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Here we go again. It's men's fault, as usual.

BetterOffCamping

April 26, 2022
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https://www.yourtango.com/entertainment/toxic-femininity-amber-heard-jada-smith-blac-chyna
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Title Here we go again. It's men's fault, as usual.
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BetterOffCamping

Upvotes 31
Comments 8
Date April 26, 2022 8:18 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/uclpsc/here_we_go_again_its_mens_fault_as_usual/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/here-we-go-again-its-mens-fault-as-usual.1113293
https://theredarchive.com/post/1113293
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Comments

[–]BetterOffCamping[S] 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

However, toxic femininity cannot exist as an equivalence to toxic masculinity since there is no dominant culture of women mistreating men.

It is a fact that male domestic violence victims face huge stigmas and are often not believed. However, that isn't because of toxic feminity. Instead, it is toxic masculinity and patriarchal views of men that make it hard for us to view men as victims and women as perpetrators.

So when a woman hurts a man, it is because of the pervasive culture of male violence? Drivel.

The author negated the assertion in the above paragraph. The culture makes it hard to believe men.

[–]PQKN051502 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

People also blame male depression and male suicide on men and "toxic masculinity" while they demonize men, verbally abuse men and blame everything on men.

Feminists believe women are naturally kind and angelic and they believe men are naturally evil. So Everytime a woman do something wrong, they will find a way to blame it on men.

While Amber Heard uses her toxic feminity (victim playing and false accusations) to ruin Johnny Depp.

The truth is the "women good men bad" or "only men are abusers" mindsets are pushed by feminists, not by men. Feminists in many countries vote against rape law about punishing female rapists. The feminists push the "Duluth model", which state that men are abusers and women are always victims. Feminists keep portrait men as evil oppressors and women as angelic innocent victims. And for some reason, according to men, it is men's fault that men are not believed when they are abused. They will find a way to blame everything on men.

[–]Aimless-Nomad 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Misandry has been edited so many times on wikipedia ( which is entirely run by feminists) that they permanently locked it from ever being edited. Same with other things like Mens rights, mgtow, etc

[–]DirtyPartyMan 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you track it back to Men as the reason behind a problem your answer will more often than not be widely accepted.

Tiring of this

[+]Sensitive-Ad-2623 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, when a woman hits a man, the behavior itself is toxic and nothing excuses it.

But the way it's seen is influenced by the pervasive culture of male violence, which makes it hard to believe that the man is the victim of the assault 🤔

[–]shit-zen-giggles 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The author of the article needs to read this:

It's about how feminists worked hard and fought (and still fight) to make male victims and female perpetrators of DV invisible:

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/uar2z4/in_light_of_the_johnny_depp_amber_heard_case_lets/

[–]Whitified 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminism is the belief that men are to blame.

[–]UnconventionalXY 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Isn't it now dominant culture or toxic femininity that a woman intrinsicly holds a mans sexuality hostage to what she wants because her libido is biologically tied directly into her emotional state, plus she can deliberately extort what she wants by regulating access to sex, either openly (if you don't do x you will be spending the next month on the couch) or covertly (you refuse to do x and I'm upset, so I'm not going to want to have sex until you comply)? Isn't that mistreating men?

It's kind of the reverse hostage situation to what we had in the past where women were obliged to provide sex in exchange for being provided with the necessities (and luxuries) of life at a mans whim, where she had difficulty being independent in obtaining what she wanted.

And it will be mens fault in future that women weren't protected from the consequences of their own irrational impulses and knee-jerk problem solving in solving the wrong problem.

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