I think the red pill applies to me in most ways

DemonLordAC0 · 2022-03-09T20:32:46+00:00

I think I've been in your place.

I'd tell you to first of all, forget this "beta male" bullshit. IDK if this is against this subreddit rules but I'm speaking to you as someone who wants to help.

I'm 22 right now, turning 23 next month. Almost 3 years ago I was a 20yo virgin with barely any kind of dating experience. I suffered from severe loneliness due to the fact I had not been with anyone for the last 5 years. So much that I went from having a lot of hair to having a large bald spot in those 5 years, and I wish it was because of training like Saitama. I never had anxiety though, but I had a lot of negative thoughts flowing in my mind all the time.

5 years heartbroken without even going out with a girl, thinking about the ex... Not the funnest of times, I'll tell you that much.

It changed though. I gave Tinder a try, I felt there I had a place where I could at least have some indication that a girl would be into me.

I'm very likely not what you would consider an "Alpha male". I'm 5"7, and I weight 245 pounds. Coupled with that bald spot, crooked teeth, and my glasses. I'll leave it up to you to judge me.

It took me some tries, until a pretty attractive girl matched with me. She was a gamer, had a lot of followers, and as we talked all she would say was that I was the perfect guy and blablabla. Long story short, after a couple of months of texting and flirting, we never actually met and she ghosted me. But I learned from that. Apparently I wasn't as unattractive as I thought :)

That boosted my confidence, and I kept going through that cesspool of garbage that is Tinder, (and mind you, I was looking for a girlfriend. Not a ONS. I never dated for sex) and some time and failed dates later I got a girlfriend, lost my virginity, gathered a lot of experience, 1 year of relationship and then she decided to breakup (she was kinda toxic too)

Ok, I felt sad for about 4 days, and then I moved on... Back into that piece of shit app I was.

About a week later I match with this girl, she didn't look the best on her pictures, her bio wasn't anything special, it was just a quote from Friends. We started chatting, and she turned out to also had been dumped by her BF recently. We got along, traded a few jokes, we weren't really into the same things, her being a bookworm and me being a PC Gamer...

About a month later we go out on a date. I pick her up in her house, and wow... She looks MUCH better personally! We get out the car, we decided to go to a restaurant by the beach, rain starts POURING down, but I got an umbrella and pull her close.. It doesn't take long until we started kissing. Yeah, that easy!

As the restaurant was closed due to the time, we just went back in the car, sit on the backseat and start talking, kissing and.... NSFW from here lol. Our chemistry was very explosive I'll tell you that much.

Back to present day... It's been 1 year and 4 months since then, and we're still together!

And what has all that story to do with you? Well... Tl;Dr I just want to tell you that no matter how hopeless you might think you are, you will find someone for you as long as you keep looking. As a side note, all I tell you is to be yourself, and be honest all the time. You probably will get rejection a few times. It's just part of the game. Don't let that get to you. Whoever rejects you because of looks will probably just be a bullet dodged at the end of the day.

I did not hit the Gym, In fact I probably just got chubbier lol. I'm nothing special on the looks at least in my opinion. It's not about that afterall, so don't downplay yourself because of it. Even if you're not looking for a girlfriend at all. Work on yourself. You might be saying that to yourself, but you gotta ask, deep down if that's what you want.

I'm sorry for the massive wall of text, and if I missed the point completely. Forgive me. I just felt like I came from a place similar to yours. "I know that feel"...

Best of luck! Cheers!

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2022-03-10T03:09:53+00:00

I’m honestly ok with being single much of the time

good for you

for most if not all men, sex is a status symbol for them to talk to their other bros about and boost their own egos.

must be a western thing. This is not the case in my native land. But you don't have to let it define you. Your status can be based on things that actually add value to yourself & society. Cheers!

Randomguy34455 · 2022-03-09T17:52:32+00:00

How can you be an interesting person if you see sex as a way to earn status towards other males ? Redpill beliefs are self-destructive and self-sabotaging you really need to get that shit out of your mind. Then you’ll become a better person, a more interesting person, and maybe, if you have luck and right places, maybe you’ll met a girl. Redpill is the sure-fire way to remain alone and sad

laguaguadecarne · 2022-03-09T11:54:47+00:00

How exactly does TRP applies to you?

Title	I think the red pill applies to me in most ways
Author	Existing_Editor9377
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	March 9, 2022 5:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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