sexuality: lesbian-identifying women are more fluid than gay men, and straight-identifying women are more fluid than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:47 PM |
| 8 | CMV The Concept of „Male Friends“ as a taken Women is completely ridiculous and if you think logically about it, it makes zero sense, and the manosphere is right about this one.In your entire post you didn't make a distinction between a single guy vs in a relationship, are you also extending that towards taken guys, in that they would necessarily cheat on their girlfriends if given the chance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 01:57 AM |
| 8 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?As in, they are not normal because they aren't attracted to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 12:11 PM |
| 6 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?On that note, do you find the existence of gay men to be flabbergasting, in that you question how gay men don't find women attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 10:30 AM |
| 1 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameIt doesn't matter that most men aren't bisexual. It's a very simple question and there's no reason why you aren't able to answer it. You said that "most women have ridiculously low standards". You're quite explicit about this. I showed you that most women's standards include "no bisexual men". So, is "no bisexual men" one of the "ridiculously low standards" you're talking about or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameHow does this have any relevance? Pretty simple. You said that most women have "ridiculously low standards". Most women's standards include "no bisexual men". So, I'm asking you if this is consistent with what you just said. Is this standard one of the "ridiculously low standards" you were talking about or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameMost women have ridiculously low standards for men Between 63% to 81% of women would not date a bisexual man. Do you consider this to be one of the ridiculously low standards you're talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:47 AM |
| 1 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blame"I'm bald and women don't like that" Women don't care about your hair, if it's bringing you down just embrace it or shave it off. "I can't get past the first date" You're doing something wrong then, if you continue striking out after every first date you're the problem mate. I disagree, if you look at these two points then OP is using the just world fallacy here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:25 PM |
| 4 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameAnd does doing that necessarily result in success? My point is very clear: that the world isn't a fairy tale where every problem is solvable. Do you believe that "changing what you can and accept what you can't" will necessarily result in the problem being solved? A person with cerebral palsy, for example, tries this advice; he accepts his disability but works on his other attributes. Does this necessarily result in him finding someone, and that him being alone for the rest of his life becomes i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:39 PM |
| 4 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameIf you only want X and can't get X See, that's my point. You want X, but you can't get X. And earlier you said There are lots of things at play in anything in life but if YOU don't recognise them and work to counteract them (and you can) then YOU are at fault for your failure. So in this case, is it your fault that "you want X but you can't get X"? Is there always a solution to get X (and X specifically - not Y or Z)? Because for some people, X is dating. They can't date. And OP is making the as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:34 PM |
| 7 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameIt’s “change what you can and accept what you can’t change”. And do you believe that if someone were to do this, it will 100% result in success? Are there no cases of people doing that, and still failing? Because my whole point is that the world isn't a fairy tale where every problem can be fixed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:31 PM |
| 4 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameI'm not criticizing OP for the advice - and you're right, the just world fallacy isn't related to the advice of "get off tinder". What I'm calling the just world fallacy is OP's point that If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blame It's very clear OP is suggesting that you, and ONLY you, are at fault for your struggling. In other words, you must have done something bad if you are struggling at dating. The just world fallacy can be more simply described as "If [bad thing] happ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:26 PM |
| 8 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameExcept you're assuming that there is a workable solution to every single problem. The assumption that as long as you "work" to counteract a problem then things will necessarily be fine. Can you not think of any example where a person has put in a considerable amount of time and effort to achieve something but still failed? Do you always assume that this person must have done something bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:24 PM |
| 13 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameThe "just world fallacy" is the idea that people always get what they deserve. In other words, "you are in [undesirable situation], therefore, you must have done something bad to deserve that. You are in [desirable situation], therefore you must have done something good to deserve that". People use the just world fallacy everywhere. When it comes to the context of dating, it is "if you get rejected, it's because you were being an asshole/lazy/stupid". It makes the assumption that the only reason… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:06 PM |
| 11 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameSo again, which one is it? You say you only have yourself to blame Do you recognize that other forces are at play in addition to your own actions, or not? Whether something is to be blamed for a problem and whether you can solve the problem are two different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:59 AM |
| 25 | If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blameYour title is another classic example of the just world fallacy. But you're also contradicting yourself when you point out that "life isn't fair". Which one is it? You suggest that people are necessarily doing something wrong if they struggle to date, but you also point out that life isn't fair - implying that other forces are at play other than one's own actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:52 AM |
| 2 | So I see men here say women having male friends in a red flag, but also that women are unreasonably mean to single men. How are women supposed to navigate this?What if they're both in relationships with other people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | So I see men here say women having male friends in a red flag, but also that women are unreasonably mean to single men. How are women supposed to navigate this?Does that include if you're in a relationship already and you have female friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 12:18 AM |
| – | CMV Men and Women have completely different Motives why they are cheating.I'm saying that cheating with a mistress shows a lack of emotional bond with your partner because it shows how little you care for the terms of your relationship. Cheating on someone for the hell of it shows a severe lack of regard for your partner, just like cheating because you were getting your needs met elsewhere. It goes beyond "physical jealousy" - it's also indicative of how little you value your partner The aftermath of getting cheated on goes beyond "feeling jealousy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 11:45 PM |
| – | CMV Men and Women have completely different Motives why they are cheating.And cheating on someone because you are just looking for a quick fuck tells your partner that you don't respect your relationship, given that you have zero hesitancy in violating the most important terms of monogamy. And that shows an utter lack of respect. It's obvious that it goes beyond "physical cheating". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 11:29 PM |
| – | CMV Men and Women have completely different Motives why they are cheating.You're making two different arguments - that men and women cheat for different reasons, and also that men cheating is "less bad" than women cheating. Let's assume the first is true. I still don't get how the second argument follows from the first. Suppose that, regardless of your gender, you cheat on your partner. You tell your partner that the reason you cheated is NOT to replace them, but rather you wanted a quick fuck. How do you expect your partner to view this as "less bad" than if the reas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 10:56 PM |
| – | Which situation is worse? Desperately getting in an abusive relationship, or being unable to even get an abusive relationship?There is literally a comment choosing the second option and it hasn't been 10 minutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?Lisa Nguyen Hell's Kitchen cast | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:56 AM |
| 6 | I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are neededBecause it adds to their frustration. They have trouble dating to begin with - and that gives them enough negativity already. So the frustration from arguing with people online about it just adds to it. Obviously someone discussing it from a completely outside, general perspective (like a North Macedonian person discussing Australian politics in order to pass their university course, compared to a partisan Australian discussing Australian politics) won't get as frustrated as someone who has pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 08:40 AM |
| 6 | I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are neededWho are “someone” and “they” when you are talking about this. Someone: A person participating in this sub reddit. They: Someone with an opposing ideology to that person. Why are people accusing others with high or low standards when you can just not date them? People here often express grievances regarding their dating journey, or dating in general. For example that dating sucks because of so and so. So imagine if you're a woman and a man makes a post claiming that women are doing this and that,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:43 AM |
| 4 | I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are neededLet me put it in a better way. They want people to be consistent with their beliefs. Imagine someone accusing you of having very high standards and you won't give them a chance. Then, just 5 seconds later, they start mocking you for having very low standards and they call you desperate. Wouldn't that anger you? In this case the anger would likely be twofold: first, they're bothering you to begin with. But the second is that they're also confusing you. Most people in this situation would be think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 05:27 AM |
| 21 | I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are neededI believe that most of the anger, wherever it's coming from, comes from people feeling like they're being told lies. Specifically, lots of people are adopting contradictory narratives in order to fit their agenda. For example: Promiscuous women are often characterized here as impulsively giving away sex to anyone and simultaneously being very picky. The former (slutty women give away sex to anyone) is used to demonize women in a context where they can be portrayed as impulsive and poor decision … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 04:45 AM |
| 6 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?Are you implying that older women have a hard time attracting men? I thought men's standards were low enough to accommodate that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.No, you didn't. You said that having sexual partners is hard for men and easy for women. You didn't say anything about how we should react differently to those two things. You said jack shit about how we should react to men having lots of sexual partners, and saying "shaming is dumb" tells us what you think shouldn't be done, not what should be. Like, you explained the complete opposite information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.Did you miss the part where I asked if they should be simply ignored instead? You haven't explained what the double standard that you support is, and that's what I'm asking you. OP explicitly supports a double standard criticizing slutty women and you responded by saying, yes, it should be a double standard. "One requires skill, the other requires existing." Therefore what? What exactly is the double standard you support w.r.t. how we should react to those two cases? Should the "one that require… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.I don't get how that new argument has anything to do with what we talked about. Firstly, are you sure "slutty" is the right word here? I'm pretty sure women are viewed as far sluttier than men. Did you mean to say "thirsty"? Secondly, where did you get the idea that "no matter their actions, they will never be considered as slutty as men"? Didn't you just say that I don't think any woman could actually get as low as a man. Put it this way. You're saying that women can never be as thirsty as men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.You're contradicting yourself in a way that messes up your entire argument. The entire basis of your argument is that these supposed doubled standards are actually consistent BECAUSE slutty women have the SAME level of sexual discretion as men. This is not the same as saying that slutty women are merely closer to men's standards compared to other women. If you're now changing your premise from "slutty women have the same sexual standards as men" to "slutty women's standards are closer to men's t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.In your post you specifically say: A woman that chooses the path of promiscuity is ... just lowering herself to the position that men naturally live at. You specify what you mean by what "men naturally live at": "Men will f**k anything Now you're saying it's actually relative to other women, instead of the same as men as you previously said in your post. What you initially said in your post forms the entire basis of your argument - that these "double standards" are in fact consistent because slu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.I don't know if not being picky is unattractive. For the sake of argument let's say I agree. My point stands that promiscuous women for the most part aren't "not being picky" about it. They are picky about it. And since they are picky with their partners, they AREN'T lowering themselves to men's level who, as you say, will fuck anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.Do you believe people should be shamed for doing things that are effortless, or they should be simply ignored instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.A woman receiving criticism for being promiscuous is receiving equality. She has put her self in the same position as a man and now has to play by the same rules as a man to be attractive. You do realize that you can be promiscuous while being picky, yes? In which case this ISN'T them lowering themselves to the level of "Men will f**k anything" as you previously described. In fact, that is the case with slutty women. Otherwise, given that there are a lot of them, if slutty women weren't picky th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Sex is never and will never be a needYou're doing the exact thing I was talking about - you talked about what you think is a need without even defining "need" to begin with, and now I'm confused why you think losing your virginity is a need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 10:24 AM |
| 0 | Sex is never and will never be a needThe problem with discussions about the need/want distinction is that people rarely actually clarify how they're defining the terms. What do you mean by "need"? Is it something without which you literally can't live at all, or something without you can't live comfortably? Like, water is something you'll need to live at all, comfortably or not. Shelter is something you can live without, albeit uncomfortably. So if you define "need" as something you need to live at all, then water is a need but she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 10:03 AM |
| 10 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?So after spending over a decade working on your body and wallet only to find women only want you now makes many men bitter to know that the women wouldn’t have even looked their way before so it’s forever going to be a question of “does she like me for me? Or for what I can provide?” If someone has this mentality, does this imply if he turns 30 and instead women still don't want him, he would prefer this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:49 AM |
| 3 | What kind of awful redflag behavior would desperate people tolerate, that normal people wouldn't?have you had any luck dating with your disability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityDidn't you mention that they have no standards? An attractive girl that hasn't opened her legs to countless suiters is at the top of the totem pole because it means she has standards. So, is screwing people who are at the right place and right time - whatever that may mean - indicative of having no standards? Does that include average and ugly men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:25 AM |
| 6 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityYou didn't say that. I'm asking you whether you think that's true. If you don't think that's true, are you suggesting that promiscuous women are screwing average men too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:10 PM |
| 50 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityAn attractive girl that hasn't opened her legs to countless suiters is at the top of the totem pole because it means she has standards. Wait, wait, hang on. I thought promiscuous women are only screwing really hot men. Now you're saying that promiscuous women seemingly don't have standards? Which one is it? If a fuckton of women have very low standards for casual sex, then does that not imply that your average man can definitely get laid easily, because of these women with seemingly no standards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 05:18 AM |
| 1 | If it's insulting that someone wants you after they've had their fun in their youth, would it be even more insulting if they still didn't want you?And if that was your situation right now (only one or two woman on the planet is attracted to you, and she's one of those inconsistent women you're talking about) would you enter a relationship with this person? Would you predict the relationship being at least functional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | If it's insulting that someone wants you after they've had their fun in their youth, would it be even more insulting if they still didn't want you?Okay - i see what you're saying, my bad. I guess I could have phrased it better because most people who claim to find themselves in this situation also claim to have no other options that these "Fine I'll have you now" people. So if you had the choice between zero woman attracted to you, and one (or more) women attracted to you but were previously not, you'd choose the latter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:50 AM |
| 1 | If it's insulting that someone wants you after they've had their fun in their youth, would it be even more insulting if they still didn't want you?Right, and the options are attention and zero attention, and you said attention is better than zero attention. So wouldn't that make zero attention worse than attention from inconsistent women, not the other way around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | If it's insulting that someone wants you after they've had their fun in their youth, would it be even more insulting if they still didn't want you?Bit confused by this response because you also said that any attention is better than none - wouldn't that include attention from women who are "inconsistent"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 09:06 AM |
| 11 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?That doesn't have anything to do with what I said - do gay men, who have a massive hookup culture, not contradict your claim that "the easier it is to get, the less people want it"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:21 AM |
| 14 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?Gay dudes would disagree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:51 AM |
| 5 | Why hate on women who do OF?Doesn't that mean it's a good thing for women to do OF? I mean you're admitting that you save effort if women are selling sexual services. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?Where did you post the photos? Did you post it on social media (like Instagram) too where you have female followers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:35 PM |
| 2 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?Assuming you mean that it's merely less effective than other methods, not that it has the opposite effect or is harmful, what's the harm in trying this method anyway? It's not like posting a few photos is very difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:22 PM |
| 5 | Is it hypocritical not wanting your girl to go on a girls trips/clubbing, but wanting to yourself?Sure, it's hypocritical, if you define the word as holding others to expectations that you aren't willing to meet yourself. But the real question should not be whether it's hypocritical but rather whether it's morally acceptable - that's the far more interesting topic. For example, if you meet someone who happily agrees to these terms, who am I to get angry at you (or her)? Having said that if your concern is that she might get hit on, then consider the idea that if you truly trust her, and she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Men, under what (hypothetical) conditions would you become a sex worker?Didn't you just define work as "activity involving mental or physical effort done in order to achieve a purpose or result." ? "Stealing and scamming" do fall under that definition of "work". It's simply a form of work that is illegal and most people disapprove of. But according to your definition of work, it is work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Men, under what (hypothetical) conditions would you become a sex worker?Do you have a defined threshold for the level of effort required? Surely filming yourself jacking off is a physical activity no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Men, under what (hypothetical) conditions would you become a sex worker?Sex work is not work. Do you mean this in the metaphorical sense, in that you disapprove of it, or do you mean this in the literal sense, that it doesn't fit the definition of "work"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Men, under what (hypothetical) conditions would you become a sex worker?You two are arguing completely different things. Just_a_place is arguing that sex work fits the definition of work - that is, an activity done in exchange for money. Meanwhile, you are arguing that sex work is dangerous and unacceptable. Do you realize these are two completely different statements? Whether sex work falls under the category "work" has nothing to do with whether sex work is acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:38 AM |
| 5 | What is worse to you: getting no female attention whatsoever, or getting female attention from the worst, lowest women only?I think you have a pretty generous view of women if you believe the "worst of the worst" women are as dangerous as corned beef | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men?If it's about cheating / aids, do you entertain the idea that there could be significant overlap between women who are into guy-on-guy and women who wouldn't date bi guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?You don't. the example in the OP explicitly mentions that the situation is a hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?Because we're talking about hookups, where physical attraction is the primary deciding factor - especially for men, who don't see a physical threat in women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?why are you assuming that just because she's physically unattractive that it means he has no standards? Where does it say he has "no standards"? Low standards is not the same as "no standards" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Liberal women are probably the most judgmental and demanding when it comes to wanting Alpha qualities in a man.Do they not want to attract conservative women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel finding out a potential partner once appeared on "Gone Wild" DVDs?with any of the guys Girls/Guys Gone Wild only does solo or same-sex content. If the woman appeared on it, chances are she either appeared solo or with other women. Or are you talking about different people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 04:50 AM |
| 2 | How would you feel finding out a potential partner once appeared on "Gone Wild" DVDs?We like ho shit in the short term, but most of us would never wife up a girl with thousands of bodies and videos of her tits hanging out. If your short-term interests completely contradict your long-term interests, then maybe you should have a thought about which one you want. It makes no sense to suggest women adhere to X initially in their youth, then later in life suggest Y (which contradicts X) and then be upset that they did X in their youth. You admit yourself that men are at least partial… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 04:45 AM |
| 2 | How would you feel finding out a potential partner once appeared on "Gone Wild" DVDs?while she threw herself at other men Read the bold part of the OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 08:46 PM |
| 11 | What’s the reason conservative men have attractions to liberal women but liberal men don’t have attractions to conservative women?I don’t see many cases of liberal men being into older women/women who don’t sleep around or fantasize about Marjorie Taylor Green. No, but they do for Tomi Lahren, Lauren Southern, Kaitlin Bennett and Lauren Boebert. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 09:47 AM |
| 4 | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?The complaints that men have about women in dating are heavily reduced when it comes to dating men (same with women). Obviously problems still exist, but they become reduced. For example: many men complain about lack of female interest. When it comes to gay men however, there is an abundance of male interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 09:18 AM |
| – | What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub?Homosexual dating is superior to heterosexual dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 05:59 AM |
| 6 | People don't seem to care about men's nudes and intimate content (e.g. leaks), and men don't really get solicited much. As men do you consider this a positive?The mod flaired it, not me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | People don't seem to care about men's nudes and intimate content (e.g. leaks), and men don't really get solicited much. As men do you consider this a positive?I don't know if you take nudes for yourself, but for you, what would be your reaction to them getting leaked? Would it be like "these are private photos only for people I intend to see, and it's outrageous that my privacy was disrespected" or "well I didn't intend this but I don't mind, if anything I'm glad the public can see it" or somewhere in between? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 12:21 AM |
| 2 | People don't seem to care about men's nudes and intimate content (e.g. leaks), and men don't really get solicited much. As men do you consider this a positive?Thanks for reminding me of that, that is a good example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 12:19 AM |
| 3 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....It was the sexual revolution, which was a female movement, that allowed us access to sex without commitment. The question is whether men actually want that access to sex without commitment. Since you appear to be saying that men want it LESS than women, wouldn't that imply that the current reality is that men are constantly frustrated that women use them for sex? And you'd also disagree with the idea that women have sex with hot guys in hopes they'd get a relationship - and it would instead be t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 10:30 PM |
| 9 | If young men want access to casual sex, but still want to be able to "settle down" one day, with a woman who hasn't had children yet, then they really should support better access to contraceptives....and that INCLUDES abortion....I think women were the ones that decoupled sex from commitment. Wait what? You think men aren't the ones who want casual sex far more than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The modern male need for female validation is probably not instinctiveThen what about guys in relationships or marriages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Women's strong ingroup bias is the reason an honest debate about dating dynamics can never be hadbecause women are more likely to support each other by default, Just out of curiosity, this means you disagree with the idea that female friendships are backstabby and ungenuine right? Or at the very least, that they are somehow less genuine than male friendships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 06:40 AM |
| 2 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withAnd it’s also where I disagree because calling people out for their actions and holding themselves accountable is a fundamental behaviour we teach children. Can you expand on this? "Calling people out for their actions" has a negative connotation for a lot of people so I'm wondering if that's also the case here. Call people out for what exactly? As in, "hey, I notice you're doing X, and I want you to acknowledge it"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:35 AM |
| 3 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withNo I don’t agree, if anything you’re advocating for women who’ve get laid a lot to be classed as easy. Because being constantly laid is not normal & is actually quite surprising. If you’re getting laid every night or twice a week that’s not normal. Do you agree that these women should be called "shitty" or not? You haven't addressed this. The original analogy calls these women "shitty" - a negative attribute. I am critiquing that. You say that "easy equals exactly that, easy". Which presumably m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:52 AM |
| 3 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withAlso easy doesn’t equal bad. Easy equals exactly that, it’s easy. So then you'd agree with me, that characterizing women who get laid a lot as "shitty", as in the analogy of the shitty lock, would be incorrect, right? If anything, it should rather be "normal" or "unsurprising", do you agree? Which is the point of my post. But you still need the context of the situation, because as I’ve said that person wouldn’t be celebrated if it was innocent members of the public. The fact you’re blind to this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:31 AM |
| 5 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withWho said anything about grammatical errors? I’m not “moving” the goal posts at all, because of course context matters. If I went outside tomorrow and beat up 100 people I’d be thrown in prison and not celebrated. If you cannot understand this then my point still stands about your rose tinted view of your own opinion. You are moving goal posts. I have made it incredibly clear (as in my original post) that easy =/= bad and hard =/= good. You ignored all of that nuance in your comment. You first sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withI think you're starting to get my critique. Right now you're changing the goal posts. You first say that we celebrate people doing things that are difficult, require lots of skill, determinated, etc. Now, when I give you an example of precisely that, you decide to add more to your criteria and say the "context matters". Nowhere did you mention this in your first comment - nor have you elaborated on it. The whole point of the post is to show the underdeveloped nature of the argument. By changing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withI have to add that "don't you have any hobbies" doesn't make sense as a reaction to a woman getting laid a lot. You're saying that it takes a lot of time, work and effort for a man to have lots of sex. So if a man does have lots of sex, then this means that this man put a lot of time, energy and effort into having sex. A significantly larger amount of time and energy is devoted to sex. Whereas for the woman, it's an easy task so she didn't put much thought into it. Which would mean that for her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 01:11 AM |
| -1 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withAgain, you're subtly repeating the idea that doing something that is easy is bad. Read the second part of my post. Cooking rice is incredibly easy. Go to parts of Asia and you'll see people who make and eat rice all the time. Do you conclude that "ehh don't these people have hobbies"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:27 AM |
| 0 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withThe Key and Lock analogy can be problematic, as I don't think women should be shamed for being promiscuous, I can concede that. That's literally the point I was trying to make. The fundamental problem with the analogy stems from using the word "shitty", implying that it is bad, rather than just unremarkable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withbut it’s metaphorical language to describe that a lock that can have tons a keys opening it isn’t doing anything amazing. Then you'd agree that characterizing it as "shitty" would be incorrect, right? "Not doing anything amazing" is not the same as "bad". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:07 AM |
| 4 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withMen don’t shame women for having a lot of sex, Have you been on any manosphere forum ever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 12:00 AM |
| 9 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withAlmost like you didn't read the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 11:59 PM |
| 4 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withBeating up a fuck ton of people with your bare hands DOES take a lot of effort, skill, knowledge and determination. All of the things you listed DO apply to the concept of beating the shit out of 100 people simultaneously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 11:58 PM |
| 11 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withLOL so now you're finally getting it. Took quite a few replies, didn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 11:05 PM |
| 11 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withNobody is shaming that, because it is a indisputable fact if reality Are you for real when you say nobody is shaming that? You don't think the dozens of phrases used to insult women engaging in that, exist? That men are telling these women that they belong on the streets, or that they're low value? The analogy itself uses the word "shitty". And you're contradicting yourself here: Nobody is celebrated because it’s hard... and then We celebrate and praise someone for doing something hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 11:04 PM |
| 2 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withI'm talking about the conclusion being the lock/key analogy. The goal of the analogy is to justify the differences between the two cases, right? My point is that there is analogy works if the premises are justified, and therefore you won't accomplish that if you don't justify it. So you'd be wasting time by bringing it up. So what I'm saying is - there is just no point providing the analogy. It wastes your time and theirs. In other words, if you are to say you won't date women who XYZ, then just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:47 PM |
| 2 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withIf you won't bother justifying the premises of an argument, then what's the point of laying out the conclusion? It's like if you called your buddy and said hey you should give me $500, and when he asks why you hang up. The whole point of the conclusion of an argument is that it's backed by the premises. Otherwise the conclusion in itself makes no sense. At this point the lock key analogy accomplishes nothing. It accomplishes nothing on your side, and nothing on their side. Both of you might as w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:28 PM |
| 5 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withI think the reason why the analogy sticks is because most men accept the premises implicitly. But the people to whom they're making analogy don't. That's the problem. The analogy is often used while arguing with people who have contempt with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:15 PM |
| 0 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withCan you lay out your argument? What is your premise and how does it differ from the premise layed out in my post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:06 PM |
| 10 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withIt's as if you didn't read the post at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:05 PM |
| 7 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withIf the premises are explained then sure. Which means that you need to now justify why women having sex with a lot of men is bad AND why simultaneously, men having lots of sex with women is good. If you use the lock and key argument to justify this, then we're back to square one and we have a circular argument. But this is would be a different, albeit interesting, topic. The point of the post is that there is a gaping hole in the analogy that is not developed. If you're arguing with someone and y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 13 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withI said that if you believe that "women sex easy --> women sex bad", then you are implying that "easy --> bad". Which is a poor argument, as it implies that it is impossible for something to be easy & good, or hard & bad. I gave examples of something that's easy & good, as well as hard & bad, which contradicts this nonsensical premise. Nothing about male sexuality being bad, so I don't know where you're getting this from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:00 PM |
| 8 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withPlease indicate in the post where that is said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:55 PM |
| 9 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withThe analogy is an attempt to JUSTIFY this mentality. Whenever a woman complains that she gets shamed for having lots of sex, this is the response she gets, in the form of "you are shamed because a lock that...". If it were truly merely an example of how people behave, then it would become "you are shamed for having lots of sex because you are shamed for having lots of sex". How does that make sense? And I'm saying that the justification is flawed. It's one thing to believe in XYZ. It's another t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:53 PM |
| 8 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withMy dude, the analogy is that a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock. Note the adjective. It is a clear attempt at shaming, which implies that the action being shamed is at least morally questionable. There's a difference between saying that something is BAD, and that something is unremarkable or normal (such as being able to cook rice). It is very obvious that the manosphere applies the former rather than the latter to women getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:50 PM |
| 3 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withIF the premises of the analogy are refused an explanation, then it would essentially become a circular argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:49 PM |
| 2 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin withRead the second part of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:25 PM |
| 5 | The lock and key analogy is irrational, because it entails a premise that isn't agreed upon to begin with"Morally acceptable" means "not morally wrong". It doesn't mean "the right thing to do". It just means that it's not the wrong thing to do. Plus, none of that matters - if your premise is that "doing something easy is morally wrong" then logic will tell you that substituting "something easy" for, well, something easy, is how it works in the syllogism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Does availability of options dictate whether someone views dating as a market?Do you think men are also the same towards women - that they only do things to appeal to women & only ever talk about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 07:49 PM |
| 3 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 usersIt's quite amusing seeing women, who apparently have zero game, outside of just waving their genitals in your face. But isn't that literally the case? Men's very low standards make it possible for women to put in little effort and receive interest - even on this sub this idea is echoed. In fact, on threads debating the "(dis)advantages" of being each gender, a very common advantage men will put for women is that they can receive male interest with very little effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Is There A Big Enough Time Gap To Excuse a “hoe phase”...which is an entirely different statement from "women created hookup culture*. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Is There A Big Enough Time Gap To Excuse a “hoe phase”Aren't there more men than women who want to hook up? "Women unilaterally created hookup culture" you make it sound like women are regularly pressuring men into casual sex, and the men are frustrated that women only sex. Is that the case here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 07:33 AM |
| 8 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?I really don't think straight men and gay men are that different, in terms of how they approach sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:35 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?Well refer to my previous comment. Gay dudes can already get laid incredibly easily. And yet the male prostitution industry is thriving. Along with male OFs, male camming shows, men selling nudes, used underwear etc. I was curious once and I went to a gay forum post asking about whether anyone has tried male escorts. Lots of them admitted to paying for it. Many said the experience was not too different from a hookup. You would think, like you say in your comment, why are men paying for sexual se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:05 AM |
| 4 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?I think my point is that even if women weren't choosy & were just as dtf as men, men would still be buying women's sex work. At a slightly lower rate. But in such a world the sex work industry would still be massive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 06:54 AM |
| 9 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?Meanwhile if you're a man, even a handsome one, nobody will ever give a shit about you unless you commit actions that increase your social standing. Men buy each other's OFs. But in this case you gotta think here. Average gay guys can easily get sexual attention from other men. Even ugly gay guys can still hook up with other ugly guys. But gay men are still spending money buying sexual services from other men even when they can get it for free. I think the rationale for men paying for sexual ser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 06:44 AM |
| 3 | I asked this for women the other day so I’ll ask this for men now. And same thing guys, I want you to genuinely think about it before impulsively answering.Put the actual question in the title for god's sake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:57 AM |
| 0 | Q4men: do you REALLY want women to be like men?Didn't you just imply they were the same men? But men want to get laid. So if a women wants to sleep with them that's cool. It's the pump and dump, "just having fun" mentality that turns men off. You didn't make a distinction between types of men in that comment. You gotta clarify here, do the men who "don't want women to act like men" also want these women to have casual sex (with them)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Q4men: do you REALLY want women to be like men?It's not so much about hypocrisy even though one can make that point. It's about having contradictory desires in such a way that it's logically impossible to have them both. "Women not engaging in casual sex" contradicts "women engaging in casual sex (with me or whoever)". Logically it is impossible to have both of these simultaneously. You can't have a situation where men are having casual sex with women but simultaneously women are not having casual sex with anyone. That makes no sense at all.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 07:41 PM |
| 0 | Q4men: do you REALLY want women to be like men?So do you see how men's desires are contradictory and how that creates a problem? If a woman is sleeping with them casually, she is obviously "just having fun" but that simultaneously pisses these men off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 7 | Q4men: do you REALLY want women to be like men?In fact, I've said often that men are not attracted to women who act like men. The promiscuity, the "boss bitch" personas, the masculine traits, etc. Men want women to be women. Feminine. So by that logic, men would be en masse rejecting women who want to hook up. If men wanted women not to be promiscuous then they would be telling women who want to engage in hook up culture to basically fuck off. Which is 100% opposite of what's actually happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:18 AM |
| 13 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexI just came across this (Jun 2022) which seems to say the opposite: A study has found that men prefer women with poor grammar and, strangely, are slightly less drawn to well-written profiles. In fact, the results of a survey by platform ProWritingAid, showed that male daters were 10% less likely to initiate a connection. This is in stark contrast to female daters, between 18 and 34 years old, who were over 300% times more likely to go for a romantic suitor who hadn't made any grammatical mistake… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 06:13 PM |
| 9 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexLet's just assume that is true - does anyone here consider it worth it for some guy who's about to go into university, if he originally had a strong interest in a "smart" STEM subject to begin with, to throw that all away for the rest of his life and pursue a "dumber" field that he has no interest in JUST so he could have more success in sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV The sexual double standard (Guys getting girls = studs/Girls getting guys = sluts) is as natural as women who can't grow beards wanting men with beardsShould they be shamed because they're rich and that they likely got their money from exploiting poor people, or because "it is easy to do"? That's the question here. I don't know if people saying these things here truly believe in the premise that "if you doing something that is easy you are a bad person". My legs work normally and therefore it's easy to walk. Should I be shamed for walking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 06:41 AM |
| 2 | CMV The sexual double standard (Guys getting girls = studs/Girls getting guys = sluts) is as natural as women who can't grow beards wanting men with beardsIn that case I guess there's not much to disagree on. best of luck to the rest of the thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV The sexual double standard (Guys getting girls = studs/Girls getting guys = sluts) is as natural as women who can't grow beards wanting men with beardsIf someone were to say something rude to a woman who has lots of partners, would you be against that or find that morally objectionable? (for example, in the same way you might react to a person insulting a janitor for working such a job) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:39 PM |
| 0 | CMV The sexual double standard (Guys getting girls = studs/Girls getting guys = sluts) is as natural as women who can't grow beards wanting men with beardsOP's point about hypocrisy is reasonable. Many people seem to be implying that you should only ever demand traits in your partners that you also have - which they don't seem to preach themselves. The problem I have with your argument is the implication of this double standard. I'm not talking about standards for a relationship. I'm rather talking about the societal shaming / praising of men and women who have/don't have sex. I'm not gonna strawman you so before that conversation starts I first w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:17 PM |
| 7 | CMV The sexual double standard (Guys getting girls = studs/Girls getting guys = sluts) is as natural as women who can't grow beards wanting men with beardsWhat isn't explained at all is the apparent argument being premised that doing something difficult = good and doing something easy = bad. Should people always be shamed for doing something that is easy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:12 PM |
| 0 | Having women as friends is basedIt's more like, the mentality these people have is they want to make friends regardless of their gender, rather than going out of their way to make opposite sex friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Having women as friends is basedDo you think a two people who're in relationships with different people can be friends with each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating OutcomesWould you argue that feminine men are less likely to put out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 01:48 PM |
| 15 | Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women?Would you rather your woman have no job whatsoever, or a job that she feels normal about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?The question would be made a LOT better if it was asked whether they'd choose to be gay (rather than be a woman). And ask the women whether they'd choose to be a lesbian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?That must really suck overall. How have you tried to overcome that? e.g. with regards to guys, how do you filter out for the guys who won't get insecure? And how do you make sure you get girl friends who don't get jealous of the attention you get? For what it's worth I remember reading a twitter post about from a self-admitted less attractive girl who said that befriending attractive girls is the worst idea to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?Were there jealousy problems from your female friends too? Or unless they were also able to pull as much as you. I think being too desirable comes with its own set of problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?Did the guys you dated ever feel insecure about how much you could pull (compared to them)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 09:38 PM |
| 3 | If a high % of men would be down to hook up with a female friend/acquantince anytime, what % of men would still do it if it's the girlfriend of his friend who wants to cheat?Can you give answers to some combinations of these variables? e.g. "very hot" + "you like (respect?) your friend a lot", and "okay looking" + "you like your friend moderately" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 06:03 PM |
| 12 | Women say that the bar low for men? Is this really true?Amber Heard is very pretty, yes. Her role in Mandy Lane was great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Why does the manosphere despise high n-count women while actively creating those women via promiscuity?I really don't think there's anything morally wrong with having such standards for relationships. Honestly if there's a guy with precisely this standard, but is respectful of it & doesn't spew any hatred or hostility then there's nothing wrong with that. I'll use another example. I'm sure the majority of people would not date someone who permanently lives in a place 5000 miles away (because most people don't want LDRs). But yet you don't see most NYC residents spewing hatred towards Hawaiian res… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Why does the manosphere despise high n-count women while actively creating those women via promiscuity?Tradcons are a good example of guys who say the same things but are at least somewhat consistent because they themselves dont like casual sex (so they shame the men involved in the culture too). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Why does the manosphere despise high n-count women while actively creating those women via promiscuity?RP promotes men understanding female nature, and teaches outcome-oriented men ways to achieve the outcome they desire. If a woman is going to choose to be promiscuous until she hits the wall then it's not up to men to save her, that's her choice. RP doesn't despise her for her choices, it simply teaches men to see her as a good sex option but a bad relationship option. I really wish this was the case, but it simply hasn't been reality. There is a lot of vitriol directed at the women who hook up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Do nice guys actually exist?the guy she marries and has kids with. which is reprodcution - the point of life, according to many people here (not accusing you, just pointing out that many people here spout the idea that getting to reproduce is all that matters as a man because it's their biological imperative) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:19 AM |
| 27 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinkI thought men were more likely to agree on who's attractive , compared to women, according to this study. It was published in 2009 however so it'd be good for more related studies to take place now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:01 AM |
| 4 | single guys, do you spend time with girls you're not attracted to?sex with them given the opportunity your friends' girlfriends included? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.I'm not talking about bathhouses for men & women together. I'm talking about bathhouses for women (lesbians) exclusively. So it has nothing to do with whether they're willing to give it up for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.Then there should be some explaining to do as to why women's sex bathhouses are so rare, and why women's dating apps aren't full of nudes like grindr. You would think that if they were as sexually forward as men, these institutions would exist so as to fasttrack the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 09:05 AM |
| 6 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.Right, I'm saying that those things don't really happen. Lesbians are nowhere as sexually forward as men are. It's part of why lesbians, on dating apps, dont' send each other nudes from the get go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 08:24 AM |
| 8 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.The lesbian women were doing the exact same things the guys were doing. But they got away with it! They would catcall, they would touch girls they just met, they would compliment non stop, they'd send them drinks. How is this true? Lesbians don't send each other unsolicited nudes. They don't have bathhouses where strange women meet up for sex. (these two things are what straight men do, and wish they could do, with women) If lesbians interacted with women in the same way straight men do, then th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 06:58 AM |
| 15 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.Would this contradict the notion that they often lose attraction instantly due to superficial and arbitrary "icks" as they're getting to know the guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?Would you trade your current relationship (if you have one) for one hookup? As in, break up immediately, but then later that night you have a one night stand at the bar & she doesnt contact you again? (and that's it) You seem to stress this a lot so i'm just wondering - like would that be worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 08:41 AM |
| 14 | Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular?This doesn't tell us the fully story. Gay dudes can get it for free very easily too, yet gay sugar daddies are very common compared to sugar moms (even though gay men are of a much much smaller population than straight women). If an older gay man wants to attract a young man, it wouldn't be too difficult if he puts in a little effort. And it goes beyond that... men who want to make money on OF are told that they'll have to market to men, even though any man who wants nudes and lewd videos from o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 10:01 PM |
| 14 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?Most people you shake hands with have had dicks in them at some point. Most of the cups you drink out of in restaurants have been touched by lips that have touched other mouths, dicks and vaginas. If you're afraid that things you touch have been touched by other people, even when those things get washed and cleaned periodically then I don't think you should be touching anything at all anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | What are some apparently contradicting claims espoused by the same people, that you want to point out?You... do realize that I don't hold all of those beliefs right? I am presenting many of the things people have been saying here, regardless of ideology. This is a logical fallacy. Just because men's friendships don't have the emotional and intimacy aspects to the extent women's relationships do does not mean these relationships are lacking or unhealthy. They are just relationships between men, which are different than the relationships women have. Methinks you have this "men and women are the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ?The question is "what would happen". This is what would happen. How would men interact with women if the had easy sex? - they would interact like gay men interacting with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 07:11 PM |
| 43 | What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ?Men want easy access to sex women have It's happening right now, it's called gay men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 05:30 AM |
| 5 | Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion.Hobosexual guys enter a relationship & have sex for the goal of securing a place to live, not for sex in itself. If this is a hobosexual then he wouldn't be complaining (why would he increase his chances of getting kicked out of her place?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:35 AM |
| 4 | How do you explain sexist women?If it's "meaningless" then how are you able to decipher it being intended to entice people into sexual perversity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.And if it's the solo girl genre...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.Does this apply to men watching the Lesbian genre...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 07:46 AM |
| 50 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Are you attracted to 100% of women or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | What is the driving force behind most couples being looksmatched ?I remember this study but I did not read the whole thing - is that what the study found? That couples are happiest when the woman is hotter than the man according to: (a) the woman, (b) the man, (c) both, or (d) other people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?YOU said "threat to the RELATIONSHIP" - which is formed by BOTH people. Since I'm having a conversation with YOU, I'm not responding to what OP said, I'm responding to what YOU said. If you insist on the topic being about whether the person cheating continues to love their partner, then why did you start talking about a separate topic about the threat to the relationship? You do realize these are two different topics right? Whether a person continues to stay satisfied after cheating, and whether… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 05:53 AM |
| 4 | Getting a hobby to attract women is terrible adviceIs the advice to get hobbies with the sole purpose of attracting women, rather than enjoying the hobby in and of itself where attracting more people with the hobby is just a bonus? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 03:49 AM |
| 12 | Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to?80% of men your age is crazy high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?I'm responding to the claims that you have been making. You literally said, and I quote: If a man cheats, he’s staying with his gf. If a woman cheats, she’s leaving her bf. Therefore a woman cheating is worse for the relationship. A man can cheat and love and respect his girlfriend. If a woman cheats she neither loves nor respects her boyfriend. You said that it's worse for the relationship. Is the other person not part of the relationship??? The topic isn't how the person cheating feels, it's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?Ok, you're talking about how men think. Let's just assume that is true, and someone else can argue with you if they disagree with that assumption. You haven't at all addressed how the woman feels in this situation. This is what I was talking about and a crucial bit of info you have missed. You were talking about the threat that a man cheating poses to the relationship. Is the wife not part of that relationship? Even if the man truly believes he loves his wife - when the wife finds out, is she ok… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?Ok let's assume the premise that the man is going to stay and the woman isn't. Does that still mean he "respects" his girlfriend? Assuming it's a typical monogamous relationship, you consider a guy who just slept with another woman, and then coming back home to his girlfriend, to be respectful? Is the girlfriend going to be okay with it too? Even if the guy truly believes he is respecting his girlfriend that he's cheating on, what makes you think the girlfriend has the exact same mentality and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?Ok, are we even arguing the same things here? I was responding to your claim that a woman who is equally as inclined as a man to step out of a relationship is much worse than that man You were referring to the woman, the person herself, being "worse" than the man. I took this as you referring to their moral character. Not the impact it has on the relationship overall. On this note, do you agree with me about the man being morally worse than the woman? But even putting that aside, I still don't g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?I think the effort put into cheating has significance in the "badness". Like I said, the difficulty is already a deterrent. But it says a lot about someone who acknowledges this difficulty, and treks through the difficulty by putting a high amount of effort into it and does it anyway. Because it takes so long, there are so many of opportunities along the way to change your mind and call quits, but yet you avoid all of that. This is why I think it's worse to cheat if cheating takes more work for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Womens bodycount the most important factor for relationship success?Assuming both have made up their minds to cheat, a man is going to have a much harder time actually doing so, making the woman more likely than him to actually do it. Doesn't it make it even worse for the man to cheat in this case? The man here is putting a lot of time and effort into doing something very objectionable. That's certainly worse than spending no effort into doing something bad. Either way, I can't see why the man would be better than the woman here. Assuming cheating is wrong, if t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 07:59 AM |
| 19 | Are women just more queer than men?When men are straight, they tend to be a lot more straight than when women are straight. When men are gay, they tend to be a lot gayer than when women are gay. If that makes sense. Gay men are more turned off by women than straight women are & straight men are more turned off by men than gay women are. As to why this is the case, this is an interesting question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Girls wouldn't sleep around/have hoe phases/rack up high body counts if they knew guys had no standardskey I don't think anyone here is saying it's "good" - the question is how is it bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 04:16 AM |
| 10 | The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as menIt would be useful to compare how gay men feel about men's nudes and how lesbians feel about women's nudes. If you look at a gay dating app, you will see that gay men are far more willing and eager to ask for & send cock/asshole pics, compared to lesbians asking for or sending nudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 07:58 PM |
| 8 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first datedon't you want her to genuinely want to "offer pussy" instead of it being a conditional thing, in this case you paying for her meal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Debates here will never lead to any conclusion until redpill gives data to prove "most women are like that"You're right - contradictory viewpoints are very common, and what is best is to analyze the situation to see what is most logical. If I want two things, but they are apparently mutually exclusive, then logically I think of some compromise. Eating a lot and staying skinny are, for most people, mutually exclusive, and people who insist on wanting both would logically have to make some compromises. Maybe they'll eat a lot and also exercise a lot (see Matt Stonie). I think contradictions are the mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Debates here will never lead to any conclusion until redpill gives data to prove "most women are like that"You only need one girl with a low n count to finally commit to. You can let most women sleep around in a culture that allows casual sex and still meet many girls who haven’t racked up such large numbers. Manosphere, including RP is growing. Many men are joining it. And they existing RP men encourage to join. RP men are literally making it harder for themselves to find a girl that "hasn't racked up large numbers". They are promoting a situation where even more women are going to "rack up large nu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Debates here will never lead to any conclusion until redpill gives data to prove "most women are like that"I think it's helpful to analyze if your desires contradict. It's a logical problem, not a moral one. So these guys ultimately women not to sleep around and they want to accomplish this. These women are sleeping around with men. So in addition to discouraging women for sleeping around or attempting to sleep around, it'd be helpful to also discourage men for sleeping around or attempting to sleep around. To shame women for having casual sex (with the intention of them to stop sleeping around) whil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Debates here will never lead to any conclusion until redpill gives data to prove "most women are like that"personal preferences when shared by many men become social pressure on women to not sleep around. The ironic thing is that there is a whole portion of the manosphere - rp - that focuses on sleeping around with women, which entails a situation where women are sleeping around. If I were a man who had this low count preference you speak of, I'd be pissed at RP men for encouraging a situation where women are sleeping around even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:11 PM |
| 17 | Is Male sexuality broken ?Most people don't talk about masturbation with their friends lmao. I really don't know where you live that men, or women for that matter, are being told something is wrong with them because they masturbate. I can imagine some people turning their eyes when a person masturbates very frequently, but your arguments bringing up how men don't talk about masturbation are just bizarre and unhelpful towards your case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"Sounds like promiscuous women who like to hook up are saints and deserve admiration and respect for making so many men happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"Committing to someone who settles for you raises the chance for paternity fraud Again we've established that it's about the ability to have kids and has nothing to do with whether a baby actually pops out let alone whether it's yours. So this point shouldn't be relevant. The ability to have kids is increased with someone who settles for you, compared to if you're alone. Same goes for your third paragraph - why should it matter she's a bitch, if this situation presumably results in a higher abili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"That's fair enough. I'm sure this is a universal view, and even other women would be upset if their BF would not have hooked up with her (for example, women whose husbands don't want to touch them likely suspect this). I was merely responding to the idea that being viewed solely as a hookup option (which is what OP seems to be suggesting) is the ideal for everyone - even more ideal than being viewed as both a relationship + hookup material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"Being valued (solely) for sex gives you a greater ability to pass on your genes (than if women didn't want anything to do with you). That's true. What's also true is that having a woman settle for you also gives you a greater ability to pass on your genes (than if a woman didn't want anything to do with you - this is important). The problem is that men here seem to prefer being alone, than being with a woman that settled for them, even though the latter leads to a relatively higher chance of pas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 02:09 AM |
| 0 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"You just claimed that it's the ability to pass on your genes that's what's important. And now you're moving the goalposts and saying it requires not being settled for (even when the ability to reproduce is literally there) or them not wanting you to be romantically involved (even when the ability to reproduce is literally there). The problem is that guys here say that they'd rather be alone than have a woman settle for them. But in this case, being alone gives you an even lower ability to "pass … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"If he's fucking his wife then he has the ability to get her pregnant. ??? That guy is literally demonstrating an ability to have kids, and he engaged in an activity that could lead to his wife getting pregnant. Why does it matter that he's being settled for if you've established that "having the ability to reproduce" is all that matters in this context? It wouldn't even matter if the kids aren't even his, because like you said it's about the ability. And now it seems like you're shifting from "b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"So what is it called when you are viewed as both a "hookup material" and simultaneously "boyfriend material"? Is that what you're describing here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"would you also argue that the "leftover men" are suckers? Because if so, then the manosphere voicing the concern that many young men can't get sex would be a bit ironic because yall are actively contributing to these young men not getting sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"I'm saying that "doing the things that enable you to pass on your genes" can come in many forms and is not specific to casual sex. The guys here would hate to be the guy who gets settled for later in life, has a kid and gets divorced and has to pay child support. In this case, they still literally accomplished "being able to pass on their genes", and yet no one in that position would say that they feel good about themselves in the same way as a guy hooking up using protection. I really don't thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:41 AM |
| -3 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"It's entirely irrelevant because by using protection and intending her not to reproduce, you literally don't have a desire to reproduce. You say you're getting selected to have a baby with a woman when literally the opposite is happening lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:33 AM |
| 4 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material""pass on my genes" so every time you have sex you intend to get the woman pregnant and have a baby? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Being "hookup material" is better than being "boyfriend material"I don't think there's a bigger complement to a man than being hookup material, if you are it means you're likely pretty hot and good enough to hook up with nearly anyone, isn't that the dream? No strings attached sex with multiple people? For the guy who only wants "no strings attached sex with multiple people" yes. For the one who wants a romantic relationship, no? The whole basis of your claim makes assumptions about what the guy wants to begin with. If he only wants hookups then of course he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Answers to overly-asked questionsI remember various comments here saying that they are in a high paying (6 figure) career and still couldn't get any interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?What's your sentencing guidelines | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 08:36 AM |
| -1 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?So in your ideal society, two people not in a romantic relationship with each other decide to have sex, and they are sent to jail as as a result? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 08:33 AM |
| -1 | Why do we as a society continue to engage in hook up culture and the degeneracy that comes with it, when it leaves most people so empty inside?So what's your solution to all this? if you consider people having casual sex to be causing society to drip with misery, then what do you suggest we do to those people? Should we punish them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Those of you not attracted to bisexual men? Have you participated in homoerotic acts?The ironic thing is that gay men have a huge obsession with masculinity. I've seen cases of gay men hooking up but don't want to kiss because they consider it feminine. In these cases they consider anal sex masculine, whether giving or receiving, but kissing each other is suddenly feminine so they avoid that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you dance and sing along to misogynistic rap lyrics?I think you're describing a rather universal concept because this is strikingly similar to how people are opposed to violence (esp gun violence) and yet have no problem with video game/movie/music depiction of violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:17 AM |
| – | Young handsome men cannot create an OnlyFans and get fabulously rich from "thirsty" women in the way that young, attractive women can -- I am trying to figure out the implications of this restrictive phenomenon and its evolutionary causeYoung handsome men are on OF all the time... They're getting rich from men buying their content. My analysis seems suspect so I'm hoping a better explanation exists for why (evolutionarily speaking) men have evolved to become capable of spending hundreds of dollars to chat or sext with young, attractive women but women don't desire chatting or sexting with young, attractive men (at least not to the same degree). You can ask a similar question: why is it that gay men find it ridiculously easy to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:52 PM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?It's not that the partner doesn't "care that you're a hypocrite". It's more that they don't consider you a hypocrite in the first place, or they think you're technically a hypocrite by definition but they do not think of it as troubling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:25 AM |
| 3 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?So do you think that anyone who is currently "dating down" in terms of lifestyle, and is claiming they are very happy, are just lying to themselves & are stupid? And would you advise such a person, regardless of how happy they are, to end the relationship immediately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:24 AM |
| 4 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?It makes a shitty partner if they were your partner, or it makes a shitty partner towards everyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:19 AM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?Since you say it's the lifestyle standard that's the problem, but not physical characteristic, if it's a guy with a medical disability that makes him obese and can't lose weight, and he wants a wife to have a pretty face and who is a normal weight (not necessarily fit) - would you still consider the guy an asshole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 01:00 AM |
| 2 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?and the fact that they're a happy couple that deeply loves each other has no effect on your judgement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:44 AM |
| 4 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?So if you see a super fat dude with a supermodel wife, and even though they claim to be a happy couple & the guy explicitly wanted a supermodel wife, you're going to consider the guy an asshole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:25 AM |
| 5 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?I really don't think they're an asshole if they have standards they don't meet themselves. hypocritical, sure, but I don't think it's immoral. Like I said - if I see a couple where one is a fat fuck and the other is a supermodel, I will feel happy for them regardless and I don't think that the fat person is an asshole even if (s)he explicitly wanted a supermodel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 17 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?I disagree with the idea that you should not hold others to standards you don't meet yourself. There are people out there who demand fit models when they're overweight, for example, and I do find that very unrealistic. But at the same time I don't see anything wrong with it since it's not like they're forcing anyone to date them - and if they do land a supermodel while still being overweight themselves then I'm happy for this couple regardless. I think that this idea works as a piece of advice w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:45 PM |
| 10 | Societal solutions to male sexlessness and mitigating the downsides of hypergamy.Normalize Polyandry The men who complain about being sexlessness often also complain about women having multiple partners lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | If "your male friends want to smash", how would things change if she said wanted you to pay for it?Yes they are gay, I didn't imply straight? But it helps prove my point anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 07:50 PM |
| 3 | If "your male friends want to smash", how would things change if she said wanted you to pay for it?t’s most likely because you can’t get what you’re wanting for free. In some cases, maybe they can get laid, but just not with the kind of women they want. I think this is the far more realistic option but I do believe that these guys simply have a "eating at home/dining out" mentality to it - they like to eat at home, and they also don't mind spending more money dining out sometimes. The quality of sex from paying for it is probably higher than when they get if for free (because the woman is hot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:39 PM |
| 5 | If "your male friends want to smash", how would things change if she said wanted you to pay for it?Aren't most clients guys cheating on their wives? And this doesn't explain male-to-male prostitution because it's quite easy for a man to find other men in the same attractiveness level for sex, but yet there's still massive demand for male prostitution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Lol no. I eat meat. But I also don't complain about "animal abuse" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 01:54 AM |
| 3 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?so then what did you mean by There needs to be a piece of you missing in order to work at one of those places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?then how do you suggest people eat meat without having them be slaughtered? You can't be suggesting that you find eating meat to be ethical but slaughtering animals to be unethical. The meat comes from animals being slaughtered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?we are both brilliant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 7 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Right but most people that someone dates are people who eat meat, i.e. they support animals getting their heads, bodies chopped off (because how else are they able to eat the meat?) In other words they support the existence of these places. Just out of interest which group do you fall into? Are you a meat eater or vegan? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:01 PM |
| 7 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?So basically any slaughterhouse worker then. Any farmer who eats his own crops and animals that he raised himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?And you're underthinking it because if you consider beating a dog to be mistreatment then surely one could reasonably interpret cutting a cow's head off to get beef to be "of the like". Which group do you fall into? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 7 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Basically when someone complains about the mistreatment of animals they usually fall into one of two groups: Vegans who are opposed to harming any animals for any purpose, whether it be eating them, riding them, testing substances on them, wearing them, beating them. The degree to which they are opposed to animal testing, beating animals, is more or less the same to that of eating them. Meat eaters who want large amounts of animals to be killed for food but in a "painless" fashion - which makes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 5 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?how are you defining "mistreatment" of animals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | If it's acceptable for women to make men wait for sex, it's acceptable for men to pretend to want a relationshipOut of interest, do you believe that both should be acceptable, or both should be unacceptable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?I didn't reply as if it's the majority of men who think this. I replied to a guy saying that it is indeed the majority, but whether I agree with that is irrelevant. I don't know if it's common - to answer your question. Among manosphre yes, but men in general I dont know. The point I'm making is that the men who simultaneously respect promiscuous men and detest promiscuous women are contradicting themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?The comment is about men who DO praise men for fucking. Read the initial comment at the top of this chain - "We respect men who are sexually successful". Why are you in this comment chain saying it doesn't apply to you when the conversation's premise is restricted to all those to whom this applies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?As I said, it's his sexual success that I respect, if he meets a nice non-promiscuous hot girl and wifes her up and he's happy then that's also a sexual success that I will respect. The other thing is this: men's "sexual success" with women is contributing to women's promiscuity - something you don't want. You say you want women to be more "sexually conservative". But men's sexual success with women is indicative of women being LESS sexually conservative. If anything, you shouldn't be respecting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?My motivation is for women to face consequences for their promiscuity, in the form of men not wanting to have committed relationships with them and in doing so create a motivation for women to be more sexually conservative. If that's the case then why isn't the point of RP to simply educate men on finding good women to have a relationship with, instead of teaching men how to "spin plates"? in fact scratch that - encouraging men to hook up with women simply does not do anything help the case of "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 11:16 AM |
| 7 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?I already said it's because "I recognise that for a man being sexually successful shows that he is a winner" And I'm asking you: therefore...? If you're willing to recognize that success, are you not also encouraging him to maintain that success? If it's not your intention to encourage him to continue being successful, then maybe it's a bad idea to respect him, to his face. I sincerely can't think of a situation where I respect, admire and praise people actively doing something, but simultaneous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:42 AM |
| 6 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?My point is this: pick a side. And I'm saying this not out of ethics but out of logic. The desire of (A) where you and your fellow men are having lots of hookups with women, contradicts the desire where (B) no hookups are taking place to begin with and everyone follows a traditional lifestyle. If the desire (A) becomes realized, then desire (B) becomes impossible. And vice versa. In the west, both men and women condone hookup culture. You say women condone hookup culture so I don't need to prove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:35 AM |
| 7 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?I don't want a lot of men to have sex with a lot of women, I recognise that for a man being sexually successful shows that he is a winner. Then what's the point of respecting and admiring men who fuck a lot then? Are you not encouraging them to continue fucking even more women? And in the manosphere RP, men actively help each other get laid more. They take time out of their day to guide fellow men into having more sex. Since you do want RP to grow in size, by extension you want more and more men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 10:24 AM |
| 9 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?The point isn't whether you would/should date a slutty woman. The point is, the consequence of men having more sex is... women having more sex. That's the direct consequence. It's not even the side effect... it's literally a simultaneous consequence. If a man has sex with a woman, that woman is having sex with that man. If a man has sex with a lot of women, all those women are having sex with that man. What this means is that if you want (A) a situation where a lot of men are having sex with a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:56 AM |
| 18 | Men are called studs for excessively hooking up? Where?If you're encouraging your fellow men to have hookups with women, and you're encouraging already successful men to have hookups with even more women, then this means you're encouraging a situation where an increasing number of women are hooking up, and where women are having an increasing number of sexual partners. Your friend hooked up with 100 women - you praise him and encourage him. Later, he ups this number to 200. Now, the number of women who have had sex in some period of time ago, and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 09:36 AM |
| 24 | Women pretending to care about n-count is an angle.It’s hilarious bc most women have a very normal/conservative amount of partners. If men had the opportunity women nearly had every single one of you whores would have fucked 1,000 people by like 25. No need to wonder, you can just compare the number of partners that gay men have vs lesbians. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Male seperatism is the only logical way to live for men in the present dayYou're talking about interactions in a romantic/sexual context only, right? It's not like if you're buying groceries and the cashier happens to be a woman then you'll switch to a lane with a male cashier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Male seperatism is the only logical way to live for men in the present daybut this need can be fulfilled through either 1) porn, 2) a prostitute, or 3) drugs that reduce your sex drive. is "male separatism" even the right phrase here? Sounds like you're promoting just not getting into relationships rather as opposed to separatism, given that you're still interacting with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?should ... have the choice of does "should" here mean that you are merely advising women to "work as prostitutes or the red light district", or are you suggesting they should be forced to by law? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?you didn't answer the question at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?what's worse to you - her being submissive to a woman in one encounter, or being dominant towards a man in another encounter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?So by that logic if your wife is submissive to you, you would consider that as lack of self respect and you'd be turned off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?If she's submissive towards other women in her past experiences that would be bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?just curious, is the reasoning for why you're not bothered that if a person is in the dominant position then they're not being "damaged", or is it in fact rather you're just into dominant women to begin with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?Ok so what you're saying is as long as she's in the "dominant" position, regardless of the genders of her sexual partners, then that's fine? If she's received head from a bunch of guys/girls, or if she's pegged a bunch of guys/girls, or she was involved in a gangbang where she was one of the gangbangers instead of the person being focused on, then that's okay to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?And what specifically she did with those women doesn't matter, right? If she was getting "dominated" by a group of women in some gangbang where she was the focus, that would still not matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?So both (partner has had lots of sex with men, vs with women) are bad to you, but is one worse than the other? Or do they both do equal amounts of damage to the person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?It's more like, exactly what aspects of her life contribute to your discomfort? If she's fucked 50 men and 50 women, then is the "50 men" part going to have an effect on your view of her whereas the "50 women" part has no effect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:08 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women?Can you give a response to each scenario? Strap on involved strap on not involved she was giving she was receiving (and by extension, does the same apply to men? If she received head from a guy at a bar, does that bother you to a lesser extent?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 08:07 PM |
| 11 | If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics?Only to some extent because women are still the ones getting pregnant in this world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 12:45 PM |
| 12 | Would prostitution be so extended if men had sex or relationships as easily as women?You can easily tell this because of gay prostitution. Men find it ridiculously easy to find hookups from other men. The gay casual sex scene is massive. And yet, there is still a massive market for male prostitution (not just prostitution, but also OF, cam shows, selling nudes, selling used underwear etc). What does that tell us? It tells us that men's demand for prostitution is not really affected by their ability to get sex for free. It's like how you enjoy eating at home, but sometimes you pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Pick one: dateless or jobless. Which situation is worse to you?is the same happening to your other male friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Can I ask about your dating life so far? What's your goal and have you been successful achieving it?move to Thailand permanently or just a trip? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The bitterness right now between men and women indicates that homosexuality really is superior to heterosexualitythe hottest gay men are too busy screwing each other, but I'm sure as an average looking gay man you can easily hook up with other men of similar attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 12 | Something something about me victim blamingthis is why pro-choice is a good thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Guys: Would you fuck Marjorie Taylor Greene?How attractive do you find her /10? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Why do people say that "women are born. Men are made"...?So do you agree with the woman in the tweet then? I don't need to bring anything to the table. I am a luxury. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How common are "hobosexuals" - people who get into a relationship just to prevent themselves from being homeless?We're not talking about butchering words, we are talking about butchering syntax and morphology I hope you realize morphology is literally about words. Morphology deals with the formation of words. So it's quite the contradiction to say that you're not concerned about "butchering words" yet "butchering morphology" is a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How common are "hobosexuals" - people who get into a relationship just to prevent themselves from being homeless?Did you know Language has rules? And that the evolution of language happens when the rules are changed, or gradually replaced, and NOT when they are just ignored en masse where everyone just utters what they think makes sense only in their head? I literally just gave you an example of language rules being ignored - when people mishear "a napron" as "an apron" and ignore that "napron" is the intended spelling, and decide to go by it anyway because this is what "makes sense in their head". By your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:29 PM |
| 6 | How common are "hobosexuals" - people who get into a relationship just to prevent themselves from being homeless?Did you know that English used to not have "do"? At some point English was "drinks you?" as with similar languages like German, instead of "do you drink?". Are you suggesting that English was butchered because of this feature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 11:33 PM |
| 3 | How common are "hobosexuals" - people who get into a relationship just to prevent themselves from being homeless?language evolves over time... "Proper english" has also evolved over time. The English you're speaking now is completely different to the English spoken hundreds of years ago. Did you know "apron" formed from "napron" but it was commonly misheard "a napron" --> "an apron" so now it's called "Apron"? You could argue that this is the result of people butchering the original word but yet I don't see you complaining about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:25 PM |
| 5 | How common are "hobosexuals" - people who get into a relationship just to prevent themselves from being homeless?You're right to point that out unfortunately that's just the nature of descriptive linguistics, language use is about what is instead of what should be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 5 | How common are "hobosexuals" - people who get into a relationship just to prevent themselves from being homeless?therapist clients? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | How common are "hobosexuals" - people who get into a relationship just to prevent themselves from being homeless?The commonly accepted definition is that the hobosexual is the bum - look up hobosexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Isn't it strange how men are less sexually fluid than men? You would think that given men's thirstiness, they would be more fluid.Well religion, which was quite dominant in societal construction in traditional times, espouses gender roles and by extension masculinity. Depending on what you consider traditional, however, I've noticed tradcons often reminisce of the 1950s. If you agree that circumcision is traditional masculinity, and you think that circumcision is damaging, then you are saying that traditional masculinity isn't all good, and at least one aspect of traditional masculinity is damaging - would this be accurate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Isn't it strange how men are less sexually fluid than men? You would think that given men's thirstiness, they would be more fluid.What? I'm not arguing whether it's good. You said circumcision is an attack on traditional masculinity which makes no sense because circumcision is traditional masculinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Isn't it strange how men are less sexually fluid than men? You would think that given men's thirstiness, they would be more fluid.Circumcision is literally one of the oldest practices in history, how is it not "traditional" masculinity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it strange how men are less sexually fluid than men? You would think that given men's thirstiness, they would be more fluid.I am saying that masculinity =/= being strictly heterosexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 01:33 AM |
| 4 | Isn't it strange how men are less sexually fluid than men? You would think that given men's thirstiness, they would be more fluid.The thing is, gay men's circles have a high degree of obsession with masculinity. The "feminine" type of gay men and masculine gay men are generally not fans of each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 01:26 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Women are far more entitled than men and don't expect to do even the bare minimumlink to the post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsIt really depends on the degree to which the guy or the twitchhot is trying to get sex/money from the other person. If the guy never said anything about a relationship, and was pretty clear about being casual, that's not immoral. If the twitchthot was just doing her stream, and asked for donations which are by definition voluntary, and did not promise that she would fly out to meet fans, then that's not immoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 12:48 AM |
| 0 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?As in you've seen hobosexuals irl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:55 AM |
| 13 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?Need someone to backup because i haven't seen this in real life, but the "hobosexual" phenomenon seems to be more associated with men (as in men with no stable housing using women for a place to live) than with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | What are your standards in a partner?didn't call anyone a hypocrite, just asking for clarification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 7 | What are your standards in a partner?So traditional and conservatives in all ways except for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 08:15 PM |
| 17 | What are your standards in a partner?Willingness and open mindedness to explore her sexuality. doesn't this contradict "traditional social values" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 07:32 PM |
| 7 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?Fair enough but that's why I said they're a faction. Factions of ideologies tend to agree with certain components of the main ideology and disagree with other components | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 07:17 PM |
| 13 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?if they wanted traditional dynamics then they would be housewives and submitting to the man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 07:12 PM |
| 12 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?Opposition to sex work (OF/prostitution), transgender identities, which they say are the product of patriarchy, and heavy emphasis of men's treatment of women, misogyny and a constant message about "liberating" women from the status quo that "turns them into pickmes who kneel before men and do everything they say" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:59 PM |
| 9 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?They are a faction of radfems - in the same way that Trump-hating republicans are a faction of Republicans. Don't expect other factions of radfems to agree with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:55 PM |
| 18 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?FDS are comprised of radfems, meaning a huge chunk of them are lesbians. So radfem lesbians want to have a successful dating life too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 8 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?Should WLW be morally allowed to form cis-only WLW spaces, reasoning that they have been getting harassed by trans women, as long as they don't say that trans women are "men in dresses" in the process? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:46 PM |
| 10 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?Progressivism, feminism etc are ideologies. And literally every ideology that grows beyond a sizable membership will eventually form factions due to disagreements. It's like liberals who favor free-market capitalism (hence neoliberalism) and liberals who want reform, and American conservatives who hate Trump and those who support him. In the case of feminism, you have feminists who find the idea of transgender identities (esp M-to-F identities) to be coherent and reasonable, and feminists who fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:21 PM |
| 14 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?It depends, some lesbians are pushing back and creating their own spaces where only cisgender women are allowed in. (It's not like they do genital checks or stuff like that, but they could easily say "well, why would you want to join a community that doesn't want you there anyway" to deter transwomen from joining in the first place) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?I live in a liberal city with a big gay scene. I know a lot of lesbians and their biggest compliant is that there are too many biological males in dresses at the lesbian bars wanting someone to suck/fuck their “girldick”. so how do they deal with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 4 | Isn't a bigger insult if someone who previously rejected you, still doesn't want you now that they're settling down? Compared to them settling for you?What if the reasoning has nothing to do with prenups or whether you're willing, but rather because they think your value is just so rock-bottom low that being single is still 1000x better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Recipe Mega-Threaddoes fresh/storebought orange juice make a difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 02:17 AM |
| 3 | The prohibition of prostitution is an artificial regulation of the Sexual Marketplace which can no longer be justified post-female sexual liberationEven then, you can find certain people repulsive without wanting them to be thrown in jail. People also find it repulsive when someone has 100 piercings across their body and a gaping hole in their cheek, but yet those people don't want heavily pierced people thrown in jail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 05:42 AM |
| 10 | The prohibition of prostitution is an artificial regulation of the Sexual Marketplace which can no longer be justified post-female sexual liberationDo you realize you can think of something as gross while not favoring making it illegal? Finding something "repulsive" can mean you find it repulsive morally (e.g. killing someone), or that you find it repulsive in the sense that you don't want to engage in it (e.g. scat play). Do you honestly think that when people won't date trans people, they mean that they want to criminalize transgenderism? If someone answers your question that way, it sounds like they didn't understand the question to begi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 04:13 AM |
| 4 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenAgain it's not just the rich and attractive men. It's also ordinary men who have had relationships and some hookups before. Sometimes, it's men who are no longer attracted to their wives, and want to cheat on her discreetly so they use a prostitute instead of finding a hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 02:16 AM |
| 9 | Hook Up Culture For Women Is Equivalent To Prostitution Culture For MenNo guy attractive enough to get women is going to them. Most of the guys engaging in this behaviour, even if they lie about it after, their value is low as it was before they saw them. You are making the assumption that not being able to get free sex is the only ever reason for going to prostitutes. Is that really the case? The obvious example of otherwise is rich, busy men who have no time for relationships - Justin Bieber got caught going to a brohtel once in brazil. Before Dan Bilzerean went … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.Okay, we're back to square one again. You said it is not about the acts done and it's not about whether he wants to do those things or not. So what the specific act is doesn't matter. So why are you unable to say if it also applies to things like pegging, and having the guy eat her scat, drink her piss, or having sex just once a month? If she does any of those above examples with her exes, but not with you, are you still going to say she finds you unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.You said in your OP: It is not about whether he wants to do those things or not. In your title: The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. You repeatedly say that your point is that she doesn't want to do X - regardless of whether the guy wants it - which MUST mean she finds the guy unattractive. You repeatedly say that your point is that she finds the guy unattractive, regardless of what X is. Now you're saying that it only applies to comm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 11:36 PM |
| 5 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.And I'm asking you whether that applies to ANY "X" - something you didn't mention. What if her X is pegging guys in the ass? What if her X is having guys eat her shit? What if her X is fasting for three weeks every month? What if her X is having sex only once a month? In all of those examples, is the reason still "lack of attraction"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 11:25 PM |
| 8 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.Your post: This is not about "growth" or "maturity" or "changed preferences". This is about lack of attraction. This is about her not wanting to do certain things with him. If you actually read my comment you will realize I am challenging this point. How do you know this must be the reason? If she's willing to sucker punch strangers together with her exes, but wouldn't with you, it MUST be because she finds you unattractive? If she pegged all her exes, and had them eat her shit, but wouldn't do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 11:13 PM |
| 2 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.well eat some food today because the fasting beings tomorrow morning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 10:06 PM |
| 5 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.why not? if you're purely talking about sexual things, then refer to the first two bullet points (And even then, why does it not go beyond sexual things)? Refer to my last sentence: I think the idea that someone wants to stop doing something in later relationships must always be because of lack of attraction is flawed. Don't you think some examples, like the ones I used, would fit this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 09:33 PM |
| 7 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.Are there really NO exceptions to this whatsoever? What if she did the following in her past relationships: invited 6 other men over for gangbangs pegging went out hiking together at 2am for 6 hours fasted together for 2 weeks every two months sucker punched strangers on the street together Would you really want her to be willing to do those things with you? Aren't there some things that you want her to grow out of, and stop doing? I think the idea that someone wants to stop doing something in l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?So you say you want it (and she believes you). And now she offers you the thing. And you actually go through with it? Including things like: inviting six guys over for a gangbang? fasting for five weeks? scat play? going hiking for five hours at 2am? I go through the motions as far as I need to go to believe that my partner is willing to do would be kind of interested to see how far you'd go for the above examples in order for you to believe your partner is wiling to do those things And since yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?So, how do they show that willingness if it's regarding something you don't want to do regardless? If they initially say that they wouldn't do it, but have done it before, regardless of whether you want it, and you're upset about that, do they simply need to say "nope, i've changed my mind, on second thought, if you want it (Even though you don't) I'd do it" would you believe them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?are you comfortable saying what X is? And the thing is, how do you know they Truly want to do that thing, if it's done only under the ultimatum of "do this or I'm gone"? Do you not suspect that since they don't want to do that thing, they aren't truly willing to do it when you give that ultimatum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?If I did X one time with a previous partner before deciding it is not for me, I owe my current partner to do X one time with her. has this ever happened with either of you? What was the person's reaction to doing that thing that they don't wanna do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?I think it's a bit unrealistic for it to apply to EVERYTHING. There's bound to be things that you tried but did not like, so you decide not to do it again. Take fishing for example - some people's partners ask them to go fishing (for the first time), that person goes fishing with their partner, and hates it, and does not want to go fishing again, be it alone or with anyone. Has that not ever happened to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?Applies to Everything, right? Sexual acts (ones you want, and ones you don't want), and non sexual acts? If she likes going to FIFA qualification soccer matches with her ex, but wouldn't with you, that'd hurt you as much as knowing she did anal with her ex but not with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 12:15 AM |
| 5 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?I think men are likely to feel unvalued or worthless if a woman is unwilling to do sexual acts with us that they were Is it just sexual acts, for men? If the example in your second paragraph happened to you, or otherwise something (non sexual related) she did with her ex but not with you, would that also bother you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?I think I get what he's saying. He assumes that the Reason for doing it with an ex but not him, is that she finds him unattractive, not attractive enough for her to want to do those things. The assumption could be accurate in some cases, I see, but not all. But if this assumption is correct, then I can see why he'd be upset - because he doesn't wanna be with someone that is not attracted to him to the same (or greater) extent as her other partners. So it's no longer about whether he wants those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?So if you see it as disrespect, then would it apply to the opposite - where she's willing to do something with you, but not her exes? In this case you'd see it as her disrespecting her exes, so would that be a dealbreaker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?So for you, it applies to ALL sex acts - even ones you find disgusting, right? (including pegging, scat play, etc) Does this go beyond sex acts? Does this apply to things like planning dates (she'd plan X type of dates with exes, but not with you), gifts (she gives you X type of gifts to exes, but gives you Y types of gifts)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?I think it's a universal thing whether sex or not. I doubt it's only sex that bothers the guys. I'm sure if a girl planned high effort dates with exes, everything planned out with location, time, tickets, etc, but instead had low effort date planning with the guy, the guy would be upset too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?Ok well, what I'm saying is that the guys who want to get penerated in the ass, like it for similar reasons for wanting their asses licked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?You mean receiving not giving right? And do you believe that there are many straight men who like getting their asses licked (but not penetrated)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?I think I get it too. They say it's because the partner find their exes more attractive, given that the partner is willing to do it with exes, but not with you. So if they're not doing it with you, but would with others, the only reasoning is that you're not attractive enough for that. So logically, it should apply to every single sex act regardless of whether you want it yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?I imagine it's for a similar reason why some straight guys want their asses eaten out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?ok I used the example of scat play in my post, which is miles worse than pegging, so i think he'd say the same thing lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Would it still bother you if your partner was willing to do sexual acts with exes, but wouldn't with you - but the sexual acts are ones you don't want at all?Well let's say that, all of the sex acts you want - you're currently getting it from her. But some of the sex acts you don't want - she's not giving it to you anyway, but she's done it with her exes. Would it still bother you to the point of it being a dealbreaker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?I would be willing to wait 2-3-4 months for a girl I felt had LTR potential. I would still be seeing my FWB’s until we became exclusive but I would wait for the right one. Do you believe she'd be okay with this though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 05:05 AM |
| 5 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?She found me either more physically attractive or a better long term prospect than previous partners so she decided to move things at a quicker pace for her own benefit. If you consider this an acceptable reason, does it only apply to cases where she makes other guys wait but not you? Is it still acceptable if she makes you wait but not other guys - because she found them more attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:54 AM |
| 3 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?what reasons would be acceptable and unacceptable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:22 AM |
| 3 | So if you don’t have a bodycount is it still “bad” to wait to have sex?The only reason I consider waiting unacceptable is if the woman in question did not make other men wait. What if the woman made others wait, but not you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaI think my point is that in either case, whether you slept around a lot but couldn't commit, or was alone your whole life, you are both in a situation where you haven't gotten the thing you wanted. So both are settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:19 AM |
| 9 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaSettling isn't restricted to old people only. A young person could settle for the same reasons - a young person couldn't get what they wanted ideally, so they lower their standards and say yes to someone who isn't their ideal type. did you mean "settle down", which is something different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 04:47 AM |
| 25 | Men admitting they have ‘settled’ on social mediaI think the vast majority of people "settle" - from those who have had many relationships in the past, to those who have had none. I think people tend to take a utilitarian take to whether to settle - if they feel like the position they would be in if they were in a relationship with that person, is better than the position of being single, then utilitarianism tells them that it is most rational to take that relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?In your world would men be encouraged to seek casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?I'm more interested in what the society looks like instead of what you would do to change our current society What's the gender roles of men and women in your ideal society? What does the life of the average man and average woman look like in your society (from high school, to college, to after college, their 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s)? If a guy in your society wants casual sex how can he achieve that? You say ideally social media wouldn't exist in your society, so what does technology look like in you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?what does your ideal society look like? If you could snap your fingers and society magically becomes the world you want it to be, what does it look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?Okay, so it seems like you've finally answered the question - your "grandparents' parents", so it can't be before 1800s, right? The 1800s is the past you want to revert to? it was gotten progressively worse so in general (from ONLY my personal experience) and wtf? You previously said that morality is OBJECTIVE. So why mention that it's "only from your personal experience"? If it's objective, the fact that it was you"your personal experience" doesn't matter, because if it was objective, other peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?You realize "the past" is INCREDIBLY broad right? So far you've refused to elaborate on what exact "past" you are referring to. "The past", without giving context/elaboration, can refer to literally 5 minutes ago. 50 minutes ago. 5 years ago. 50,000 years ago. 5 billion years ago. You know, usually when someone mentions "the past", they proceed to give a brief elaboration on the time period they're referring to. You asked me if I agreed with your claim that the past had better morals, period. Ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?and what's the significance of that info in the context of my question? The question is asking what your ideal society looks like. "The past" tells us nothing. "The past" could refer to 1 year ago. 10 years ago. 100 years ago. 10,000 years ago. And do you truly believe that people in the 1500s where people got their heads cut off for cussing out God was a demonstration of higher moral caliber? Or thousands, or tens of thousands of years ago when random tribes would kill each other randomly just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 05:15 AM |
| 5 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?It doesn’t have to be any particular time in history or ideology. It simply has more to do with the decline of common decency and courtesy in society This doesn't tell me anything. 20 years ago, 50 years ago, 150 years ago and 500 years ago are VERY different. "The past" isn't just one singular grouping or monolith. To say that you have no particular time in history tells me that you believe you have no preference between 300 BC and 1970. It's not difficult to just point out exactly what kind of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 04:56 AM |
| 4 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?Decline from WHAT exactly? tradcon? 1950s? If you could snap your fingers, and society suddenly becomes arranged in the exact way that you want it to be, what would society look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 03:29 AM |
| 0 | Broad question for everyone: What do you attribute to a successful marriage or relationship?Depending on the couple, "compatible values" and "Egalitarianism" can contradict. a trad con couple for example, is by definition unequal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?Do you think your daughter would be happy, or find it fair, that you'd break off your relationship with her if she had sex outside of relationships/marriage? And (as you previously said) that you would much rather she die a virgin than be with a man and start a family of her own? I can't imagine any functioning adult would be content with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?what sort of punishment? And it doesn't count if she's a lesbian slut, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?Will you express this disappointment with her? "I know you're a grown woman but the fact that you have a boyfriend deeply saddens me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?No, Not a man. Even if not, it's still heartbreaking to have a daughter that is abusive to her partner and I worry for the other people in her life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?Someone who beats their partner will probably also attempt to do it to other people in their life at some point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?hell I'd feel unsafe from my daughter at that point, lose lose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?you'd rather your daughter be beaten by her wife than date a normal dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?so what would you realistically do, if you had a daughter and you found out she's been dating (men)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?so if you had the choice, you'd make sure your daughter dies a virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Do you really believe that women are more attracted to men in jail compared to normal men?If that's the case, would you be willing to get thrown into jail just to get access to more pussy? Even if the theory is true, anyone who would do that is unhinged and really shows that you value female attention above literally everything else in life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:13 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on guys befriending you to ask you out?Just like I consider it desperate to join a yoga class just to get a partner, or to drive all the way to Times Square just to aimlessly walk around hitting on girls, I'd also consider it desperate to befriend someone just to get a date. (I don't consider it desperate if you're doing this at a bar or at the club, because those establishments actually have the purpose of getting hookups or love) Here's my advice: if you really really really have no other choice, at the very least make a good effor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:04 AM |
| 25 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on guys befriending you to ask you out?I think a lot of people don't understand the problem of having hidden intentions. We can simply use another example other than sex/relationships to demonstrate the idea. Friends generally help each other out. For example, studying something you're not good at (when you're in school), moving, money, advice, etc. But most people see a problem if someone befriends them JUST to get help with that thing. I'm sure some nerdy people in high school and college have had experiences of being befriended on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?Like I said it depends on how you define entitlement. For me personally, there's a difference between saying "I would only accept X, and I would reject Y, even though X is way higher than my own value and Y equals my own value" "I demand that X be given to me immediately, if you refuse to give me X then you're an asshole and I will throw a tantrum or even violently coerce you into giving me X" You can belong to the first category without being in the second. In fact most of the time this is the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?That'd be an appropriate example, yes. Unfortunately OP chooses not to make this point out of all the examples he could give. But even in this case, this is just one aspect in which women appear to be more entitled. To see if they are more entitled in general in dating, you'd have to compare all the ways men and women perceive ALL the aspects of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:22 AM |
| 6 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?It really depends on how you're defining the term. In most cases when we say that someone feels entitled, we're accusing them of believing that something ought to be given to them by any means necessary. If you think the above is synonymous with "believing that one deserves...", then you'd logically conclude that believing you deserve anything, not just "what you are personally worth", is entitlement. But all in all, if you would only accept something really good and you reject everything else, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:21 AM |
| 6 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?What should we be telling men and women, in your opinion? Do you think men and women should be given the message that they should be independent, or they should seek relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:10 AM |
| 20 | Are women more entitled than men when it come to dating?Are you sure "entitled" is even the right word here? Do you mean to say "having high standards" instead? To me, "entitled" would imply that they are demanding to be given something, i.e. that it is an obligation for them to be given that thing. You, however, are describing them refusing something. "entitled" would make sense if they wouldn't take no for an answer when hitting up a 10-15% man, which you don't seem to be arguing here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")would you also make all women gay to even it out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")You seem to be at native speaker level, did you learn it as a second language | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")Mind I ask, if you're Russian do you guys learn English at school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")Well you can still survive with a plant-based diet, it'd just be less enjoyable if you're used to eating meat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")I'd give up some fingers on my left hand if I could make myself 6ft tall or give myself a 7inch dick Interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")well, how many years in your case? the "3 years" was just an example, some people would say decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, what are some "deals" you're willing to make to better your dating/sex life? ("I'm willing to shorten my life by 3 years if it meant I could get more hookups")What's the limit? At how many decades of your life being cut off do you draw the line? (dying at 40 yrs old?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 01:03 AM |
| 14 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?Make it possible to change your sexuality at any time and as often as you wish - including to asexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?The purpose of calling out hypocrisy is to suggest that the person is disingenous about their point and doesn't actually believe in the arguments they used supporting their point. It is used to suggest that their actual arguments are irrational and incoherent due to cognitive dissonance, and they are using a getaway argument to cover that up and appear rational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?What sentencing should a male teacher get vs a female teacher, in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?I'd permanently cut off contact with anybody I knew who committed a rape Would you say the difference between men and women committing rapes, is like the difference between, say, beating up a homeless person, and beating up a homeless person who's also deaf, blind and mute and handicapped? Probably not the best comparison but you get the idea lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?The question I asked is literally asking for a qualitative answer, not quantitative lol. Which is why I asked you to describe your reaction to each case, instead of giving me some number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?I'm asking exactly how much worse, the magnitude of that difference. Hence the question of how you would react to those two cases with genders flipped holding everything else constant. If you knew them personally/the two people involved are your friends, for example, how would you respond to each person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?Though like I said, I do see a difference between a man raping a woman, and a woman raping a man. Just like I asked the other commented, what exactly does that difference look like? I'm not asking for a quantitative answer but just think of two cases, holding everything else constant, but simply with genders reversed. How do you respond to each case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?But it's not just a +1 body, considering it's a very particular case since she apparently said it was rape. And also, with all you've said, are you merely describing what is, or are you talking about what should be? Do you agree with these observations, i.e. that they are justified, or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?At what age of the "younger guy" would you start to say it becomes damaging? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?I see the first situation as far more damaging to the teen than the second. Given how you described it, do you think there is any damage done to the younger guy at all in that situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?This is the reason rape (of women) is taken so seriously. It's the reason why nobody really cares that much if a 35 year old female public school teacher is caught boinking a 14 year old boy, whereas the reverse situation calls for crucifixion. It's the reason when we talk about 'consent' we mean 'female consent' (one of the rare times the female is silent). It's the reason why Riley Reid can brag and laugh about raping (her words) a 13 year old buy when she was 14, and nothing happens. Also thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?Well forget law then. Think socially - how would you react to those cases differently? Take your example of Same with men dating underage women vs the opposite. Given two cases with reversed genders but same age gap, holding everything else constant, how would your reaction differ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?I think it's perfectly logical to treat them differently when men are so much stronger and more violent on average. Same with men dating underage women vs the opposite. I think they're usually different cases with different motivations and effects on the kid. Exactly how differently should they be treated? I'm not asking for some quantitative answer but can you give some examples? Think of laws for example. How should the law (think sentencing) treat these cases differently? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?So, doing things that are easy is bad & lowers your value. If someone finds it easy to make friends, and they proceed to make a lot of friends, does that mean they are low value? As someone who lives in a first world country it's super easy for me to get food with ease to fulfill my diet, and it's also easy to go out to eat somewhere nice from time to time. Does doing this make me low value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 03:43 AM |
| 5 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?because of how it easy for them. Is this implying that doing something that is easy lowers someone's value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 03:39 AM |
| 0 | Accusations of hypocrisy are thrown around a lot in this sub. Can you respond to any accusations of you being a hypocrite?Yeah that's what I mean (altered first bullet point), I'm asking for examples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Dating advice post: "Is it weird to travel an hour just to walk around looking for girls to talk to?" - do you consider this a normal thing to do?He has photos in his post history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Dating advice post: "Is it weird to travel an hour just to walk around looking for girls to talk to?" - do you consider this a normal thing to do?go on (if you want) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice post: "Is it weird to travel an hour just to walk around looking for girls to talk to?" - do you consider this a normal thing to do?have you done that yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Is the male equivalent of AF/BB, wifey material (AF) vs a casual partner (BB)?Are you defining value solely by rarity? There's gotta be more parameters for defining value. Having one of those diseases where you're born without limbs is also extremely rare but no one calls them high value. The guys who climb skyscrapers barehanded and jumping inbetween building roofs are quite rare but most people call them stupid instead of high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Is the male equivalent of AF/BB, wifey material (AF) vs a casual partner (BB)?are you only referring to RP men, or does it include tradcons? Because if tradcons wanted this it wouldn't make sense, as casual sex is seen as corrupt under traditional conservatism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?did you not read the second paragraph? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 01:18 AM |
| 3 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?I’ve only ever met women who have none. And in numbers beyond counting. As in, they admit to you they "have no hobbies", or that they tell you they have hobbies but you don't consider them hobbies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?It’s like scratching an itch. When you’re itchy that’s all you wanna do. Afterwards you move on. It’s not all encompassing. This is fair. Do you think they view other things in life like an itch, or is it only sex that falls under that category? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 11:41 PM |
| 3 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?So you'd say that this characterization comprises most of black pill, but not red pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 8 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?A HUGE part of TRP is that you attract women by living for yourself. Doing things you want, focusing on your own goals etc. And doing this, gets you women. And is the entire and only purpose of doing those things just to get women? Instead of enjoying those things in themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?These guys could have achievements in many aspects of their life. What I'm asking is, is the only reason why they worked on these achievements, to be successful with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 11:01 PM |
| 4 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?You only see them talking about RP type stuff because those are the spaces that they talk about RP stuff in. I literally addressed this in the post. The first few paragraphs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?Well I'm not talking about wanting to be a part of the casual-sex-having crowd. That's reasonable. I'm talking about wanting the casual sex crowd to vanish, just because they're unable to get any (i.e. "either I get it, or nobody gets it"). That's what I find unreasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 01:04 AM |
| 3 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?They are mostly angry frustrated men who can't find love nor sex. Ok, so they do exist then? You previously said you've never heard of men like that. Regardless you seem to be logically consistent here, so I don't have a problem with what you're saying, for what it's worth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:59 AM |
| 8 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?Read the last paragraph in my OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?So basically, their attitude is "either I get it, or nobody gets it at all"? Do you find these guys to be reasonable? Because usually when I'm jealous that someone has something I don't, I don't advocate for them to stop having that thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?So you're saying you're only enjoying a portion of that decline? As in enjoying the decline should really be interpreted as "partially enjoy the decline"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:50 AM |
| 3 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I've never heard a man saying Have you ever visited manosphere forums? The guys who refer to such women as low-worth scum, as people who don't deserve respect. The guys who tell these women directly that they are pieces of shit, that they don't don't have any value in society, that they must have been born without a father, that they ought to be embarassed of themselves. I mean, incls literally coined various demeaning terms to refer to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?If you're truly "enjoying the decline", meaning there's no going back (I imagine you're reminiscing the traditional 1950s period?), then you'd agree with me that shaming and ridiculing women for having casual sex is NOT accomplishing "enjoying the decline", right? To me, "enjoying the decline" as a RP would be what I described in the first paragraph of my OP, that means supporting the women who have casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:36 AM |
| -1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?Refer to the bottom note in my OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?The former tend to be men who aren't able to have casual sex and are resentful towards the promiscuous women who are promiscuous, yet still won't choose them. This could be a possible answer. Do you think these men are being reasonable? Usually if I'm jealous of someone having something that I want, I don't advocate for them to get rid of that thing in a "either I get it, or nobody gets it" attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:32 AM |
| 3 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I don't think it matters whether they have the same effect, and for the sake of argument let's say you're right about that. This doesn't change the fact that it's contradictory. Again, I have to emphasize: I am NOT talking the men who merely wouldn't date such women. I'm talking about the men who shame, ridicule and discourage women who have casual sex, and continuously advise women against having casual sex. If you want to have casual sex with women, then the only way you cold achieve this is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:30 AM |
| 3 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?So like I said elsewhere, this isn't about whether you'd date them, and I don't think there's anything morally or logically wrong with having standards you don't meet yourself. I don't see a problem with a guy who is a slut (or wants to be one) but refuses to date sluts. I'm talking about the message these guys are sending. The guys who shame women for having casual sex while wanting it themselves - how does that make logical sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I'm talking about the contradiction. For example. If I sold feet pics and simultaneously shamed & discouraged the men who bought feet pics from me, that would be logically inconsistent. If I wanted them to buy feet pics from me, why would I simultaneously discourage them from buying it? Likewise, if I'm a man who wants casual sex with women, and I simultaneously shamed & discouraged the women who have casual sex, that would also be logically consistent. If I wanted to have casual sex with women,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:20 AM |
| 0 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I'm not talking about whether you would date them. For the record, there's nothing morally wrong imo about having dating standards you don't meet yourself. If you're a slut but you only date low n-counters, there's nothing morally or logically wrong with that. I'm talking about those who shame and hate the women who have casual sex, depsite wanting casual sex themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:13 AM |
| 4 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?I have had lots of casual sex I never shamed a woman for having casual sex See, that's logically consistent. Do you believe that other men who like casual sex are also like you, and don't shame women for having it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:11 AM |
| 32 | Men are generally more romantic than womenDoesn't RP say that most ordinary men enter relationships just for sex, because casual sex is impossible for them so this is the only way they can get consistent sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 02:41 PM |
| 0 | So what's the reason male prostitutes for women are still FAR more uncommon than female prostitutes for men?Gay men are already heavily desired by each other - in their own attractiveness level. Gay men who want to pull men above their attractiveness level are willing to pay for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 12:29 AM |
| 7 | So what's the reason male prostitutes for women are still FAR more uncommon than female prostitutes for men?One massive stereotype of rich men who live in mansions is that they are very desirable. Another massive stereotype is that these rich men pay for prostitutes to come over to their mansion. Justin Bieber was once caught going to a brothel in brazil. For me I just think that men tend to view sex in a way in the same way that they view... eating food, for example. For them, it's nice to eat food for free (e.g. someone cooks for them). It's also nice to eat in a restaurant. Another example is comed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | So what's the reason male prostitutes for women are still FAR more uncommon than female prostitutes for men?Yeah that's mainly it. I'm sure many average men can find other average men to have sex with. Same with older men finding other older men. The problem is that this is often not enough for these men. So they seek out hot guys in addition to the men in their league. In cases where these hot guys are willing, that's great. And in cases where these hot guys want payment? That's also fine to these men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 6 | So what's the reason male prostitutes for women are still FAR more uncommon than female prostitutes for men?No one said all men or all women are like this. It's rather that men are more likely than women to be like this, and more men than women are like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | So what's the reason male prostitutes for women are still FAR more uncommon than female prostitutes for men?And why lesbians don't visit prostitutes yet gay men do? Desired? They all have FWB these days. The FWB does desire them. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 02:32 PM |
| 7 | So what's the reason male prostitutes for women are still FAR more uncommon than female prostitutes for men?Neither do gay men but yet the male-to-male prostitution industry is thriving. The additional factor is that men don't really care much about being truly desired by the other person when having sex, whereas for women, being desired more of a pre-requisite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 01:53 PM |
| 39 | So what's the reason male prostitutes for women are still FAR more uncommon than female prostitutes for men?The better focus is to ask is why gay men still visit male prostitutes even when men finding sex from other men is incredibly easy, yet lesbians never visit female prostitutes. The main factor is that women generally need to feel desired in order to enjoy sex. It's not only that finding sex is already easy. Put it this way... If a man has sex with an attractive woman, and he later finds out that the woman is a prostitute and had been paid by someone else to have sex with him, chances are he woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | According to you, what does the "average guy"'s dating life look like, as well as the "average woman"'s?today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 11:35 PM |
| -5 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?Well that'd be even more paradoxical given that incls claim to have no standards whatsoever and yet complain about not being willing to date high n women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 09:05 AM |
| -3 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?So then all the complaining about refusing to date women with high n-counts (which they deem as "most women" these days) doesn't make sense then? If they truly had no standards those complaints wouldn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 08:30 AM |
| 0 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?Most men take what they can get. Are the men in this sub part of this "most men"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Men, does this sound logical to you?Does this also apply to things that you don't want to try? If she did scat play with her ex, but wouldn't with you, would that still make you sad? Her: "Yeah, I did scat play with him. We shat on each other's chests." You: "Hmm, I don't like scat play" Her: "That's good to hear. Scat play was fun, but I don't do it anymore" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Are "good girls" really what men want?There are TONS of men that are satisfied with very little. Are the men on this sub part of this "tons of men"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you wish men were more sexually fluid, like women?Because it's easier to visualize in terms of placing themselves in that situation. And anything that's easy to visualize and imagine makes room for getting to the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 05:38 AM |
| 17 | Who is to blame for ethots making millions , look in the mirrorIf he's transparent about his intentions then yes, it is equivalent to selling bathwater. In both cases, the other person is to blame if they get pissed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | On "needs"What I'm asking you is "what should we do with this information", because plainly saying that sex is a need is unhelpful if you provide no elaboration for what implication it has. I'm really just asking for the "therefore, we should..." part. Prostitution being legalized is one thing. Would you support it being funded by taxpayers in the form of a public good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | On "needs"I think we should do away with the semantics Let's just say sex is indeed a need. What now? what do we do with this information? I'll show you what I mean. People who support universal healthcare argue that healthcare is a need. But they don't just stop at "healthcare is a need, period, no further elaboration required". They actually go ahead and explain what to do with this information. This is the argument they use: Premise 1: People are entitled to that which is a need. Premise 2: Healthcare … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Imagine getting up everyday to work on a computer from 9-5 or doing hard labor trade work just to get outearned by girls showing naked pictures of themselvesApex fallacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Let's be real, homosexuality is the cure for PPD's problems. Men understand men better, women understand women better. Opposite sex attraction is what leads to the problems discussed daily in this sub.Then at least this would apply to male-male relationships, in that men in gay relationships are happier than those in straight relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:36 AM |
| 0 | Men who obsess about women and sex are degeneratesThen how come other animals don't require those list of things in order to get food and sex, unlike humans? Other animals are fine getting food and sex without art, technology, science, civilization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:42 AM |
| 0 | Men who obsess about women and sex are degeneratesFood and sex reproduction are the purpose of animals like pigs and cows. Humans are different because we are intelligent and have concepts like culture, society, civilization, morality, art, science, technology. If humans truly viewed "food and sex" as the only purposes of human life, then none of those things I listed would exist, including the computer/phone on which you're reading this comment. The entire earth would just be a massive fuckfest, in truly the most literal sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Women wouldn't last a week as an average manJacknagy is saying that the problem is OP, because of the crappy title. He's not saying that the problem is the comic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | iT’s JuSt A sHoW! wOmEn DoN’t ReAlLy WaNt ChAd!I mean what's your point exactly? Both The Bachelor and Bachelorette are reality shows and I bet a significant portion of both shows are fake. Of course they would put only attractive people on the shows. It's not surprising that the men and women who appear on either show are attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhow often do straight males compliment you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Would you let your partner have sex with someone of the same sex?I don't get why people would get pissed at you (unless perhaps it's the reasoning behind why you allow it?). If both of you are happy with the arrangement I don't see why anyone should protest it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 08:38 AM |
| 2 | How many men out there do you think would gladly take a life that involves literally *only* fucking supermodels 24/7, and doing absolutely nothing else? (no friends, family, job, hobbies)Would you say RP men would be more willing to take this deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How many men out there do you think would gladly take a life that involves literally *only* fucking supermodels 24/7, and doing absolutely nothing else? (no friends, family, job, hobbies)Yes to the first, no to weed. The food in the room is just basic staple food like bread, meat, water | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 4 | How many men out there do you think would gladly take a life that involves literally *only* fucking supermodels 24/7, and doing absolutely nothing else? (no friends, family, job, hobbies)Would most of them try it if it's a permanent deal, and they can't switch back? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?RP men are not looking for relationships or marriage so what other options do you have? And why aren't RP men looking for relationships or marriage? They never wanted those things, according to their own claims of men's biology. They've only ever wanted casual sex. I sincerely doubt that their reasoning for wanting casual sex is merely "oh it's on the table, so uhh i'll take it I guess" when you consider how incredibly thirsty they are. It's what they've wanted from the start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 02:03 AM |
| 2 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?Yes? I do have an opinion? My opinion is that many RP men contradict themselves, and that's what I'm asking about. The RP men that don't are unfortunately in the smaller minority, and i don't have any problem with that men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:48 AM |
| 8 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?It's part of why I don't believe in that premise myself (I'm merely saying that this is what RP believes, not me). They can't both be satisfied completely in regards to all men and all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:45 AM |
| 4 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?If that was the truth then why would there be so many bitter people in the TRP community? You said yourself that this is a great time for having shitloads of casual sex? I believe it's because they are experiencing cognitive dissonance. I've talked to RPmen who are not bitter, and actually LOVE "sluts" instead of engaging in slut shaming or criticizing the CC. Now THIS makes sense. If they hated the system, then why would they also be gaining from it? Well, these men don't hate it. They love it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 7 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?The biological urge argument is as follows: Men are biologically supposed to fuck lots of women - due to seed spreading ability. Women are biologically supposed to select only the best - due to having high burdens on birthing. If you believe in the "biological urge" premises for humans, then what this must mean is that only a few men are supposed to be having sex. RP regularly cites biological urges for humans. So this end result where most men are unable to satisfy their urges must be the end r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 2 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?Why would RP want to put the "cat back in the bag"? If the cat is in the bag again, there will be traditionally enforced monogamy again, and that means no casual sex for them, meaning their biological imperative will have failed. RP wants to be that "limited select group of men", and according to them it has been working. So this is perfect for them. Unless you're suggesting that RP has not been successful at becoming those men? I agree that it's a decline for those who don't want this. But RP w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 1 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?So you disagree with the idea of men being meant to "spread their seed" and fuck lots of women, as opposed to having a single monogamous relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?No, it contradicts the idea of the current situation being a "decline" as opposed to perfect. According to them, right now, women are having casual sex - which is EXACTLY what RP wants. So this can't possible be a decline of society from their view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:12 AM |
| 4 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?So then why call it a decline? This is my question all along. The current situation is perfect so why call it a decline? It's a decline for those who perhaps want monogamy as opposed to a sexually open society. But for those who want such a society - i.e. RP - then it can't possibly be a decline for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:10 AM |
| 6 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?In my opinion most of the TRP guys would prefer a happy family life RP simply acknowledges that it is in men nature to spread the seed Doesn't this contradict? If it's a biological drive for men to fuck lots of women, then it wouldn't make sense for them to want a family, or prefer it to having lots of casual sex. RP doesn't "want" anything RP doesn't want casual sex? I'm just not buying the idea that RP men are seeking casual sex on a basis of "ugh, I hate it, but if everyone's doing it, then I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?Yes it benefits men who can have that lifestyle but not society as a whole. Aren't RP men precisely the men who are trying to have this lifestyle? So, is it a decline for the RPers who are unsuccessful, but not a decline for the successful RPers? According to their biological claims, RP never wanted to have children and raise family. So why would they contradictvely want to raise a family, if their innate biological goal was to have lots of casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:55 AM |
| 2 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?Like you pointed out, it doesn't seem like RP wants to have any kids or raise a family. So monogamy and a family-oriented society are enemies to RP goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?I'm more arguing whether this belief is held by RP. I'm trying to determine whether their beliefs are actually consistent. If RP believes that men want women only for casual sex on a biological, innate basis, then it must be a good thing if women these days are having lots of casual sex, and that the past (with enforced monogamy) must be a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?So the "decline" is a good thing, right? TRP advocates "enjoy the decline", basically abandon the traditional male role, do not get married, do not have children, just pump and dump RP has always wanted to do this to begin with, right? It is a biological imperative for them to do so, because of men's seed spreading ability so they must fuck lots of women. Prior to this "decline", there was enforced monogamy, and this contradicts the above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?do these RP men subscribe to the idea that men are biologically hardwired to fuck lots of women, and that it's their biological imperative to do so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:46 AM |
| 2 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?So would you argue that calling our current situation a "decline" is bizarre? If anything, the current situation is perfect from an RP perspective. The past (traditionalism decades ago) was the decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:44 AM |
| 4 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?I'm bringing your attention back to my post: RP suggests that men are biologically wired to fuck lots and lots of women because of seed-spreading ability and all that. RP suggests that having lots of casual sex is the perfect way of life for men. Do you agree with this claim? If so, this can't possibly be a losing battle. If it's biologically wired in men to fuck lots of women, then the current situation is perfect because they can't have casual sex if women aren't having casual sex. According t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:43 AM |
| 7 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?Men retreat to casual sex because with many women, sex is the only thing about them that’s pleasurable. So do you disagree with the claim that men having lots of casual sex is a biological, innate imperative? A massive RP talking point is that it's biologically wired in men to want lots of women solely for casual sex, instead of being caused by some social conditioning like interacting with women and finding them boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:40 AM |
| 4 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?from the perspective of the average man But I'm talking about the RP calling this a decline, and RP is (supposedly) the "higher value men" having casual sex. The average man out there isn't calling society a "decline". Hell, the average man out there isn't even aware of the existence of PPD lingo. High value men do benefit, but even if he develops feels My understanding is that RP explicitly does not want to commit. Why would an RP develop feels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?So the "decline" is a good thing right? If anything, monogamy is holding back RP men from satisfying their biological urges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadso what exactly does "the most basic life" look like then? Would you still want any friends and family to hang around? Would you still have hobbies? If vagina was readily available, how much time would you spend on non-sex activities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwould these men throw away all the things listed in my second paragraph? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 11:35 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI see a lot of quoting of Dave Chapelle: "if a man could fuck a woman in a cardboard box, he wouldn't buy a house" Do you take this quote seriously, or even literally? Is everything you do in life done solely for women? If so, does that imply that everything other than sex is worthless to you, including your male friendships, career, family, pets, hobbies, interests, education, societal topics, etc? That if you could drop ALL of those listed things in exchange for more pussy, you would do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 10:55 AM |
| -1 | Do men enjoy being desired more?are you, and the men in this sub, part of this "most men"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 01:19 PM |
| 6 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?I explicitly said "if someone wants all the values listed in the OP", including Get rid of feminism No more sexual liberalism No more adult content Marriage for life No more women in the workplace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 03:05 AM |
| 10 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?they've accepted that it can't be turned back turned back to what? The values listed in the OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Do some men in the manosphere want to "turn back the clock" and dislike the modern world?If anyone believes in all those values then they can move to Taliban-controlled Afghanistan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Do you consider yourself part of this "most men"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you."Ew he uses an Android phone" Let's say you have an iphone, and you know for a fact that the woman would reject you if you had an android. But since you have an iphone, she's willing to date you. Knowing this information, is this really a woman you still want to be with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 02:11 AM |
| 12 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?Walk out on the street and look at the couples walking around. Go on the street, go inside walmart, go to restaurants. In every couple, is the woman average while the man is a supermodel? I don't know what other people have observed, especially if they live in different cultures. But what I've observed is that most couples are matched in terms of looks. Any mismatch is usually one where the woman is the more attractive one. But even then, anecdotally I just don't get the reality of the dating sc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapIf you want to smash and you don't have contempt for women having casual sex, then there's no contradiction there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapBut what it comes down to is that men would ideally like a supply of both, because at different stages of their lives men want different things. And what I'm saying is that whatever their strategy is to accomplish this, it doesn't really seem coherent. Nor practical. I mean it's not like women will be convinced by men saying "half of you, have casual sex with us, the other half, do nothing and wait till you marry us two decades later". So this leaves these men with acting out of their own intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapHonestly my concern isn't the hypocrisy on a moral level. I don't see anything morally wrong with men wanting casual sex yet wanting a virgin wife - in other words having standards you don't meet yourself. It's rather the logic. If you want to engage in some activity, yet simultaneously complain about the activity itself (without which you wouldn't be able to engage in the activity to begin with), then I truly wonder what your actual position is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapAnd as for your question, well given the premise that sex is a need for men, the men probably wouldn't be able to handle it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:33 PM |
| 8 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapWell that's the problem isn't it? Having your cake and eating it too. I mean what happened to "enjoying the decline"? If they are truly enjoying the decline wouldn't they have accepted that they wouldn't settle down because the "decline" is specifically that women aren't dateable anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapI suppose that's fair. I simply want to emphasize that wanting to engage in something while simultaneously complaining about that thing is illogical. As for the men who are trying to get lots of casual sex, but aren't simultaneously ripping on women who are having it or trying to slut-shame whatever, there's no problem here. Nothing illogical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapMy point is to be consistent. If they want to have casual sex with women, they wouldn't try to shame women out of casual sex to begin with. If you want to be part of the CC, then it'd make no sense to spew hatred on the women engaging in it. If you are trying to maximize sexual success, but you are not simultaneously discouraging women from having sex and ripping them on it, or complaining about their sexual activities, then there's no contradiction there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapSo then you'd agree that slut-shaming would make no sense here, right? And that at this point, they would have no reason to continue complaining about women's sexual activites? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 02:18 PM |
| 8 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapbut I am yet to see them advocate against casual sex or attempt to halt this I mean, the obsession with low-N women and constant shaming of women who have had a past would be indicative of that. If anything they are actively telling women to avoid sleeping around. they encourage men to take advantage of this situation I don't buy this. There are constant calls from the manosphere to reform society, to turn society into some mid-20th century condition, or in some cases even before 1st wave femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 01:41 PM |
| 13 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapBut the point is that the outcome does bother them according to their own words. They believe that casual sex harms not just women themselves, but society as a whole. And these men are part of society. Why else would they actively discourage women from having casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 01:25 PM |
| 73 | Red Pill Youtuber Alexander Grace says that pursuing casual sex is next to impossible for all but the very top men, and most men are better off finding a high quality woman and getting out of the dating market asapOne of the things I don't understand about the RP part of the manosphere is that they claim that women having casual sex is bad not just for themselves, but society as a whole. So society is being ruined as a result of women having casual sex. So why, then, would you still encourage men to have casual sex? Why would you want your fellow men to have lots of casual sex with lots of women? If men are having casual sex with women, the direct consequence is that women are having casual sex with men -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/21 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenWell do you think the men on this sub fit this category? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenDo you think men on this sub are part of this "most men"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenDo you consider yourself part of this "most men"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:13 AM |
| 0 | Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive WomenSo what's all this complaining about "post wall" women if they're the women you can get, meaning women you are attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Productive recreation is critical for the 'average' guy to succeed in the mating marketDo you think men should adopt this lifestyle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Productive recreation is critical for the 'average' guy to succeed in the mating marketNo the "you" is an impersonal "you" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:06 AM |
| 6 | Productive recreation is critical for the 'average' guy to succeed in the mating market"I have a house, a job, a fine group of friends and family, pets, many hobbies and interests and a supportive community. But I am willing to throw away all of that if it meant I could be a guy who could get casual sex easily." <-- This thought is unsurprisingly not that uncommon in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Productive recreation is critical for the 'average' guy to succeed in the mating marketIf it truly makes you happy to prioritize sex, dating above everything else to the extent that you sacrifice all other assets in your life (including friendship, hobbies, family, careers, home, interests) then I guess I'm happy for you. But when it comes to recommending this advice to other people you really have to think critically. There are a lot more sane people in this sub and simply have considerable interest in gender studies (yes, this sub is gender studies) than you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 05:58 AM |
| 8 | Productive recreation is critical for the 'average' guy to succeed in the mating marketYeah - is this really worth it? You'll gladly throw away your interests and hobbies just to get dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.So in your opinion who is more to blame for reinforcing the view that it's okay for boys to be abused in that way? Do you hear it more from men or from women? In this very thread that you're participating in, as an example, you can see many men defending the idea, not really any women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.I think my point is that there are actually TWO separate discussions going on, whenever this topic is brought up: The first is the view on whether boys having sexual relations (with grown women) is a harmful thing The second discussion is regarding who is responsible for the existing societal mentality encouraging this activity (e.g. is it mostly men or women promoting this idea? MRAs or feminists?) I think anyone discussing this topic needs to address BOTH questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 03:31 AM |
| 10 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.Whatever your position on this is, the first step is to be honest with your position and be consistent. If one believes that they don’t think a boy being raped is as damaging and that it’s not as bad if she’s hot then this logically means that they agree with this existing double standard, and that it's a good thing. It makes no sense to support a double standard and yet simultaneously complain about its existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.wait what? do you think manosphere forums are being managed by feminists or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 02:42 AM |
| 10 | Males molested by older females not viewed as victims.not allowed to discuss it? Have you never been on manosphere forums? Or literally subs like this one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 02:22 AM |
| 3 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.What is the ideal ratio for men to women in education? 50/50? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 11:45 AM |
| 5 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.I am not asking you what is, I am asking you what should be in your view. You seem to criticize these government policies so what policies would you implement if you were in charge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 11:21 AM |
| 4 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.how would you have governed society if it were up to you? Would you want men and women to have unequal opportunities to education? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Experiences dating as a betaAnd being completely excluded from casual sex by default, I am really forced to go for relationships, which leads me to say that I can honestly feel the pain that many straight women profess when trying to find a partner. It's almost equivalent. You're right. Those women you mentioned are settling for relationships with you because they can't get commitment LTR. You, on the other hand, are settling for relationships with these women because you can't get casual sex. At this stage you're both set… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.What does that even mean, to be romantically attracted, if you take sex out of the picture? If the guy truly loved his girlfriend then he wouldn't ditch her for casual sex. Bear in mind I'm talking about a normal relationship with sex, and the guy still ditches her for casual sex elsewhere. I don’t. I’m talking in generals here, not about myself. Then let me rephrase. If these guys who make these complaints "want what they can get", then why would they have a problem with getting women who have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.It doesn't change the fact that they still want casual sex. There's this parroted idea on this sub that most men would apparently drop their girlfriends in a second if it meant they could have casual sex elsewhere, implying that they aren't truly romantically attracted to her to begin with. And not to mention that women do get into LTRs even after having casual sex. If men are inclined to "want what they can have" then why would you have a problem with LTRing a women with casual sex history? All… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:58 AM |
| 4 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.You do realize I'm questioning your logic, not your morals, right? There's nothing wrong with wanting to date virgins when you're a slut. Hypocrite or not, I don't disapprove of it. I'm not even talking about double standards. And where did I insult you? I am talking about taking your mentality to a societal scale. If you are actively telling women as a whole that they should stop having casual sex, then you are advocating for a situation where getting casual sex is even harder for you. And this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:52 AM |
| 5 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.My comment is regarding the men who are opposed to women having casual sex while wanting casual sex themselves. I am saying that these men are actively working against their own interests. If you don't fit into that bubble then my criticism isn't directed at you. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to date promiscuous people, nor does that have anything to do with my comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:36 AM |
| 9 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.If no one was having casual sex, then everybody would be looking to get into relationships and have sex within the relationship. More men would stand a chance and sex would be more evenly distributed in one-to-one pairings instead of one-to-many. No contradiction there. My premise is that these men explicitly want casual sex. Fucking multiple women uncommittedly and whatnot. If the man complaining only wants sex in relationships then there's no contradiction. Ok, so we agree now that socialists … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 08:59 AM |
| 11 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.What I'm asking you is whether your approach to managing this jealousy makes sense. If you want casual sex with women, yet don't want women to have casual sex, then you're advocating for a sitaution that makes it even harder to get casual sex. I get jealous of people more attractive than me. My response to that is that I'm happy for them and hopefully I can become more attractive. No contradiction here. What would be an incoherent response from me would be to advocate for being attractive to bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 08:43 AM |
| 14 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.most men actually don't want casual sex. seems like a controversial opinion on ppd. I've heard time and time on this sub the claim that "most men would rather be fuckboys than have a relationship". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 08:21 AM |
| 15 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.People who are mad at Jeff Bezos are generally anti-capitalists. He's a billionaire who exploited workers and that's why he gets hate. Anti-capitalists/socialists believe that nobody should be billionaires, not themselves, not anyone. So if you hate billionaires for that reason while wanting to be a billionaire then no, that doesn't make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 08:18 AM |
| 9 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.This doesn't answer the question at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 08:07 AM |
| 28 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.One of the things I don't understand is the men who get angry at women having casual sex while wanting casual sex themselves. They tell women not to have casual sex because it ruins them. But if women don't have casual sex, then how are men like you supposed to get casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Study: Two thirds of romantic relationships start out as friends. 42% start as FWBs.Is he even attracted to his girlfriend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Study: Two thirds of romantic relationships start out as friends. 42% start as FWBs.No. There's a tendency for opposite sex friendships to shift romantically, either one-way or both ways. That doesn't mean it' happens all the time. Can a man and woman, both in relationships with other people, not be friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 12:01 AM |
| 2 | THE REASON VIRGINITY IS A BAD THING FOR MEN IS BECAUSE IT RELATES TO OVERALL VALUEWould you prefer both be shamed, or both not be shamed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?So would that still be a dealbreaker if you somehow found out she doesn't wanna butt fuck you or shit on you but did that with exes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 02:57 AM |
| 3 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?Well the important information is that she would do that act with her previous partners but not you. To you this means she doesn't respect you? So I'm just wondering if that still applies if it's an act you wouldn't do anyway, but is something she did with her exes but wouldn't with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?Yes, just a hypothetical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 02:40 AM |
| -1 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?But since you're not into it, and you knew that information (that she wouldn't peg you anyway), that wouldn't bother you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?Would it bother you if she pegged her exes, but wouldn't peg you even if you wanted her to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 02:05 AM |
| -1 | What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man?What if it's something you possibly don't want? Like being pegged by her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 01:55 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: Would you sacrifice things you like, or make unwanted changes to yourself (e.g. shaving a beard) just to get laid?I do sometimes pretend to do things women like just long enough to maybe bang them once or twice. That's what I'm asking basically. And it's just about casual sex. i'm not necessarily referring to relationships. How far would you "pretend" to have those interests? Would you go as far to do some research so you can have a conversation on that topic with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you sacrifice things you like, or make unwanted changes to yourself (e.g. shaving a beard) just to get laid?Sounds really official. Is it a written, physical agreement signed by both of you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you sacrifice things you like, or make unwanted changes to yourself (e.g. shaving a beard) just to get laid?as it was agreed upon with miss moral. I don't get this part. You have an explicit agreement with your SO about things you get to do just once a month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 11:04 AM |
| -2 | Q4M: Would you sacrifice things you like, or make unwanted changes to yourself (e.g. shaving a beard) just to get laid?That's a fair point but again, the point of my post is a different topic. (in retrospect I should've used a different example) I'm referring to things that women - in general - already like. But the things you like, they don't like. Do you sacrifice your interests just to appeal to them? (it's not an explicit request in this case - it's not like you'll tell them you changed just for them, let alone would they think you changed at all prior to meeting them) The other examples in my post: you have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you sacrifice things you like, or make unwanted changes to yourself (e.g. shaving a beard) just to get laid?As things are now, how often do the two overlap: things you otherwise genuinely like if not for women, and the things you have/are now just to appeal to women? Picture it like a venn diagram | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Do women actually sexually assault & harass men as much as men to women?So does this contradict the other parroted idea that most men receive zero sexual attention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 06:27 AM |
| 2 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?personal taste and objective attractive. and what's the difference exactly? Is personal taste "I personally consider that person 7/10" and objective attractiveness is "that person is objectively 7/10"? How do you measure objective attractiveness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 4 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?Do you literally believe that someone who finds Chrissy Teigen attractive is mentally ill? What mental illness do they have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?What exactly is the implication if someone disagrees with the "objective" rating? If someone says X person is unattractive, but X is apparently objectively attractive, is that person wrong entirely? Do you recommend that person check themselves for mental health issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:32 PM |
| 4 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?Objective simply means that it is based in fact. There exists a standardized method of measuring said thing. There exists a consensus on how to measure said thing and what method to use for observing the data. If someone is dylsexic and "writes down the wrong number" then the consensus is that this person is wrong - because they did not follow the standardized method, which is to write down the number shown on the scale. Using beauty, it would be like if someone's "objectively" (as you say) rate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:24 PM |
| 6 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?It would be objective if literally the exact same score is given for every person, by every person with no disagreement. As in, you rate a person 7.5/10 and every single person on earth including the person themself gives 7.5/10 as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:09 PM |
| 7 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?The fact that the results will be "very similar" instead of "completely identical" shows that beauty is not objective. Weight is objective. Put someone on a scale and write down the number that shows up. That number should be the same each time. Some use kg, some us lbs, but we have already established systems that allow consistent conversion. There is no equivalent for beauty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 5 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?okay, how are you defining "objective" here? Brands pay big money for people who are perceived by the general population to be the most attractive. The fact that there exists even a tiny minority of people who do not find these models attractive shows that measuring attractiveness isn't objective. If beauty were objective we would have a standardized system of measuring attractiveness. Like, we would be able to attach a rating system that would be unanimously agreed by everyone. Brands and model… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 11:03 PM |
| 10 | If most couples are “ looksmatched “then doesn’t that mean beauty is objective ?"most couples are lookmatched" means that most couples are perceived by the general population to be equally attractive in looks. This means that people tend to date those who they perceive to be just as attractive as themselves. Until there is a standardized system of measuring attractiveness (the same way there's a standardized system of measuring height, temperature, number of molecules etc), beauty is not objective The fact that there's a tendency for people to have the same opinion of A doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/21 10:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.Well just for curiosity, do you think this is a good thing? Do you think men should continue valuing their self worth this way, or do you think it's instead a detriment to their well being? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 07:07 AM |
| 15 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.There are lots of men here who have proudly said that they would gladly throw away family, friendships, careers, pets, hobbies & interests if it meant that they could get casual sex. That they don't truly care about any of those things in itself. (Which makes me wonder if they disagree with the other male-prominent idea that male friendships are superior to female friendships) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 07:01 AM |
| 3 | CMV: For the majority of straight men younger than 50, self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be.self-worth is directly and primarily tied to how sexually successful they perceive themselves to be Are you trying convince us that this is the case, or that this should be the case? Is your post simply pointing out, "I have observed that this is how men are evaluating their own self worth", or are you instead arguing that "men should tie their self worth to sex"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:58 AM |
| 7 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?I just don't really get the logic. If women did indeed reject you when they were younger, what makes you think these younger women you're seeking now wouldn't also do the same to other men their age - or you, if you were their age now? How does it make any difference? In fact if you do end up dating these younger women, that's precisely what they are doing: rejecting other men their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 12:13 PM |
| 0 | What are *your* current dating/sex problems?Gotta ask, did you vote for Putin in 2018? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Exactly how much should you bend over backwards sacrificing your hobbies and likes just to appeal to women?"If a man could fuck a woman in a cardboard box, he wouldn't buy a house." Exactly what % of men are like this? Does this imply that sex is the only goal? Are men who have girlfriends/wives not actually romantically attracted to them at all and are staying in the relationship solely for sex? Do these partnered/married men actually hate going on dates, having intimate conversations, sharing emotional support with their partners? And what about friendships? Do men not care about hanging out with o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 01:20 AM |
| 9 | CMV: It is a total myth that male friendship is "real friendship" and that women aren't good friends to each other. There is actually evidence that the opposite might be the case: Men are not good friends to each other and usually rely on women for emotional supportmale friendship does not remove the feeling of loneliness or isolation isn't this indicative of the shallowness of male friendships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | If men hate shallow women so much, why do they keep going on tinder?What do you gain from being wanted by shallow women? It's one thing to desire a hookup but it's another thing to have relationships with these women, which I'm sure would make you miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | In your life, how high is "getting fe/male attention" ranked in terms of importance? What things in life do you consider more important than getting fe/male attention?Does she know your worldview? What does she think of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | In your life, how high is "getting fe/male attention" ranked in terms of importance? What things in life do you consider more important than getting fe/male attention?Does your partner have the same worldview? If not, would you rather she does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/21 09:04 AM |
| 5 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?I mean, I understand laughing at and ridiculing "low-value" people who think highly of themselves, but to be angry at them is a whole 'nother thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 06:34 AM |
| 5 | Most women hate bad boys. At best, they fantasize about FICTIONAL rich hot Sad Boys.Regardless of whether all this is true, I just don't think that women who want assholes are women you want to be with anyway. Do you really want to be with a woman who wants you to treat her badly? i recognize men who have awful standards as men to steer away from, because they likely have unhealthy expectations of you as a partner. I just suggest that men who complain about the bad boy attraction to just ask themselves if they truly want to win over women like this. And if you believe all women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Interesting at FDS there’s a trending post about a woman having to give her boyfriend the card to pay so that he wouldn’t feel insecure.link to the post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 8 | What *should* men/women's standards be? If you criticize them for having unreasonable standards, what should these standards be then?Does that also mean shaming the men they have sex with in addition, if the goal is to curb them having sex altogether? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 5 | Men don't value friendships with women because it takes away time and effort from pursuing romantic/sexual relationships.This makes it seem like the only reason you do anything is to get sex. I mean there are guys on this sub proudly admitting that they'd gladly throw away friends, family, pets and their job if it meant they could get more casual sex in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?What if they're both sexually attracted to each other? Two people could be fucking each other and still be friends, without romantic feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you leave your girlfriend if you could have casual sex elsewhere?The premise of my post is that she does not want any romantic value in the relationship at all and wants it to be purely sexual (with the type of sex you want). I'm asking if this is a tradeoff you find worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you leave your girlfriend if you could have casual sex elsewhere?But is it worth the tradeoff if she now also has zero romantic attraction to you and it's now purely sexual? I'm assuming from what you said you do have romantic attraction to her, on the other hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you leave your girlfriend if you could have casual sex elsewhere?If it's an upgrade does that mean you never had romantic attraction to her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you leave your girlfriend if you could have casual sex elsewhere?How would you answer to what if, instead, your girlfriend/wife told you that she now wants to be FWBs instead of romantic partners (and cease all romantic relations with you)? Would you consider that an upgrade? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Let's say sex is indeed a need. What now? What do we do with this information?How exactly do you want society and laws to change? Are you in line with prostitution becoming socialized? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Let's say sex is indeed a need. What now? What do we do with this information?Are you picturing something like the movie Her, but with an actual physical existence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Let's say sex is indeed a need. What now? What do we do with this information?Do you think people are mocked only for not having needs fulfilled? People get made fun of for having cheap shoes instead of 400 dollar nikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Let's say sex is indeed a need. What now? What do we do with this information?And what does entitling people to sex look like? Is it the prostitution socialization example I used? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:46 AM |
| 12 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?How exactly do women treat their casual sex partners, compared to relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 05:50 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Is sex all that matters? Are you implying men don't feel romantic attraction to their girlfriends, and get into relationships solely to get sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 05:35 AM |
| 10 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Women treat their casual sex partners better than they do their relationship partners. So are most men in relationships or marriage actually resentful of their relationships? Would (and should) most men leave their current girlfriend or wife if they could have casual sex elsewhere just so they will get treated better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Weren't you, Lilith, and the women here literally bitching about how women do NOT like casual sex and how the majority of women do not even engage in it from that self-reported study? So which one is it? the comment said women get to spin plates. The ability to spin plates is independent from whether they actually go through with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I don't see anything wrong with not wanting to date someone who had casual sex in the past, for the record. I wouldn't either, but I don't want casual sex myself. My only confusion is how men don't want women to have casual sex while wanting it themselves - doesn't this defeat the purpose of trying to get casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:55 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I didn't ask why you don't want to date such a woman. I asked, if you personally want casual sex BUT you don't want women to participate in it, then how exactly are you gonna get casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:48 AM |
| 9 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?So if you want casual sex, but you don't want women engaging in casual sex, then who the hell are you supposed to get casual sex from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:33 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?treats me the same as she did her casual sex partners. You want a LTR partner to treat you like a casual sex partner? Are you looking for a FWB or an actual romantic relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:32 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Do you personally want to have casual sex yourself? And would you still be "disgusted" if you were one of the cocks she rode on in the past, and now she wants to LTR you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?My question is what do you want women to do? Do you want women to not have casual sex at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Would you move to a foreign country to date women that are more (positively) receptive to you?Would doing all that (learning new language, finding new job, finding new place to live) be worth it if you could have endless casual sex as a result? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 02:37 AM |
| 2 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?This just makes me wonder though. If you don't really genuinely love her, would you really be mad if she cheated on you, but continued to date and sleep with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:55 AM |
| 2 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?I just hope you're able to keep up the facade of actually being attracted to her. I think most people know how horrible it is to find out their partner was never attracted to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:51 AM |
| 2 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?Do you think this is fair to her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 6 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?Are you genuinely romantically attracted to your partner, the same way she is romantically attracted to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 02:39 AM |
| 8 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?So it's just about sex then? Does that imply they have zero romantic attraction to their girlfriends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 01:50 AM |
| 3 | I'm picky about looks, what's the best way to make this change?What is your type, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 06:00 AM |
| 2 | What is a common opinion you hear from your own gender in PPD that you vehemently disagree with?when nothing was attached to it as in a LTR? If, at the time, she became romantically attracted to you in addition to the casual sex and wanted a LTR would that have been bad news for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | What is a common opinion you hear from your own gender in PPD that you vehemently disagree with?what if you were one of the men she had previously hooked up with? would that change your view of her in terms of LTR? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | What is a common opinion you hear from your own gender in PPD that you vehemently disagree with?that she hasn't had casual sex. Does casual sex with other women count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 4 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itin the first example is the woman above the guy's level? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Women That Falsely Accuse Should Get The Same Sentence Of Punishment As The Guy Would’ve Got Or Has Spent Before It Was Found Out He Was Not Guilty.most crimes what crimes would you exempt from your proposal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | If the only good thing about the relationship is the sex, why bother being in a relationship? Just be fuck buddies.Are you genuinely romantically attracted to your gf in the same way she is romantically attracted to you as you describe? Because if not, don't you think that seems unfair to her? You make it sound like you're in it just for the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 02:26 AM |
| 5 | What does the typical day of an "average woman" and "average man" life look like?The full comment is here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."Yes that's where I saw it few months back but I can't find the post anymore. Really wanted to read it again but it's gone now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:36 AM |
| 12 | Exactly how is casual sex different from sex within a relationship? And which one is "better" to you?Most people, both men and women, would not be okay with dating a sex worker anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What aspect of the opposite sex are you jealous of? Other commenters, does that jealousy make sense to you?Ease and convenience can easily be sought from grindr / gay casual sex. Discretion is the only thing that prostitution guarantees that casual sex doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What aspect of the opposite sex are you jealous of? Other commenters, does that jealousy make sense to you?So do gay men truly consider penis to be low value if they're willing to pay for dick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 10:50 PM |
| 5 | What aspect of the opposite sex are you jealous of? Other commenters, does that jealousy make sense to you?Do lesbians want constant unlimited sex with women in the same way straight men do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | What aspect of the opposite sex are you jealous of? Other commenters, does that jealousy make sense to you?It does make me wonder why gay prostitution is so huge though. I understand many guys are closeted and seek male prostitutes just for the anonymity, but what other possible reason would a guy pay for male prostitutes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous?I guess we're gonna have to agree to disagree here because I judge physical appearance, by definition, on your physical appearance. Nowhere does it say "natural". I take into account modifications to your appearance including hair, facial hair, makeup, clothing, accessories, tattoos and piercings, exercise (resulting in long term changes to weight, body shape), etc. All of these things are "how you actually look". There are dudes out there who look vastly different with facial hair and without. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous?Physical attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous?I am assuming hypergamy in PPD context refers to looks? Take off that makeup and women are no better looking than men. Not sure what your point is. Physical attractiveness isn't measured solely by people in their natural state. It can be improved by things like makeup, clothing, exercise etc. Why can't we compare women at their best and men at their best? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Hold up...isnt EVERYONE Hypergamous?i don't know about you, but it's pretty rare for me to see couples where the man is the more attractive one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 01:39 AM |
| 2 | *Should* you base your entire self worth on how much romantic/sexual attention you get? *Should* every self improvement you do be done solely to attract the opposite sex?reproducing is every male's goal So if a male has tons of sex, none of which result in child being born, he's a failure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | *Should* you base your entire self worth on how much romantic/sexual attention you get? *Should* every self improvement you do be done solely to attract the opposite sex?to procreate So if you have sex that does not result in anyone's pregnancy, it doesn't count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 05:37 AM |
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