I have heard about all those horor stories. How the law sided with women and so on.

I just read this.

It's so absurd

https://www.quora.com/If-youve-paid-child-support-for-18-years-and-then-found-out-the-child-isnt-yours-can-you-sue-the-mother-of-that-child

In general, the true purpose of marriage, in ancient time, including biblical marriage, is to PREVENT paternity fraud.

Now, the purpose of marriage is to make paternity fraud easier.

I often ways that sex with women must be transactional and the transaction must be as clear as possible. The same for having children. As much as legally possible, men should avoid government from governing their relationship and deal with women straight.

But many people are mad at me for saying that. I wonder why.

In any case, don't get married. EVER

Let me show you what I learn from evolutionary psychology

Government have agenda of redistributing wealth from rich men

Governments want to prevent financially prudent people from reproducing

So if you're married, you give so much power to government whose main agenda is

  1. Motivate women to pick guys poorer than you. Notice government will tax your income and redistribute it to those women.
  2. Prevent you from having legitimate heirs. This is why in marriage, you bequeath your money to your wife, and not to your own biological children. That is why marriage laws is so absurd. Because that's the purpose.

So don't get married.

Don't let government have more power over you than what it already has.