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UK: Woman, 26, admits falsely accusing a man of raping her - as judge delays sentencing ahead of a psychiatric report OP: Yet another false allegation.

furchfur

March 24, 2022

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Title	UK: Woman, 26, admits falsely accusing a man of raping her - as judge delays sentencing ahead of a psychiatric report OP: Yet another false allegation.
Author	furchfur
Upvotes	164
Comments	85
Date	March 24, 2022 8:37 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/tn32f8/uk_woman_26_admits_falsely_accusing_a_man_of/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/uk-woman-26-admits-falsely-accusing-a-man-of.1107717 https://theredarchive.com/post/1107717

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I understand that in many cases men face a lot of unfair disadvantages and have no support system let alone defense. I also agree that the loose definition of rape and sexual harassment leaves a lot of room to play around with and negatively impacts both men and women (considering not the only US but other countries as well where society is not as progressive, women can face it more).

However, whenever the conversation about this topic is made, I see people on both sides assuming all men/women are adversaries. This not only alienates good men who support women and good women who actually want equality but also hinders our path in finding a common ground and justice for all. In the fight against this, we not only have to voice our opinion but also empathize to garner support so that our voices are heard and necessary actions are taken to prevent such things from happening.

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I agree with you that average women are not concerned with Men's rights as they should and many feminists have actively tried to shut down various campaigns. As I believe that many men all over the world (not just the US, Canada, Australia, UK) are still stuck on the patriarchy of a bygone era, impose laws, or hold an opinion on women that has no place today.

All I believe is that there is a minority of men and women who try to actively harm each other, the vast majority either don't have the patience to care or understand the situation and look at this as a scapegoat to their life problems. It's easier to blame superficial issues for their problems rather than deal with them and do something about them.

In my opinion, if we (both men and women) only just tried to not give in to hate for each other and focus on empathizing (without diminishing or invalidating each other's problems) and coming up with the solution (which I know, is not easy) with compromise we can be far happier. On a personal level, I feel everyone should do what's best for themselves by just focusing on themselves and not on others.

I know this sounds very naive and idealistic but one can always hope rather than make those innocent men and women part of the problem by treating them poorly (for ex. by using the aforementioned blanket statements).

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Here's one for you, it's not what you asked

percentage of men are raped by women in the us? I’m not so sure that it is extremely rare:

"A total of 43% of high school boys and young college men reported they had an unwanted sexual experience and of those, 95% said a female acquaintance was the aggressor, according to a study published online in the APA journal Psychology of Men and Masculinity."

http://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2014/09/22/rape-cdc-numbers-misleading-definition-date-forced-sexual-assault-column/16007089/

That's almost 1 in 2

Also most of the sources I find about how much of the male population is rapists say that it's impossible to tell. Some say as much as 6% , some say it's all a guess cuz anyone can do it, some say it depends on how you define it. Etc. but I also know that men report their victimhood ( them being raped) far less than women do. I take this seriously because I didn't report either. I also understand and don't want this to happen to women either. I think a lot of statistics in this area are very biased right now. i hope one day this can be rectified as a lot ppl don't consider what women do to men as "rape" . They hide that stat as --unwanted sexual attention-- instead

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