Walking away from a fight

eojr · 2017-08-23T14:36:53+00:00

It's not worth it man. Carry on and become successful. The biggest insult is indifference.

Let that group keep their poison, you don't have to drink it.

DeepRedTomato · 2017-08-23T15:52:30+00:00

LOL! Ignore, completely, but if this fucker comes at you in person confrontationally you can either call the cops or destroy him physically if you can. Usually though, avoid fights and confrontations if you can since one punch can fuck up your face for life.

sd4c · 2017-08-23T17:13:49+00:00

A white knight is calling you? Laugh and hang up then block him.

If he shows up to your workplace have him arrested. If he shows up at your house, take him apart. But don't be "nice" about it, or "fair". Tase him, then mace him, then whip him with your belt until he runs away like the bitch he is

Westernhagen · 2017-08-23T16:06:08+00:00

Nah. If he attacks you, defend yourself, otherwise ignore. No benefit to you in fighting, large potential downside

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-08-23T21:29:54+00:00

Sir White of Knight: "Sir darksynthwave the Black...words, words, words...You have insulted Milady...words, words, words...duel...words, words, words...at dawn!"

You: "You are letting some girl manipulate you. I am not."

CLICK

spicy_fries · 2017-08-23T17:40:35+00:00

If you are not protecting someone from harm, always walk away.

People are fragile. A punch you throw could literally kill someone. Never engage. Walk away. Life isn't high school.

Thizzlebot · 2017-08-23T16:49:00+00:00

You shouldn't even have engaged him. The conversation should have been "fuck off fag, nothings going to happen she ain't going to fuck you for being a white knight, don't call me again you loser"

RepostGhostCst2Cst · 2017-08-23T19:14:25+00:00

I learned a long time ago that fighting over a woman is never worth it. I too accepted a fight over the phone over a slut and it ended with me sitting in a police interrogation room...

Hormones and adrenaline make you stupid sometimes

CryptoManbeard · 2017-08-23T20:29:35+00:00

You lost when you reacted. Practice stoicism.

highdingo · 2017-08-23T18:58:27+00:00

You already lost the fight and that's why you feel shitty. You let the white Knight brake your frame and put yourself in a position where you had to act or look like a punk.

She cried to her guy friend. He calls you up and you reacted. Why? He wanted a response. She wanted a response. Now he looks all tough in her eyes and she has the satisfaction of having some one else try and intimidate you and you reacted too it. Had you just blown him off, she would have been left frustrated and he would have looked dumb for trying.

Him- "blah blah doesn't matter blah abuse , I aught to blah"

You - "nice story bro, if I gave a shit I'd still be with her. BTW the sex sucks so stop trying so hard". And then you block him and her.

cesafacinaicesafaci · 2017-08-23T19:15:18+00:00

Why would you fight someone who is not right in front of you or doesn't owe you anything? Are you fucking retarded?

Why risk your body integrity or even freedom? Bitch almost played you.

dr_warlock · 2017-08-23T22:55:40+00:00

You yelled at a beta you dont know on the phone about a girl you no longer see? Da fuck? Should have just hung up and blocked him.

MuhTriggersGuise · 2017-08-23T19:52:40+00:00

The only time you should fight is if you get attacked, and you shouldn't be getting yourself in situations where you get attacked. WTF are you entering a woman's frame for and bickering with some doofus she's trying to sick on you? You should be absorbed in your own awesome life so much that you don't have time for such trivial childish bickering.

ForeverMaverick · 2017-08-23T22:41:14+00:00

You said it yourself. Fuck their perception. It has no value to you, there's is nothing that you can gain from it. I wouldn't even had entertained the other dude, it's none of his business, but what's done is done.

If she feels like a whore, it's on her. You didn't make her do it and she sure did it for 6 months. You have zero responsability. Well done.

Crimson-Eyes · 2017-08-24T00:28:25+00:00

You aren't feeling like that because you "backed from a fight", you're most likely feeling mad at yourself because you let her WK bait you into barking at him on the phone like an idiot and you pretty much committed yourself that you'd kick his ass and after you calmed down you realized it's a waste of time and you gain absolutely nothing from it. Now your word means a pile of dog shit.

Meanwhile the WK essentially allowed himself to be a piece of meat for your ex-girlfriend, and not in the way he'd like to be, he will just be a slab of meat she can cry and whine to, and put himself in harms way with the likely false hope he'll get pussy out of it (unlikely).

If you go and fight, she comes out as the sole winner in making a couple of tools do what she wanted. The best revenge against someone who is out of your life is building a successful life without them.

What is TRP saying about this kind of situations?

Maintaining frame which is pretty basic tbh, you might wanna start reading again from the very basics. --->

Kisstafer1 · 2017-08-23T16:44:00+00:00

Bro I thought this story was actually going to have a good reason to fight it it... But it's just some silly bullshit. Grow a pair of nuts kid and grow the fuck up. Only reasons to fight is if someone harms your familia my friend. And in those cases, you don't fight, you kill

ScottDurden · 2017-08-23T18:43:17+00:00

There's literally no real benefit to fighting another person. The only outcomes are you gain a sense of pride from winning the fight or you receive brain damage & lose teeth.

Duzand · 2017-08-23T18:55:03+00:00

You didn't walk away from anything. Reads like this was all over the phone, which is not a real fight. That's called an "argument." I got excited for nothing.

Throwaway4455567 · 2017-08-23T18:56:19+00:00

No need to fight him. But if you see him irl and he says even a single word, kick his fucking ass.

TheStumblingWolf · 2017-08-23T19:37:54+00:00

Even the fiercest predators in nature walk away if there's even a slight chance they could get hurt and compromise their ability to feed themselves. No reason a sensible man shouldn't do the same.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-08-24T02:44:45+00:00

I have a hard time imagining a scenario where a guy is calling me that I don't want to talk to

Mudpielol · 2017-08-24T07:40:27+00:00

But I realised that If i fight no matter what happens, I will be the guy who got manipulated by a girl into a totally unnecessary fight

Only way to win that game, is to not play it. I think you made the logical choice. Think about it, you were going to fight and hurt (or get hurt) for some words a stupid bimbo throwed out. Don't fall for that.

I would go so far to say that unless you or those close to you are in immediate physical danger, these days it's just better to let it go. You can always buy new things, you can't come back from the dead or raise the dead.

bobtheseal · 2017-08-24T12:50:45+00:00

what are you a 10 year old? geezzz

Aesteic · 2017-08-23T16:00:29+00:00

Really depends on the situation and if you have a reputation to maintain. Unless you're known for being the type that would whoop someone's ass in this situation, there's no reason to fight.

Nucka574 · 2017-08-23T22:24:47+00:00

and skip out on an assault charge? Yes. Absolutely walk away. You did the right thing. If you want to fight join a Muay Thai gym.

Zet_EM · 2017-08-23T22:06:54+00:00

I thought you red pill mens were strong people.

Well, turns out you're all pussies.

Title	Walking away from a fight
Author	darksynthwave
Upvotes	20
Comments	36
Date	August 23, 2017 2:24 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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