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Why do redpillers whine and bitch so much?

Brando_Puerto_Rico

February 11, 2022

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Title	Why do redpillers whine and bitch so much?
Author	Brando_Puerto_Rico
Upvotes	15
Comments	18
Date	February 11, 2022 4:49 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/spqqeq/why_do_redpillers_whine_and_bitch_so_much/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/ExRedPill/why-do-redpillers-whine-and-bitch-so-much.1101286 https://theredarchive.com/post/1101286

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[–]sernamedeleted 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]laguaguadecarne 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]unlivedbread 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

maybe we're confused on what is meant by "worth"

Generally, (and this is a concept I still don't quite understand) people have a base of good feelings in regards to who they are. Sure they might feel lonely, vulnerable, guilty etc... but at the end of the day they don't feel shame surrounding these emotions, they don't take their life circumstances as a reflection of their value as a person, but rather just a set of circumstances. People with this perception of their own value are kind, confident, brave, compassionate, caring etc...

Many people today (maybe even the majority) fall in the other category of person. Where the external world determines their own sense of personal value. This perception is suicidal because its an endless climb, its at the core of a narcissistic personality. I could give 100's of examples of people I know who were very successful, beautiful, charismatic. But at the end of the day they'd still feel bad about themselves. Some would even confide in me how worthless they felt as people, how none of it made they feel any better. If you want an example just look up Cheslie Kryst. People like this almost always have an angry baseline, they're always somewhat pissed about something in my experience.

Redpilled incels fall into the latter category. They don't have any internally isolated sense of self worth, its based on the external. This is why they try and fuck as many women as possible, treat them objectively and with little empathy. Yet its never enough for them, the insecurity never goes away. Leaving them with perpetual feelings of shit, causing them to be bitter, like what OP was referring to.

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[–]somersaultinsand 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He didn't say anything about "some little housewife". His illustration of Hispanic women didn't equal housewife, but a woman who knows how to clean, look good and cook meals - which can very much be a career woman. And his characterization wasn't that it's only the women that pass on these things (as if the men don't do anything). Now, knowing Kevin Samuels, I don't agree with the foundation of where this comes from - especially since he is more known for how he slams black women than admonishing black men. However, the video didn't say anything to illicit 'some little housewife'.

My life will certainly keep moving, so the offense wasn't earth shattering, but I wanted to say something because it normally has been other women to evoke the phrase to defend their strength when the image of a housewife is a docile, blank slate woman whose only thoughts of taking care of her husband and children. It treats those women as enemies and others, which is what I wanted to point out.

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