Do you guys think it's a good idea to hire an escort to lose my virginity?

30fretibanezguy · 2016-09-04T22:07:46+00:00

If it's what you want to do, go for it. Seems you're worried about losing pride or something from doing it. Fuck that, do whatever the hell you want.

SoRedSuchAlpha · 2016-09-04T22:33:36+00:00

There's nothing wrong with it. But I don't think it will make it any easier to get laid in the future.

santander26 · 2016-09-04T22:20:12+00:00

Do whatever you want. BUT, find a good escort. Read these: 1- https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/50y48f/i_went_to_a_highclass_escort_and_thought_id_share/

2- https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ao9k5/benefits_of_escorts/

quicklogaccount · 2016-09-05T00:02:14+00:00

Pros of losing V card:

make this stupid social stigma go away,

And only. Pros of losing your V card and banging a few other women is getting some experience and not acting awkward when time to bang another gal comes.

Unfortunately you have heavy cons. You're feeling like a failure in the game and wants to do it to get rid of a stigma.
Some guys do it and don't give a damn. They're usually guys that didn't try to game a lot, nor to approach a lot. Picture a dude that had one, two, maybe three oneitis for his whole life, and just approached them, if he went that far. These guys don't take ego damage when they do it, and if they take some, it vanishes. Once they grow past the emotional early teens - something in which most often banging the escort helps - they begin to game and get laid.

This doesn't seem to be you though. You've been on game for two years and rejections are building up and bothering you. I might be wrong but I doubt this is the mindset that will let you fuck and escort and be cool about it later.
I've known guys that thought less of themselves for years because of it (without any solid reason, I should add. the first time might make any difference if it's with some long time loving girlfriend, but I can only guess). So, I advise you not to do it.

I'm not going to ask you whether you're lifting or not. You should be. Neither I'll ask you if you've maxed out the shit money buys, haircut, clothes, nor the easy to fix shit, body posture for instance. I assume you did.
What I'll say is, change game strategy. Approach like crazy, Tinder, whatever. I really like online since it allows you to be overtly sexual without her noticing you're clumsy and shy.
0 - Fuck one of the girls you didn't like;
1 - Be overtly sexual to help selecting the girls that will fuck you from the very beginning, I advise some app. Don't waste your time. Use some PUA kiss gambit real quick on the date;
2 - Overkilling is highly underestimated. Take her somewhere nice that allows escalating, and ESCALATE;
3 - PULL the trigger on the first date. "So, I think we should go somewhere private" or any variation. If she backs off, give it a second date that you'll start by making out and raising the heat. NOT A THIRD one.

This should work.

Flylowlifeisshort · 2016-09-04T22:05:46+00:00

yes. purchasing sex is one of the most red pill things you can do.

[deleted] · 2016-09-04T22:49:20+00:00

I think the idea will haunt you if your ego can't handle it

stemgang · 2016-09-04T22:52:52+00:00

Yes.

On a related topic, what are you doing to build worth?

Lifting? Hobbies? Education? Grooming?

What do you mean by "in the game" besides PUA stuff?

onmyownpath · 2016-09-04T23:25:43+00:00

Yes - hire one to lose the V card. Then, hire another to get more experience. If you do about 3-4 different girls, you will feel much better and when you find a woman to sleep with you will be ready to go.

spurdosparade · 2016-09-05T01:35:38+00:00

Why not, if you want to, go for it.

Now, about your 2 years trying: wtf? How's your smv? Are you lifting and eating right? Unless your game is as sharp as it can be, I don't think you'll be able to pull some hoties if you're a fat slob neckbeard who play video games 12 hours per day.

prodigy2throw · 2016-09-06T03:26:46+00:00

As someone who lost it to an escort, I'd say go for it. It does take a huge burden off your chest. I hooked up with a chick 1 month after seeing an escort because I wasn't as nervous.

Look, this isn't an ideal way to lose your virginity, but life isn't always ideal. Do some research, find someone hot, dont cheap out and have a good time.

I really don't look back on it with regret. You need to lose that V card to realize how much it doesn't matter.

648262 · 2016-09-04T21:54:38+00:00

I think it's a silly idea based on what you've said so far.

What makes finding a girl to sleep with so difficult for you?

Title	Do you guys think it's a good idea to hire an escort to lose my virginity?
Author	nicechallenge
Upvotes	4
Comments	22
Date	September 4, 2016 9:40 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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