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USA: Death of the 'traditional' date? Only a THIRD of dates now involve the man asking the woman out, paying, and initiating sex, study reveals OP: All a bit silly and doubtful research.

furchfur

April 30, 2022
47 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-10767879/Only-dates-involve-man-asking-woman-paying-initiating-sex-study-finds.html
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Title USA: Death of the 'traditional' date? Only a THIRD of dates now involve the man asking the woman out, paying, and initiating sex, study reveals OP: All a bit silly and doubtful research.
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furchfur

Upvotes 47
Comments 11
Date April 30, 2022 9:30 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/uf7n9w/usa_death_of_the_traditional_date_only_a_third_of/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/usa-death-of-the-traditional-date-only-a-third-of.1113786
https://theredarchive.com/post/1113786
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Comments

[–]Practical-Rip6471 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When women continuously accuse men of date rape and other abuse on dates, what did they expect?

[–]Kindly-Town 38 points39 points40 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't expect men to be traditional when you yourself preach about breaking gender roles.

[–]tenchineuro 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

  • However, of the dates described in the study, 89.1 per cent were initiated by men.
  • [...]
  • Although men paid for the majority of male-initiated dates (68 per cent), women contributed at least part of the payment on 17 per cent of dates, and no money was spent on 15 per cent of dates.
  • Overall, the study shows men still initiate and pay for most dates, but the likelihood of genital contact increases whenever this traditional script is 'violated'.

So, in the rare case where a woman is hot for some man, sexual contact is more likely. Wow, who could have figured that out?

But men still do most of the heavy lifting here.

[–]HenryCGk 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't do maths on a Sunday but I'm fairly sure the number of Ben Shapiro approved dates (i.e. the man indicates and pays but no pre marital sex occurs) is higher than the number of daily mail approved dates

[–]ImplodedPotatoSalad 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And the rest of "dates" are sex hookups :V

[–]CW-G_451 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I prefer it this way. This way, women have to admit that they need us more than we need them. You know why women treat men so horribly? It's because they know this and want power. All we (men) have to do is simply refuse to interact with women. If we do this for let's say, 3 months. Women will come crawling back to us begging.

[+]North_War_4213 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Too bad the vast majority of "men" will never do this and will continue drowning women with attention. I always say that men want women more than women want men and women need men more than men need women

[–]HenryCGk 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not sure that is a traditional date sond more like, lets say an arrangement.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly if I was on a date I just want to sit and watch Netflix with a girl

[–]dungeonmonkey69 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hmmm maybe it's girls I'm dating or a cultural thing but I've always had a generally 50/50 payment thing and them initiating shit with me but then I'm not in the US. I distinctly remember my yank ex being a lot more Trad than the Aussie girls I'm used to

[–]nacho-chonky 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Naw I believe it, I still have to ask every single one out and pay for the date but most of the time they initiate sex

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