Throughout the 11 months we've been together we've had many issues. To summarize them:

  • 3 instances it looks like I'm about to cheat

  • Me having a lot of girls as friends

  • Not making her feel wanted besides sex

  • Treating her like shit (her words)

  • Not doing things for her that her friends' boyfriends do (take trips, go on frequent dates, public couple pictures, gifts, etc)

I'm a fit good looking guy in college and I thought being in an LTR would be a good idea, but besides pussy and food (but I can cook better), there's not much she gives me that I benefit from. Meanwhile I have to deal with her emotional tantrums, deny party request from girls (last one we went to I brought a girl back to sleep with us because she was too drunk to go to her room. She was a friend of mine from high school), deal with her constant "you make me feel like I'm wasting your time"

I'm looking to plate her in a nice way since she's attached to me and even though she says things like "My life was better without you in it" "Go fuck other girls, I know that's all you want to do" after we fight, she texts me asking me to go sleep with her because she can't sleep alone.

She's "broken up" with me 8 times but always comes back to me. Breaking up meaning she text that to me then cries in her room for a few hours then asks me to come over please and we get "back together".

Advice please to make this gentle? I'm not ready for a relationship and I'm basically an asshole to her based on the way she's acting.