Disclaimer: My ex (7 year relationship) has expressed how me not wanting/needing/demanding anything of her was a problem I’m disgusted by the idea of being taken care of or served. On the whole I think that if your thoughts on a LTR are focused on your gain, your relationships are f’d and you’ll always be disappointed.

Anywho, I eat like once a day, even on double days, don’t care for food that much. I really believe that the 3 motivations a lot of guys have for making that a standard are, 1. They don’t want to learn or are lazy, 2. Want to feel served, 3. Other guys said this is what manly men of old demanded, not because they care about food that much if they do they need to mind their priorities.

House chores, I tend to think a woman would just get in my way of getting things done and done properly not because she’s a woman but because most roommates I’ve ever had suck at cleaning. All of my siblings kind of think this about house chores probably because we took care of ourselves and grew up super dysfunctional 😂 I guess I’d just want an intimate relationship for friendship, someone to express my love to and take care of, and children…maybe my standards are too low 🤷🏾‍♂️