I took a girl back to my place and - through making out and chatting - started to get a very Borderline Personality Disorder vibe from her, so I decided I didn't want to have sex.

I told her it was because I didn't feel "connected", but she took everything pretty hard and personally - took me an hour to get her to leave my place.

It was shitty because I'm usually 100% honest with everyone in my life, but I had to bite my tongue just because I was scared of the BPD vengeance.

How do you guys deal with denying these especially-crazy/explosive girls?