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LTR says: "You don't let me feel special". How to reply?

ethreax

September 30, 2016
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Title LTR says: "You don't let me feel special". How to reply?
Author

ethreax

Upvotes 1
Comments 6
Date September 30, 2016 9:28 AM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5574ig/ltr_says_you_dont_let_me_feel_special_how_to_reply/
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[–]quicklogaccount2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

sex + Attention.

I suppose you know the forms of affection she's most sensitive to. Do it, but escalate a LOT. If she's nagging about the sex you have a deeper issue.

My ex didn't place a lot of value on "quality time", so a quick weekend trip and romantic dinners didn't mean a lot. But an inexpensive gift with no special occasion worked wonders.

[–]TheStumblingWolf0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I haven't seen it discussed on RP but in my experience it holds true that there are 5 ways of showing affection (according to the theory): http://www.5lovelanguages.com/ for more info.

[–]quicklogaccount0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. That's some golden stuff for people willing to make it work.

Mainstream has a lot of decent work on compatibility, I suppose there's not much use debating that sort of stuff around here.

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

a man does best when he abandons his ego...

a woman spends 99% of her time protecting & nurturing her ego.

she's on the "feels" playing field. women are 100% undefeated in that game bc they can change the target constantly.

when she says, "I don't feel special," tell her, "I don't feel that YOU are working hard enough in your goal to attain my last name; it takes effort, not MY work to satisfy your feels."

[–]SetConsumes1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Comfort test. She wants to know she's unique and human to you, to know that you think of her as special and different and not just like any other cunt you could drop her for.

Feed her some genuine lines periodically about things you like about her that make her different than most cunts you've met or know.

To take that to another level, is if you figure out her weaknesses and appeal to those. What does she want to identify as. Where is her confidence stemming from. Appeal to what she wants you to appeal to, what she wishes more people recognized about her.

[–]trpthroway1232 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"You nicknamed my cock 'special'?"

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