| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | AI will replace 21 millions of jobs held by womenyup. the class divide will only get worse with ai taking over blue collar jobs. no real solution right now, and i doubt the rich controlling the government and having the loudest voice in society will ever agree to UBI | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/10/23 09:20 PM |
| 12 | What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships?😭😭 calm down it isnt that mf serious | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/23 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Virtual Ethnographyhi!!! this is super cool because i actually also discovered this community after doing an ethnography on the red pill. hope you have fun w your paper :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/22 02:25 PM |
| 51 | Sharing your husband with other womenany "hvm" that wants to sleep with women other than his wife is not a high value man 💀💀 | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/22 12:48 AM |
| 7 | Does anybody find this selfish?you have no clue what could be happening in that woman's life. compassion and empathy are very feminine traits and it seems like you're incapable of showing either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/22 09:51 AM |
| 18 | Does anybody find this selfish?did she choose to have depression? did she actively plan a child KNOWING she would be depressed? no. she chose to have a child, and it's extremely unfortunate that she has ppd, but it is not her fault. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/22 09:19 AM |
| 29 | Does anybody find this selfish?it is not selfish, it's just unfortunate. it would be selfish if she chose to have children while knowing she would be unhappy. but she didnt. many parents share the same sentiment, and it's very sad, but nobody can predict things like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/22 08:34 AM |
| 4 | My girlfriend has had sex with 7 different people is that bad?not inherently, but if you dont like it, then it's valid to believe it's bad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/22 10:16 AM |
| 27 | how to be personally clean, not just house clean?five or more showers a day? any particular reason why? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Feminine careersi think helping people in that way is very feminine :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Subreddits/ideas for feminine outfits?tysm! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | wtfok! 👍👍 don't talk to us then for your own mental health!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/22 03:18 AM |
| 0 | Are women with masculine interests less attractive?how? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/22 03:07 AM |
| 27 | Once trust is broken, it is lost foreverim so sorry :(( no advice to give, but i appreciate the reminder. trust takes years to build and seconss to break | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/22 09:42 AM |
| 11 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?do you mean the handmaid's tale or Gilead the book? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 06:36 PM |
| 12 | Are there different “levels” of red pill women?red pill women are not a monolith. the point of rpw is to serve as a "tool box" to have better relationships. of course there will be different levels. for many people, cheating, drugs, etc etc are not indicative of hvm and absolute deal breakers. this doesnt mean they are not red pilled, it just means they have deal breakers, like most people do. as you said, some women WILL stay through infidelity. not even because they are more red pilled sometimes, maybe it's because they dont see cheating a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/22 04:52 PM |
| 20 | How to deal with men who are close to you but are not your husband?no. what happened was NOT YOUR FAULT. that man is a CREEP who threatened to RAPE YOU and then forced himself onto you. it does not matter if you were literally butt ass naked in front of him. there was no consent. maybe against the grain here, but do not let him see your daughter. i would like to remind you that he was perfectly okay with RAPING YOU. there is absolutely no excuse for that behavior and i do not want to IMAGINE the thoughts he could possibly have about your daughter. this is so ab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/22 06:27 PM |
| 32 | How do you get over your boyfriend looking at other woman onlinelike on Instagram? only fans? porn? there's a lot of different places and varying degrees of okayness | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/22 01:24 AM |
| 9 | Why women think I am misogynist for asking here?this is embarrassing bro 😭😭 | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/22 04:10 AM |
| 4 | Fwb and/or platelike with many things in life, if depends on the woman. personally, im chill with being fwbs. i mean, i got a bf rn but prior to dating him i was cool with casual sex. i understand that i would not be winning these men over by sleeping with them, and i was totally fine with that. "like him" is an ambiguous term. like his personality? maybe not. like his penis? probably. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/22 04:24 AM |
| 7 | maybe I like mrs midwest a little bit too muchwhy is this so funny for literally no reason 😭😭😭 | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 03:58 PM |
| 13 | Sex Premarital, Casual and Otherwiseive had sex with a lot of people. i wouldnt recommend it, but i also do not regret it. it simply is what it is. i think i am one of few who genuinely does not feel emotional attachment unless i actively choose to feel attachment. sex is sex, it is mutual objectification, and i am fine with that. i just don't think n-count really matters. and most will disagree, and that's fine. some men will not want to date me, and that is also fine. i think at the end of the day, it's about what you value and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/22 08:48 PM |
| 13 | Say a kid has an illness that requires antibiotics to treat. What should a wife do, in your opinion , if her husband says no to the antibiotics?( He did “research” online and turned against them)get the antibiotics. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/22 02:30 AM |
| 16 | Brain development in boys and girlslol it's very well known that women develop faster than men?? it's been proven over and over. please tell me where exactly in the article it states that the way boys learn is wrong. almost all teacher are female because women naturally fall towards caregiving roles like nursing or education. regardless, your child will be taught by female teachers, or their mother, who is also female. i dont get your point. maybe you should stay at home and teach your children to make them more masculine. the ar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/22 09:39 PM |
| 11 | Brain development in boys and girlsquestion: if you don't have the monetary ability to keep the kids at home, how does one make sure boys are getting the education they need, tied to their attention span? under the assumption that this article is true, how do you make sure boys are being taught properly? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Walk away from womenwrong sub? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 17 | What hopes and dreams do you have for your daughter?of course. she is free to pursue happiness. she does not need to follow my path, nor would i EVER force her to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/22 05:58 PM |
| 0 | What's a good balance between doing what you want and what your boyfriend wants?thanks, but aposematism refers to prey scaring off a predator. i would not like to date a predator. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/22 01:52 AM |
| 0 | What's a good balance between doing what you want and what your boyfriend wants?all of my tattoos have personal meaning and frankly i just like the way they look. i also like piercings because the way they look. i guess everything boils down to me liking the way they look. i dont think im particularly swayed by social media or social groups. ive always thought piercings were pretty, way before i had access to the internet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/22 03:47 PM |
| -9 | What's a good balance between doing what you want and what your boyfriend wants?thank you for this. i really want this. and i think he should be okay with compromising on minor physical preferences. i want this piercing very much, and i am worried about growing resentful of him being too controlling about things i see as very minor and thank you for the advice, that's why i chose the vertical labret. grows through your lip, so very little chance of tooth/gum damage | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/22 03:29 PM |
| 7 | What's a good balance between doing what you want and what your boyfriend wants?hello, thank you for this in depth comment. we've had conversations about our ideal futures, and i think they match up okay. in the future, if he thinks the resentment is too much, then he can tell me and ill take it out | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/22 03:04 PM |
| 12 | What's a good balance between doing what you want and what your boyfriend wants?thank you, I appreciate this comment. I will rethink my stance! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | How important is intelligence in finding a HV man?thanks for your thoughts but i cannot see why you believe i am overestimating my intelligence? i never claimed to have the highest iq ever. i simply said i was relatively studious. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How important is intelligence in finding a HV man?Hello, and thank you for the comment. In your opinion, is being an engineer a turn off for you? Do you think it's better to marry a SAHM? Best wishes for you and your studies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/22 08:56 AM |
| 2 | How important is intelligence in finding a HV man?awwww this is so sweet! i wish you guys the best | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | How important is intelligence in finding a HV man?Sure. I'll bite. What do you consider intelligent? Why is your metric better than mine? Metrics change, I will agree, but that does not indicate that one metric is fundamentally better than another. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/22 08:47 AM |
| 3 | How important is intelligence in finding a HV man?thank you for the input. i do tend to debate a lot, and im working on realizing that not everyone wants to debate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How important is intelligence in finding a HV man?thank you for this comment! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/22 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Where do you ladies fall on the trad wife to modern wife spectrum?is it bad to have stem degrees? im going for mech e right now then possibly bioengineering grad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/22 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Starting to become afraid of having kids, because I'll be an older mom (30F)this will probably be controversial, but i wanted to give some input from a child of parents with mental disorders my mom's family has a long history of bipolar disorder, so surprise surprise, i also have bd. i hated her for a long time. i didnt understand why she would want to have kids when she's had family members kill themselves and put loved ones through tramatic experiences during episodes. she's a great mom, but i blamed her for a long time. I don't hate my mom anymore. i dont blame her f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/22 04:04 AM |
| 6 | Working woman vs a stay at home momThis is hearsay, but my mom's friend became a sahm. She originally worked in computer science and had a very well paid but demanding job. She tried to go back into the industry when the kids hit highschool, but she wasn't able to get a job. The tech industry moves extremely fast so that 17ish year gap did not look great on her resume. Also, her husband left her and now she works at a hotel trying to make ends meet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/22 09:18 PM |
| 16 | Struggling in my relationshipso hes abusive AND a leech? run away as fast as you can | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/22 01:18 AM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on arranged marriages?i dont know. my friend's (indian) parents had an arranged marriage. to different people. obviously they werent forced per se, but there was a lot of societal pressure and they couldnt really say no. then his mom's first husband cheated on her. then his parent's got together willingly, in a not arranged marriage, and are much happier. so no, you are not guaranteed a hvm. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/22 04:57 PM |
| 7 | Some of you are going to call me a cuckold, a pussy or accuse me of being somehow less of a man. Maybe you think I’m secretly gay.maybe this would do better in TRP? this sub is mostly about commitment, not rape role play. unless you're suggesting that hvm crave to rape women? and as a hvw you should be okay with that...? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/22 06:55 PM |
| 12 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!this book really is lovely. i think it's important to note how flawed the characters are, but remember that it isn't because they are inherently bad people. people need to make tough decisions and unfortunately, life is not fair and some of these tough decisions will mess up your life. i would argue that none of these characters are good rpw role models and none of them are bad. you can cherry pick actions and intentions, but none of the characters inherently embody what rpw stands for/opposes. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/22 06:07 AM |
| 18 | Wrapping Your Mind Around The Idea That Women Like Sex As Much Or More Than Men--The Body Count, Easy Sexual Access, Multiple Orgasms, etc.i think you should probably go outside and touch grass. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/22 09:04 PM |
| 3 | What makes you think of yourself a red pill womanwhat are you planning to do in the future? are you going to/in college? what do you mean by "career,, ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/22 08:39 PM |
| 10 | What makes you think of yourself a red pill womanis the army the most important thing for any given country? is there nothing else of importance? is the only metric for a person being able to fulfill a voting responsibility the ability to function in the army? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/22 04:44 PM |
| 5 | What makes you think of yourself a red pill womanwhat are the physical and mental differences that make women vote incorrectly? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/22 04:36 PM |
| 88 | Critiqued husband out of helping with housework?i would say that you should just stop with the criticism, unless it's extremely important. who cares if the clothes arent properly folded? is it extremely important that all the dishes are done at one time? if i wanted to help out and my s/o was constantly making comments about what im doing wrong, i wouldnt want to help. it would be best to trust him to take care of things and let him do it his own way | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/21 11:25 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]i have no advice, but im sorry you are going through this. i wish you the best of luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Getting married early for a utilitarian purposeno, neither of us have assets | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/21 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Getting married early for a utilitarian purposeIt's a rule for universities to not let first years live off campus | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/21 11:29 PM |
| -3 | Getting married early for a utilitarian purposeMoney. It costs a lot to live on campus. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/21 11:13 PM |
| -5 | Is there a reason why a woman would intentionally destroy her value among men and instead flatter other women for their beauty?what?? why would your mind automatically go to sexual assault??? not everyone holds the same values. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/21 02:12 AM |
| 11 | I think I will never be able to forget my ex. How should I move forward knowing that there is no way I will love anyone like I do my ex?I'm sorry :(( I know therapy is suggested a lot, but I think it has merit and it may be worth your time. I'm sure that you will find some as good/better than your ex, but you first need to stop idealizing him, which therapy would help with. I'm sorry I can't offer more, but I wish you the best of luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/21 07:59 AM |
| 4 | I think I will never be able to forget my ex. How should I move forward knowing that there is no way I will love anyone like I do my ex?If you feel comfortable answering: If he was so great, why is he your ex? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/21 07:55 AM |
| 6 | Gratitude: What are you thankful for?this is such a lovely comment!! i am wishing you the best in life | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Where do you guys fall on the political spectrum? Why?oops! i meant your thoughts on these issues | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Where do you guys fall on the political spectrum? Why?thank you for answering! if you dont mind me asking, and i dont want to start a debate, how do you feel about abortion? i feel like it's a weird topic for libertarians. should the government get the power to dictate that people cannot have abortions? or should abortions be illegal because abortions violate NAP and thus the government must uphold NAP? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Where do you guys fall on the political spectrum? Why?i totally agree, politics is extremely multifarious and makes it difficult to pinpoint where you land on a 1d line. unfortunately, in the US at least, not sure where you're from, politics loses all nuance when it comes to elections and becomes a dichotomy. if you dont mind me asking, could you give me some political opinions that are important in today's society? taxes, second amendment, abortion, healthcare, etc etc | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/21 03:08 AM |
| -1 | Real life RP effects: men in 40s divorcing wives who helped them reach high SMV/RMV?okay, so what is a HVM job? pretty much every single job is based on obedience, whether it be answering to a boss, or answering to buyers and stakeholders. you are also severely misjudging activists. the point of being an activist is to make change in the system. you either believe that obeying the system is bad, and then people in academia are bad and activists are good, or you think that fighting against the system is bad, in which case you would admit that academia is good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Real life RP effects: men in 40s divorcing wives who helped them reach high SMV/RMV?why can't a historian/activist be a HVM? is there something innately bluepilled about being a historian? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/21 06:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little?what makes you say that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 11:03 PM |
| 0 | When did you decide to quit your job after you found out that you were pregnant?i have 6 kids. does it matter? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/21 08:37 PM |
| 11 | When did you decide to quit your job after you found out that you were pregnant?no, not really. op asked for opinions which means people will tell her what needs to be said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/21 08:31 PM |
| 19 | When did you decide to quit your job after you found out that you were pregnant?they are not horrible people. miscarriages are awful and they are so unfortunate, but it is something that happens. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How to STFU when I know I'm right?HGHHGGHGHH i cant just do him like that b | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/21 12:02 AM |
| 6 | Struggling with my BluePill girlfriend.Just to be honest, I would consider myself far more blue-pilled than most people on this subreddit. Politically, I side with your girlfriend more than you. I think it is important to understand that her idea of "thinking logically" is different than yours. Nobody ever thinks they have irrational opinions; I am sure that she believes she is thinking logically. Obviously, you can try the regular debating strategies. I would honestly try to figure out what convinces her the best. Facts? Articles/ne… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How young is too young to be in a commited relationship?We are both political people, and usually up for good debate. He doesn't think the sex offender registry should exist, like how felons should be able to vote. I agree with his stance in all honesty, but I don't want to talk about it. I think he felt as if I would be able to handle a debate on that topic because we have casual debates all the time. I was not able to handle it, and I don't think he was able to see that based on my facial expressions/body language. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How young is too young to be in a commited relationship?Yeah, that was the worst fight we have ever had. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How young is too young to be in a commited relationship?So one fight we had was because I made a (bad) joke in front of his family and some of his family friends. I said that AnCap (anarcho capitalism) means anti-capitalism. A couple days after, he said that I was an embarrassment and he wouldn't introduce me to his friends in the future. I apologized for the joke and then said that he should've called me out at that point in time, and then I would've clarified that it was a joke. In the end, we agreed to communicate more and give clear boundaries ab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/21 09:33 PM |
| 3 | How young is too young to be in a commited relationship?Thank you for the reply! We are not in a LDR. We see each other close to every day. We do talk long term, but not super directly. We plan on going to the same university, not because of the relationship, but because we both like in-state tuition haha. I know what he wants in his future and he knows what I want. We both agree that our ideas of the future match well. We don't really yell, but we do raise our voices. We usually disagree over small things like politics or morality that turn into "ar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 10 | How young is too young to be in a commited relationship?I'm a little worried because I fight quite a bit with my current boyfriend. We always communicate after and we never fight over the same thing twice. Do you think that will change with age? Did this happen with you and your husband when you were my age? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/21 07:25 PM |
| 12 | How to be Lovely: A Guide to Attracting a Wonderful ManSorry, new to the sub. What is OLD? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/21 06:53 AM |
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