( life lessons I learned from my father, coaches, and the internet)

Basic tenets of Masculinity

Lift,fight,read,develop skills,appearance

A mans duty is to protect and provide

Climb the social hierarchy

Be tough as nails, nothing can hurt you

Be a monster,then learn how to control it

Men cannot allow feelings to cloud there mind, or influence there judgement. Those who are controlled by their emotions, are slaves to their emotions. Those who let wild emotionality influence their thought process are weak. Control Your innerself

A man must think logically, and rationally. A man must be in control of his emotions at all times. Emotion should be used as fuel for something productive. A man does not cry and complain when something goes wrong, he simply bears up and works to fix the problem.

A man must struggle fight and persevere. Never whine cry and boo hoo about hard life is. No bitching and complaining for you. Keep your head on straight get your shit together be strong and stoic. Do not show weakness. Be a boulder in the middle of the tempest. No matter how much it hurts no matter how much you want to give up, you never can. Fight through the pain. No matter what gets in your way just keep on struggling

Keep your emotions, controlled but sometimes you need to express your anger to get your point across and show people you are not a weak doormat. You still need to assert yourself be aggressive dominant powerful and demand respect

Have self control but don’t be a fucking pussy. Having self control does not mean being a pathetic spineless weak willed fucking cowardly bitch. Be brave, strong courageous, take action, and take risks

GREATER VALUES OF MASCULINITY

  • Take extreme ownership and accountability for your actions. Don’t make bullshit excuses.
  • Don’t self pity, don’t waste time crying and whining, if you have a problem get to work and start solving it
  • Fuck your excuses grind and work hard, be disciplined and go after your goals. Then make even bigger goals
  • Be aggressive and calm at the same time. remain in control of your emotions and do not stupid things throw you off and effect your mind while still being aggressive and assertive. Have a competition mindset. focused driven and emotionally controlled but still aggressive, assertive,and dominant have that mindset that comes out in competitive sports in your daily life
  • Live with conviction, in who you and what you do. Find your purpose in life and cultivate it. Develop yourself and do what you were put on this earth to do.
  • Never bend the knee, never surrender never compromise your values under any circumstance. Do what you know is right. Be loyal to your ideals. Stand up for what you believe in no matter what. Even if you are the only one