Single young men, if you could only choose one. Being single but sleeping with various women and never having kids or a relationship. Settling down and starting a family and being in a committed relationship. Also what is it that you want from your love life right now?

Alright so I've never in my life been a ladies man, (atleast outside of sexting in my teens) first kiss at 18, lost vcard at 21, I'm almost 23 now or at least in a few months.

Me and a girl are both talking and it's not exclusive but we aren't interested/ talking at anyone else romantically or otherwise. (Atleast I'm not, but I believe her when she says she isn't as well) The relationship is long distance, but she may be moving here soon.

A fair amount of other women have been interested in me lately, attractive women too, but I've turned them all down because I'm only interested in the girl I'm seeing right now.

I haven't done much exploring sexually and honestly I don't have the desire to, is it just me or do other men my age feel the same way.

The idea of sleeping around with random women just feels empty, I want someone to spend time with, I want money, and I want a family.

My parents have a spare house that they basically said I can have, and I might be about to get a really good work from home writing job. So if things work out with this girl, I'm might just go through with my plans.