I don’t see the point of being a “leader or CEO” of something. I don’t want to have a family. Everytime you struggle mentally or financially you get the man up treatment(from men and women). You’re supposed to go long periods of time of being alone and when you talk about this you get tone deaf responses. I wish I could be complimented from time to time. I hate when people get scared of me or people close off in social settings. I’m honestly not sure if it’s because I’m black or I’m a guy or both. Stoicism and solitude is bullshit. I just wanted a normal life like everyone else. No one ever tells women that “they need to learn how to be alone to love themselves like they do men”. Women get more practical advice.

Also there’s comments posts here saying that if a man is a loser in his 20s then he’ll be a loser in this 30s and so on and everyone upvoted it. I’m not surprised at this point.