Is it common for women to completely ignore you when their boyfriends are around?

seattleron · 2016-09-22T17:47:11+00:00

Who gives a shit what women with boyfriends do? Focus on the ones who don't.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2016-09-22T16:56:55+00:00

Why are you playing 3rd wheel to begin with?

BowlOfCandy · 2016-09-22T17:02:42+00:00

Women will ignore everyone in the room that falls into the lower 80%. The alpha of the room, or AMOG, will be the focus of her attention.

quicklogaccount · 2016-09-22T17:40:14+00:00

Girls are usually polite. The don't ignore guys by standard, because it's risky for them. Tend and befriend. Sometimes her boyfriend gives her enough security though, and she'll abide from that sort of politeness.
If she looks comfortable doing it, it's a sign of good relationship.

blackedoutfast · 2016-09-22T22:47:21+00:00

yes this is pretty normal if you have game or are attractive. especially if she's actually cheating on her boyfriend with you.

omargrunt · 2016-09-22T17:23:43+00:00

They will act like they don't notice you but will steal a glance once in a while. When they look at you like its no big deal thats when they are indifferent.

Peter_B_Long · 2016-09-22T21:39:59+00:00

Either she respects him a ton, or she's scared that he'll get mad at her for giving other guys attention (which is kinda like respect also)

Whenever I talk to the couple, I prefer to talk to the boyfriend more (80%) and the girl (20%). And I would like it also if my girls ignored guys when I was around. Like a good little girl, but I wouldn't get butt hurt about it.

Either way, who give a fuck.

SkorchZang · 2016-09-22T18:56:21+00:00

It's normal. I gather the same woman you have in mind, used to show a lot more attention to you when the borefriend was not in the vicinity?

If so, try to act coy as hell. Like you're "in the know" too, a conspiracy of two. Yup, nothing going on, totally being ignored 100%... bore friend is here, we are not worthy, not worthy.

When the BF is around, girls put on even more "acts" than they usually put on, and they already put on a lot to begin with. Don't even bother trying to "figure it out", plaster a cheeky smile all over your shameless face instead and act like it's cute to you. You know you're doing it right if you manage to unnerve the BF with it.

Title	Is it common for women to completely ignore you when their boyfriends are around?
Author	marcus5454
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	September 22, 2016 4:27 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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