The typo was unintentional but became intentional. I hope I hooked somebody with this title. But I really need your help brothers.

Basically a girl was being really shitty to me, shit tested me, at work (corporate office). I actually basically kneeled down though bringing the shit test straight to me. But she did it out of pure hatred for me, whereas I was genuinely trying to be nice. It was a pure victory for her, but God she's fucked up. I hope I never stoop to that level. IF anyone knows what I mean by this (exact scenario is irrelevant I think), what do I do to fix it? Obviously fucking her is off the table, forever. I wanted to do it for a long time, she obv knows.

Here's my plan (so far). I wait a day, I don't do anything tomorrow. Just to show her I didn't react as much as she probably thinks I did with this victory. I focus on my work tomorrow. Yeah, I'll be honest, it got to me. But I also had an absolutely awesome day regardless, despite that. So I will make sure to reflect on the good before I go to bed as well.

After I wait a day, I go in to the office, and at the end of the day, walk to her desk and act as if absolutely nothing happened. I don't be a beta about it, I just say something so totally irrelevant and she ends up super confused, thinking I'm either retarded or I get an even bigger victory than she did by demonstrating she can't throw me off the wagon, all she can do is phase me temporarily.

Good plan, or bad plan? Escalating hatred passively aggressively is OFF the table. She's a master at it, and that's playing into her frame.