Luckily most women I come across are physically attracted to me.

Unfortunately I have 0 game, but I've developed some aloof/disinterested/outcome-independent GENERAL social strategies.

Basically, with the help of what I've leaned about fixing myself internally and 600mg of L-theanine, I can be pretty relaxed in social interactions. But that's it. I can maybe lead some interactions if I feel like talking. But I'm not "funny" or very "exciting" or "challenging". I know I should learn to be less boring but atm that would be "approval-seeking" and I'm focusing on fixing myself first.

Anyway, because most women are already attracted to me, should I apply the same principles I would to spark attraction? Or should I be more laid-back and more "approving" (as opposed cold, disqualifying, and hard-to-get)?

I know it's not a black-and-white issue but I think that by getting my toes wet with gaming women that already want me I can more easily proceed to learning "real" game (sparking attraction strategically). I think this because I have 0 experience with women and I don't have friends.

I'm the new guy at work and there's one girl I'm interested in. Today she made obvious moves towards tying to talk to me playfully, but because I'm a social autist I pretty much ignored her because I don't know how to interact in a sexually progressive manner and I don't want to fuck it up (and I know that's not the mindset I should have, but it is hard to keep positive when I really don't know what I should do).

Someone told me to "just ask them questions let them talk and smile along". That's good and I can do that, but obviously it's not enough.

So, how should I spice things up?