I've been both awakened and slightly bummed by all the TRP info I've read so far. I'm 50 and I've been beta all my life. My question is whether anyone can ever really learn to be an alpha male. It seems to me that either your born that way or you were raised that way, so it's kind of innate. So what do you think? With study and practice could a beta male ever really change or are we destined to be a deluded wannabes?