I’m relatively new to this group, but I’ve asked a few questions over the years that generally have not been well-received, and it gets me wondering what other “groups of thought” have active online communities that might be a better fit.

A few examples of what I mean:

“Fascinating Womanhood” (Helen Andelin version) has been recommended multiple times in this group, so I took it that the words within that book were something women here would stand by. But when I have asked questions of a certain nature - like about coping with my husband dealing with drug addiction, being verbally and physically abusive at times, etc. - the responses sound much closer to a typical relationship advice forum than anything Helen Andelin printed on the subject. There was a resounding chorus of “leave him” type answers, while Andelin has an entire chapter in her book about why those are actually not grounds for divorce. She says to stay somewhere else for a few days until he cools down.

I was also under the impression that RPW was about acknowledging and working with the true nature of men in a way that doesn’t judge or prosecute them. But certain things - like an instance of his infidelity, one of the most common human faults (over 50% of the time this happens at least once) - again, the knee jerk “leave” responses.

The RPW group here seems much more aligned with a more recent author, Laura Doyle, who does pinpoint those specific things (addiction, infidelity, abuse, etc) as grounds for divorce. It is much more conditional than anything Helen Andelin taught. To me, Laura Doyle feels like…red pill lite.

So that for me wondering if there are maybe different groups for these differing “levels” of being red pill?