My LTR is texting another guy

GreenPiller · 2017-08-21T06:54:08+00:00

You don't have a solid case yet. I would just keep an eye on her.

atticusfinch1973 · 2017-08-21T11:38:19+00:00

Are you going to flip out every time you see a guys name on her phone? If so, you're obviously way too emotionally invested in her. Stop worrying about it.

If every guy here would just go ahead and assume that their girlfriends (especially if you're under 25) are going to cheat on them and stop being so damned invested then they would be so much better off and stop worrying about stuff that won't matter in five years.

1Pink1Stink · 2017-08-21T05:30:46+00:00

Jesus, calm your tits. You have no idea who this guy is and what they're talking about. It could be anything.

Read those texts and find out. Until then, you have nothing to confront her with.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-08-21T12:49:59+00:00

Fire up the Dread Machine.

junior_painkiller · 2017-08-21T05:28:39+00:00

Did you see the messages? Or just a fact that she was texting this number?

Carbone · 2017-08-21T06:02:13+00:00

you should be texting other girl.

If that is not the case focus one the fact that as a guy you have everything to never be alone on this planet. Persistence, taking action and beings fearless can bring you any girl in your life. You might not think of that about yourself right now but you're able to find another girl if this one go away.

so enjoy what ever you want right now. You play some video game go play some and don't overreact about her texting someone else.

If she want to cheat on you she will. you can't do nothing about it.

So focus on how you can bounce back from the worst scenario instead of trying to prevent it.

read some stoic books

SovereignSoul76 · 2017-08-21T14:20:19+00:00

1) Maybe just ask. Not for a truthful answer, but to see how she reacts when when she hears you say his name. Maybe spice it up and tell her she said his name in her sleep. 2) Answer kind of iffy? Get into her phone. Shouldn't be too tough.

But also - yeah, just be aware that you doing any/all of this is a demonstration of the fact that you're invested in her. Just recognize that, and maybe find a way to lessen it, irrespective of your findings.

FuckboyAWALT · 2017-08-21T08:23:15+00:00

By checking her phone you already entered the beta state.

Why would you care? Enjoy the time you got with her and always be ready to move on.

Once you have that abundance mentality you won't waste your time on shit like that.

Title	My LTR is texting another guy
Author	red12717
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	August 21, 2017 5:24 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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