I feel like the CEO of an MLM but simply build your artifice.

Who you are right now is unsuccessful with women and in life them just chose experiences that add to your life.

Sleep earlier, go to the gym, learn how to fight.

Chose and pursue a career that you want.

And above all judge wo en by the exact same standards.

If she can't add to your life emotionally and monetarily then cut her out. Friendzone the Shit out if her.

Be machavelian about it. Think long and hard. Fake a more outgoing personality if you want to build up male friendships and female ones.

Just roleplay as a labrador when you see them, be excited when you see them. Make them feel heardeven when they are telling you about that craft beer they had 5 years ago for the 100th time or when they talk about how hard it was fir them in callege when they pursued sex fir validation to fill that hole

Sympathetically nod your head and provide an atmosphere of safety even after if you are judging the fuck out of them

And if you do find them repulsive do not approach them for sex relationships. That's a road to hell waiting to happen.

Build your artifice now ... Right now.

Because it doesn't matter how good you are on the inside if you are less appealing than Dogshit on the outside.