Why people say that dating and getting lots of attention is easy for any woman? How true is this?

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-07-16T15:25:48+00:00

No circle jerking

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-16T14:33:23+00:00

I'd agree that women generally have more options for casual sex than men do and sometimes more options for long-term relationships as well. It doesn't mean all women have decent options though or that women don't have other issues men don't really have to deal with like date rapes, for example.

A lot of men here talk exclusively about women they themselves pay attention on. These are very attractive young women, probably women who have a big presence online, as some men here spend more time looking at women online than communicating with them in real life.

brightglowup · 2022-07-16T14:57:24+00:00

Am I right if I say that an ugly and unattractive woman has more options and is still more desirable to men than an unattractive and ugly men and even if a man is handsome and attractive he will not receive the same attention and chase/harassment from women comparing to the amount of stares and ( often unwanted) attention an attractive women receive from men?

Being fucked by men who dont like you has zero parity with romantic success.

If anything, its worse than loneliness.

It is more like being a toilet. It serves a biological function and takes a bodily waste in a brief moment.

No more no less.

The arguments in this sub continue because either

1) men lack empathy and cannot understand this simple concept until THEY feel used (paying a $30 meal for someone who wont sleep with them is high crimes but emptying a nutsack in a other persons body regardless of implications is fine 🤡)

Or

2) men here are liars who willfully engage these topics with disingenuous redefinitions of romantic intentions and sex.

Either way, the men here are the problem. I stand on that, ten toes down

A man can easily understand how telling him to get on his knees and have his face glazed by a disrectful, foul person is not romantic success and yet see the infinite ways women are told they can do this to invalidate female loneliness

"Male issues" as defined by the manosphere are self inflicted. #ThePinkPill

Edit:

What about an obese and ugly woman? Or a woman with hormonal imbalance like those with PCOS? Or a woman with autism or some other sort of deficiency? Then her attention from men and dating options are pretty low right?

Pink Pill: Men modulate their treatment of women based on their attractiveness.

Ergo what about these women? They dont count. The guys will tell you themselves. Undesirable male loneliness is oppression because its absence of sexual attention from DESIRABLE women, see?

What happens to women that dont count is not worth discussing bc no one cares.

Gotta focus on the loneliness that unwanted men endure, not the ugly women that the unwanted men dont want.

Hope that helps.

renfsu · 2022-07-16T15:22:38+00:00

I think women's struggles with dating are self inflicted. Even if you are an ugly woman you probably have a rotation of guys at any moment. The issue is that these women think they are above the guys in their rotation so they come to reddit and complain about how "no one approaches them". This includes ugly, obese, severely burned women, and probably women who don't have legs. Some guy will still be attracted to her.

This comes down to the fact that women have inherent value. Men have to work for their value. For every man, his equivalent is going to have more options (except men at the top because having unlimited female options is better than having unlimited male options. You can only get pregnant so many times).

I won't sit here and say dating as a woman is easy. It's cutthroat and there are more attractive women than men so some of them are gonna be left alone. But as a whole I'd say it's easier for women everywhere except for the most attractive people.

crispickle · 2022-07-16T15:30:34+00:00

https://youtu.be/dKmvvBelNcw

This video is all the proof you need that ALL women have dating on easy mode.

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toasterchild · 2022-07-16T15:01:11+00:00

A certain percentage of people are going to have a victim complex. If you're having a hard time it's common to think everyone else has it easy.

wrathofkalima · 2022-07-16T15:07:59+00:00

Apparently we get billionaire chads chasing us everyday

anjovis150 · 2022-07-16T15:18:43+00:00

Because men are less picky and generally get way less attention unless they are very attractive. All of this is fairly obvious without even going to statistics.

Title	Why people say that dating and getting lots of attention is easy for any woman? How true is this?
Author	SabrineYasmine
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Comments	17
Date	July 16, 2022 2:22 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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