First of all,
I am a definite proponent of the capacity to codify most things in language and logic. I know it's so fashionable nowadays to hate on logic as beta but I believe Epiphany is a Real Phenomenon and not simply “mental masturbation”.
Of course, if the logic sounds like Latin to you, then forget about it.
Otherwise, if a chord is struck, then by all means engage with this wholeheartedly and let's try to avoid the standard pitfalls human logic is accustomed to.
Our conscious mind functions logically and while that is certainly not the whole system it is in the driver’s seat and can influence the rest of the human.

From Pook Man’s Advice to a Suffering Newbie:

So, Pook starts off talking about being a free bird. Blah blah blah all well and good.
Then he goes: “When a woman treats you with indifference, you challenge her. When a woman treats you with disrespect, you punish her by withdrawing your affection and time. When a woman treats you well with respect and the affection you want, you reward her.” This is a very crucial point in your dealing with women SEXUALLY. And before I go on, I must elaborate on Sexuality as I have come to realize it.

Sexuality is, which is to say I am proposing a very accurate definition, according to Pook’s major theses, the implicit undercurrent underlying every interaction between a man and a woman. The Nice Guy has disconnected himself from this natural flow of life. I mean to invoke the image of a river that carries us away. He rejects it because he finds it vulgar or obscene in some way. The channels through which this implicit undercurrent develops and becomes stronger, i.e. attraction grows, is through what Pook calls the seen and unseen channels. The seen channels are more obvious such as kino, fucking, and spoken words. The unseen are less obvious such as eye contact, tonality, and literally having a rapport, connection as human beings with personalities and such. The both channels are modes of expression of your raw authentic soulful desire or at least interest if you don’t know if you want to fuck her immediately but the unseen channels are easier to rationalize away with no hard feelings on either side if both parties are cool social normal real people. The prerequisite to accessing these channels is to unleash your soul by cultivating it and diminishing your ego defense mechanisms.

OK, now I can talk about what Pook said. When Pook says “challenge her”, I believe strongly that he means “provoke her for a response”. It doesn’t mean “hey lets race” or have a push up contest which is honestly how I would have interpreted it at one point. Maybe this is obvious but if a woman for example doesn’t see you i.e. is indifferent/ignorant, then you must engage her. If she doesn’t give you more than one word responses, then, assuming if you want her still or are not quite sure yet, then you have to provoke her with a question or something, whatever pops up in the moment. Once you can get her to engage through unseen channel, you will begin to attract her, assuming your soul is shining through.

The rest of the Pook quote is quite clear to me. If she is being a bitch or you don’t like how she is treating you or she isn’t reciprocating attraction, which is totally fine because not everyone will like you, then give her a chance to change if you want and/or drop her like a bad habit by just saying “goodbye have a nice life”. Otherwise, reward her good behavior with fun and more sexuality. Simple really.

Then immediately after this quote he says, “I think the solid line of thought that will get you as many girls as you want and keep your relationships bright and fiery is: Do not have desire.” And this is super confusing at first. At least it was for me because it is just a blatant contradiction on the surface. In the post “On Embracing Your Sexuality” he talks about letting out your desire and in this post he says to not even have it! Whhat the fuck! I’m going to clarify. What he means here by “not having desire” is to not need validation or approval or sympathy in order for you to feel good about yourself or see yourself in a positive light. This might not even be validation from the girl. It could be some ideal figure in your own mind. For me it was RSDTyler.

People normally, and by normally here I mean statistically averagely, people normally have terrible relationships because you have two people with fucked up minds who hate being alone clinging to one another in order to alleviate that fear and pain of being alone. This is wrong. In order to have a good relationship, or even to just attract a girl you would actually want, you need to be already happy within yourself. That’s just how it works. This is also called having a soul and uniting dream and day and being who you are and all that Pook stuff. So when Pook says “As you think you shall become”, it means literally choosing to think positively about yourself and your life and really all of existence. Otherwise, if you let your negative autopilot thought loops/ego defense mechanisms run free, that is going to come out of you through the seen and unseen channels instead of your authentic sexuality.

Back to validation and approval and sympathy which was one of my last huge revelations. This is clearer when Pook says “Desire makes you too nervous and uptight” When you don’t care, in other words, when you don’t need the validation or approval from others because you are already self-validating and self-amusing and self-loving (however you wish to call it) in your active conscious thought processes, which you are choosing either to let run on autopilot or to proactively think good thoughts, that is the only time you would ever attract a healthy and attractive human being.

And then the post ends on the humility of being a perpetual student. This is good for the soul. People with weak souls are usually those who fall in line as anonymous drones for mass movements. History will look kindly on them, so on and so forth.

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