Turning 30 soon. Is it creepy for men at this age to try and date? I'm new to this but I'm expecting that I'll be shamed?

It seems all men my age are either dating single moms, paying child support, or have a wife who they have kids with.

I suppose options at this age are limited to single moms or cheating wives? On the other hand, maybe that makes things easier if you don't get anyone pregnant.