I'm going to be studying abroad through my university and going to Europe on a program with 30 other students from my college. Of the 30 students, there are 24 girls. I can already sense that with the scarcity of guys, there are going to be attempts at being the leader of the wolf pack among these men. I'm not as outgoing as a few of the frat bros on the trip, but I'm better looking than most of them. Basically I know I won't be the loudest guy, but how do I save myself from being a quiet and forgotten voice in the group? Where is the line between being calm, cool, relaxed, reserved and being shy, quiet?